High School prom???????????

Question

I literally cried the whole week but I think i feel fine now....

2 of my friends asked a girl out to prom 4 weeks ago (one friend 4 weeks ago, another friend 3 weeks ago). Lets say A and B. And i asked A if he could help me find a prom and i asked him three times per week and all he said was "Yeah. I really want you to go. I'll think of someone." He repeated that everyday until the very last week.

I said "time is running out..." and he said "okay okay. I'll help you." And i asked someone myself randomly but because i didn't know them, I got rejected 3 times. I asked a girl i didn't talk to in drama class (rejected), asked in English class (rejected). And the thing is, they don't have a prom but i guess they're fobs that make them think prom is "bad stuff."

Anyway, on the very last day, we all met friends and their own proms. Then, my friend told me he asked his prom if there's a girl and she said it's too late... And i walked home alone and cried.. again. I don't think it was right to go alone because the group was only 2 of my friends and their prom and it would be super awkward to go with them especially since i don't talk much..

I'll never get an opportunity like this again, since it's my last year of High School.. and I NEVER went to a dance event or a girl-guy dating or any of these events because... i'm "loser" in a way....
What should i do to get over this depression? I don't think i could be happy again.. I knew i would have been super happy if i just got a prom date but no...

Answer 1

Your story is soooo sad and made me cry. One question, I see u take drama class. Are u gay? Because that would complicate things. If u want to go to prom, just go. Dance by yourself if u have to. Just enjoy the experience. Di what you want and don't let other people or their opinions define you or what u do. Half of them are idiots anyway.

Answer 2

You can't blame other people for not finding a prom date for you. If you wanted a prom date, you should have asked girls yourself until you found someone to go with.



As for this being your last chance, it's really not. If you go to college, there will be plenty of parties you can go to. It will be different than high school dances, but you can have fun and go on dates with girls, and put prom behind you.

Answer 3

Just go to your Sr. Prom. I had a situation like that my Sr. prom last year. So I was being set up by someone one i never met but graudated a year a head of me. But he never came to the school to buy the ticket. While the same time my friend was also being set up. His date was a girl from GA who was coming up to move, and would be here in time for prom. But that never happened. These dates were both arragned by my friend, and when it was time for us to get our tickets she was no were to be found cause she left and it was us two with out any infomation on the phone with my friend who set us up. But the day of the prom came, and that one friend who did have a date decided not to go anymore, and we were all sharing the same car. But luckly I found a friend who was going to prom and got in the car with us. So It was me, my friends and their date. I went alone, and I had a blast! Going alone does not mean anything. I mean my dad bought be my flowers. People saw that and asked who was your date, and I said me, myself and I. (you can use that if you want). I mean when we started to dance really no one was with their dates. Everyone was everywere. I was with all my friends, and to be truthful, People say that they had more fun dateless because they have more freedom to go where ever they want, vs the dates.