My wedding is at 12 noon. Ceremony should take about 20-30 minutes..short and sweet! Then pictures and our reception is 22 miles away. What time to start reception..having 1 hr open bar. First dance...no fathers dance he is deceased. garter toss, cake cutting it's all driving me crazy. My time frame for reception is 5 hrs from when guest start to arrive. Oh. I want a buffet dinner. Any ideas on how to put this in order. Doing everything myself.