Very disapointed in engagement ring...?

Question

My boyfriends mom gave him a ring years ago amd told him to give it to the girl he wants to be with or whatever. Well he lost it. So he stole one from his sister. A cheap, fake ring that he stole from his sister who bought it at Claires. CLAIRES! A freaking KIDS store. It even had "Claires" engraved in it. Is that all Im worth to him?!

Answer 1

Need not to be disappointed anymore. I can understand that engagement ring is special but one cannot measure the level or heights of love by this. Love and relationship is far above all of this. You should understand the situation first. Go through the truth and make a royal decision. Always remember, Your decision is the best.

Good luck.

Answer 2

You dodged a bullet.

He isn't mature enough to be married, much less have a child.

Please don't say you'll work this out- he STOLE a kid's ring?

Of course, this has nothing to do with your demanding an expensive ring- it's just ridiculous what he did. He could have come to you and said he wants to marry you, but has no money - and that would have been different. It's obvious he doesn't know what he's doing, and it may be a long time before he does.



Ugh. I'm sorry. Toss him back, and Go Fish.

Answer 3

I see problems on both your ends. On your side of things you seem pretty obsessed with getting your "dream ring" which is more about your own materialism than the significance of the ring itself. There are women who would be happy with any choice in ring that their fiance gave them, simply because it signified the committment they were going to have for a lifetime. When women start getting upset over the type of ring the guy chose, that has red flags written all over it.



That being said, your boyfriend is no angel. He lost a precious family ring and his solution to that was to steal a ring from his sister. Not buy another one - steal one from a family member. So in short, the problem isn't that he gave you a Claire's ring - the problem is that he seems to have no conscience and will likely steal other things in the future. You don't want to tie yourself to someone who has such poor character.

Answer 4

He either proposes to you with a real engagement ring, or he proposes and takes you to buy the ring of your choice

If you mean Claire Accessories, then it won't even be gold,never mind have diamonds

Answer 5

Any ring can be an engagement ring. But to steal a ring from his sister, shows that he doesn't have a worthy character.

Answer 6

I'm usually of the opinion that the ring's price shouldn't matter if you love someone, but I have to agree with you on this one, mostly because he clearly put minimal effort into it, and it's stolen, for goodness sake. Tell him that you are disappointed, and you want a ring that is yours, no matter how little it costs.

Answer 7

i'm not even kidding all of these comments are bullshit. if a guy handed me an engagement ring from claires I would throw it back in his face and tell him to stick it where the sun doesn't shine. Proposing to somebody is a big thing, promising to be with them for the rest of your life the ring reflects this. I'd seriously consider your choice.. is your fiancé right for you?

Answer 8

Well if you think that your relationship is measured by the value of a ring you have some real issues.