Triangel Love.. I love my Fiancee. She loves a new guy & He loves her.?

Question

Been in Love with my Girl for 3 years and finally its wedding time. She too loved me but now says that the love has faded. She is ready to marry me as everything is set... But said that She loves a new Guy and He too loves her back.

I Love her..... She loves Him.... He loves her but he is not sure about wedding.

What DO I do............ I'm Messed up.

Answer 1

Don't try to change her. Don't make ultimatums. Don't pout. Don't cry.



She needs to just be herself.



And now that you know this about her, is this what you want to sign up for?



Is this a deal breaker?



Personally, I think you should let her go.



You can do better than her!



*

*

*

Answer 2

first of all i agree with the others she should have told it to you earlier maybe about a week or two before the marriage.. there's also a point that i kinda don't agree when they said that she's just playing with you.. okay if i may ask during the time that she still loves you did you feel her affection of love for you? if you did then that means she really did love you.but dude i suggest you call your wedding off and tell every one that you can't marry some one who's heart doesn't belong to you anymore i know that it's embarrassing to say it but this will make you feel much more better and it will also help in making you a great man.,dude can't you see that this is a sign that was given by god that this girl isn't still the right one for you after all those years and when your finally ready to make a lifetime commitment with each other her feelings just fade away dude this shows that she doesn't deserve your love....

Answer 3

first of all , if this just happened recently and she's talking about love and all those with this new guy, frankly speaking, she's too childish. like high school kids who say i love you without meaning it. BUT if they really LOVED each other, this must have been happening for quite sometime already. which means, she has been sneaking around your back, cheating on you!

you CANNOT marry her now. i'm not telling you that you have no chance of marrying her in the future, but it all has to depends on how things work out. you guys definitely need to sit down and talk. no kidding! find out what's really going on. be blunt and say out whatever is on your mind, i'm sure you guys can do that really well by now to be able to talk about marrying enough other. ask her what she wants to do. obviously you can't be marrying somebody else who doesnt love you. if they really loved each other, learn to let her go, and wish her happiness with the other guy, despite your anger and sorrow. you'll meet someone who deserve your love more than her in the future. she's just not the one! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Find a real woman. This lady is obviously messing around behind your back in order to know she has love for this other Man. Think about you and your future, not all about her. Do YOU want to marry somebody and spend the rest of your life with somebody who gets feelings of love for other men? There are plenty of women out there who would not be like that and would love you but they can't have you because you are with this mess of a woman.

Answer 5

That doesn't sound like a love triangle. That sounds like they are in love, and you are on the outside. You need to really sit down and think about this. If she is only marrying you because it is "set," and she loves this new guy, then you are setting yourself up for being cheated on and getting divorced in the long run. You also need to think about whether or not you want to be with someone who doesn't love you. And if you really love her, wouldn't you want her to be happy with the other man, who she does love?



Just things to think about. No one can tell you what to do. But it sounds like you need to calm down and think about this rationally.



Good luck!

Answer 6

She's a bit of a slag and shouldnt be doing this, she should have atleast told you before all of the wedding stuff.

Just leave her, and find someone who loves you back.

Hope you're okay x



ORR you could try and get her back, but tbh, you cant make someone love you and just leave her to it.

Answer 7

she loves him and he loves her but he doesnt wanna marry her so she is ready to marry you to fool you, the others and herself.





u shud drop it all and find a new love as well...even its difficult for ya since u still luv her, rt...but thats life....u gotta decide if u wanna be a fool for ur whole life or juz till now...its in ur hands...i dont wanna blame her...obviously she is also confused and she doesnt wanna hurt ya....



anyways ..let it be before things get worse...really worse....and restart ur life...cuz u still have a chance to get happy...but if u dont drop it u will be unhappy till the end. wish u all the best!





tc

Answer 8

I feel you can better make her understand the difference between your and his love and see that she will make a good decision of getting married with the perfect person

Answer 9

You need to let her go. You want and deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them.

Answer 10

just have a three way :) it will solve all of your issues with a happy ending that you don't need to pay for.. to be serious tho id leave her its not fair on you for her to love someone else. there i no point to marriage if one party isn't fully there, you don't want to prolong a broken heart.

Answer 11

tr angular mater one has to scarifies with broad mind . but b4 it arrange t secrete meeting & discus who wanna to become scarifies er

Answer 12

kick that b|tch to the curb before you marry her, then get divorced so she can cash in on all that alimony and child support (read: extortion). don't fall for this sh|t man.

Answer 13

What? You need it in writing? Hit the road Jack ,and don't come back NO more, no more, no more,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Answer 14

just f*** her n throw her out of ur life.

Answer 15

Kill her with a flamethrower.

Answer 16

leave her,forget her now.