Have you ever experienced this?

Question

so there is this two girls i met them in college two years ago. I used to help them with studies and their assignments as they used to ask me for help most of the time. They are older than me one is 30 and the other one is late 20"s.

We are very different people and they are the type of people who likes to brag about themselves and call people stupid when in reality they are very stupid. To make long story short one of them asked me for money last week and i gave her.

So today she said she will give me back and they came to my work place. We planned to have lunch together so i asked if any one of them have flat shoes so one of them said yeah it is at the back of the car. I reached for one and couldn't reach the other one so i asked them if they could get it for me (they were already down of the car while i was still sitting and they should open the back door to get which i couldn't because i couldnt walk with my heels.

So they both said no we will not bring, So i took it as a joke and said pls quick but i could see the way they are looking at me and some guy came to park the car. I didn't believe that as i couldn't reach it so they both stood still and said u should get it the way u got the other one.

I was pretty shocked and said are u ppl serious u wont get or open the door they said no. So they said ok meet us in the restaurant and they were about to go. I wore my heels and got off from their car and stood to stop a taxi. So they said u r not coming and i said no u can carry on.

What do u think of such people? would u ever talk to them? They sent me msg saying u r unbealiavable and we are not apologising to u when i replied it was definitely my fault and mistake( which i meant it was my fault to associate with such abhorrent characters). I will never ever talk to them again and got my money back. What is ur opinion? thanks

Answer 1

That is very strange behaviour. But from your question it looks as if they have always been the ones to use you, and you got very little back, so I suppose they are just that kind of people, and there's nothing you can do but wash your hands of them, and chalk it up to experience. You are much better off without them.

Answer 2

Wow, you should write -- "Um. If you don't know why I left then you are a stupid ****. Give me my money back or we will have problems. Ok, here's what I'm wondering.. I left because you can't even help me get my shoe when I gave you that money then you email me telling that I'm unbelievable. Don't you know what proper etiquette is? Anyway, give me my money back and leave me the hell alone or I'll break my high-heels into your as.sholes."



Appropriate message for girl to girl email.

Answer 3

Those people don't respect. They only care about themselves.



I think you should find other friends.. You are far more wise than they will ever be.



Personally, I wouldn't hang around with them anymore, unless they have a really good excuse and would apologise and will do it from now on. ;)

Answer 4

I have diagnosed your condition: You have a HIGH tolerance for assholes.



Your too nice. Break that shoe in and firm up.

Answer 5

wow strange!!