Question:
i fell in love with a girl but i don't have any job,car,money etc.how can i ask her to be my wife?
Masoud
2006-04-04 06:26:28 UTC
she is very beutiful and am student of univercity .i need her.because she is the only girl who i can live with.now tell me how can i ask her that i would hear posetive answer?
Eleven answers:
Yourdz
2006-04-04 06:29:21 UTC
first of all, you should have money. so start looking for job. in these days no one could survive long without money.
2006-04-04 06:32:38 UTC
You don't need to rush into marriage. If she is the one, then you will be together forever anyway won't you? Are you scared of losing her, and that is why you want to marry her now? You will scare her away if this is the case. Also, remember that weddings cost about £17,000 on average - and it is not so common anymore for the bride's parents to pay for everything, you will have to pay for a lot of the wedding too. Wait a couple of years until you are settled and know you are both ready.
orangejuuice7890
2006-04-04 07:14:29 UTC
well i got to tell u my mom went into a relation ship to fast and now she's got 3 kids; 2 from the smae dad but he left her because he wasn't up to the responsibility; but the other kids dad she married and he was worth less and now she is 28 dating on and off and is seeking a divorce. also if u tink she is the right girl just ask her if she is ready and if she is then you two have to work together and try not to have a kid until u got decent $. well i hope u don't make the same mistake my mom did but HEY i cant tell you what to do it is all your choice. i hope u make the right choice!!!!! also if u guys do hook up make sure you get a job really fast. well if u need any advice come to me i will help you man. well g2g

~orangejuuice7890~
♥honey♥
2006-04-04 06:30:40 UTC
First, get a job. Then, when she sees how hard you work, she will think, "Wow. He's a really great guy!" Don't just marry her cuz you think she's beautiful. She will see through that. When you realize that you would love her even if she was not beautiful, when you get a job, then ask her to marry you. Renaissance Man is right...If she's the right one, she will wait for you.

Hope this helps
Princess
2006-04-04 06:29:42 UTC
get a job first otherwise you'll just end up fighting about money etc. Besides that, hire a canoe or something, have a romantic picnic then propse. However, you really need a job first, you can't propose without a ring.
2006-04-04 06:34:24 UTC
You sound young. and the young always think with things other than their BRAINS. If you really love her . Then you should want to start a future for your self. Then when you have a future to offer her, than ask her to marry you. There is no way you will make it if you try it vice versa...
2006-04-04 06:28:27 UTC
If she is the right one, she'll wait. Get a job, find a little apartment, save your nickels and buy a car. Then you can get married.
tony_copeland
2006-04-04 06:35:31 UTC
Just ask her. You can figure out all that **** together. She can help you get the job, car, money etc.
2006-04-04 06:48:06 UTC
I am totally in love with my boyfriend and i wouldn't care if he didn't have a penny to his name I'd just be happy he wants to spend his life with me. If your girl loves you like you love her, she won't care and will just be happy that she has you. I think you sound lovely and shes very lucky to have you.
>>marilyn<<
2006-04-04 06:31:50 UTC
get a steady life before u ask her anythin... (i.e: get a job, a steady income, a decent place to stay...)

no gal wud b stupid enuf to risk her future wit a guy who has nothing to his name...
2006-04-04 06:31:15 UTC
she may be the right girl for you, but you may not be her mister right.


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