Wedding night lingerie help?

Question

I am wanting find find something for my wedding night. I am having A LOT of trouble though. I am wanting to find something to wear that isn't slutty or makes me look like a porn star. I want something alluring and sexy without going over the top. I really want to find a chemise in white, black, blue or purple. I can't find anything that fits my criteria.

The other problem is that I am more of a plus size girl and I carry most of the weight in my hip area. I want to find something that still will make my fiance turn heads on our wedding night.

I found a cute bra and panty set, but it isn't quite what I am looking for unless I can find a sheer black robe to go with it or something. I don't want to spend more than $60 either if I can help it.

Here is the link to the bra, but there is an image with the set on the same page. http://cacique.lanebryant.com/pleated-bandeau-bra/p56023/index.pro

Also, please answer nicely. I don't want or need rude comments. This is important to me. Our wedding night is the only honeymoon we are going to get because of our jobs and I want to make it special. Thanks

Answer 1

Being plus size myself, I can understand the difficulty finding EXACTLY what you want sometimes and then finding it in your size. There is a terrific plus size website i can recommend. They tend to be pricy on some items, unfortunately, but they always have a weekly special which is always very reasonable. They also custom make most items in a choice of colors and fabrics up to a size 12X. They have all sorts of items ranging from romantic, daring and even slutty. lol I recommend taking a good look at the website to see exactly what they have. The link I sent is for chemises, since you mentioned wanting one. Myself, I always preferred the "classic" lingerie look with lace and peek-a-boo see-thru areas with a matching robe or something silky and elegant.

Hope you can find something you like and within your budget.

http://www.biggalslingerie.com/chemise.html

I also shop at www.avenue.com

They also have a nice selection of plus-size lingerie within your price range. Good luck and have a wonderful honeymoon. Oh, you also might want to give www.ebay.com a try. You can get terrific deals on there if you know where to look. I am an expert on ebay since I am addicting to shopping on there as well as a seller on there. :)

Answer 2

I've always felt a little self-conscious about my hip area because of love handles and saddle hips, and I've found that teddies that hit right at my hip joint have always looked really good on me. You can get them in all sorts of styles, from sweet and innocent to all-out slutty.

Answer 3

perhaps you can consider something lacy.... it soften the look, makes you look sexier but not slutty and add a sense of elegance to your outlook. the bra you are looking at looks a little plain but the bottom looks good for someone who carries the weight around the waist.

Answer 4

How about something like one of these?



http://www.fredericks.com/Satin_+_Lace_Chemise_Plus/43759,default,pd.html?cgid=li11



http://www.fredericks.com/Ruffled_V-Neck_Chemise/45894,default,pd.html?cgid=li11 - design interest on the top will draw attention up away from the hips



http://www.fredericks.com/Lace_Up_Chemise_Plus/44799,default,pd.html?cgid=li11



And a black robe....



http://www.fredericks.com/Long_Mesh_Robe/45349,default,pd.html?cgid=li60



Also check this site. Lots of cute stuff for plus size girls! :D



http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/

Answer 5

Myself, I think it is beautiful. Of course I would get it in purple since my wife loves that color. Yet it really doesn't matter what you wear, because your not going to have it on that long anyway.LOL.

Answer 6

ughhhhhhhhhhhhh, no one on here cares what your going to wear and to be honest your husband isnt going to care if your wearing lingerie or if your butt naked..so I didnt bother to look at the link, if your on a budget wait until youve had your bridal shower, i got a lot of really nice pieces of lingerie from that and I also got gift cards to local stores, if you dont get either of those things there shop around at places, you dont have to go into the high end stores and spend a hundred bucks, I find a lot of my favourite pieces from wal-mart to be honest, also sexy bra's and panty's double as use able, slip him a view of your undies before a date, and he'll know whats in store for when you get home later!

Answer 7

I think that's real cute, I am sure he will be happy no matter what you wear. Congratulations!

Answer 8

Maybe you can get a baby doll chemise that will hide the hip areas.



I found some nice and sexy ones



1) http://www.lasenza.com/eng/products/sexylingerie/babydolls/flocked-mesh-babydoll?140001-159



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