He has no incentive to marry you. He's getting what he wants.
Think about it from his point of view of what getting married involves:
1.)
He makes the effort to decide if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
2.)
He then spends time in researching for an engagement ring.
3.)
Then he spends the $$$ to get the ring. Think about it. Most guys think of a ring as, "I can buy a car with that money!" But if he's willing to let the $$$ leave his wallet because he wants you to be happy flashing your ring to your girlfriends, he must be serious.
4.)
Then you plan for the wedding:
a.) Order cake (color, size, taste testing)
b.) Invitation cards (what should we write?)
c.) Guest lists (who to invite, who not to invite)
d.) Research DJ's or bands
e.) Research best church, chapel, or hall (food testing)
f.) Which minister to use
g.) Seating charts for the reception.
h.) Writing vows to recite them in front of friends and family because he wants to show everybody he is SERIOUS.
i.) Go through premarital counseling to be sure that you both have the skill sets for the long haul.
j.) Goes through the stress of sending out invites, dealing with future in-laws, etc.
k.) Then the ceremony and on and on and on
Yaaaaaaaaaaa! TMW = Too Much Work!!!!!!
*BUT* if a couple move in together: HAH! He doesn't have to do items 1 thru 4a-k.
Several of my lady friends found themselves out of child bearing range because they waited too long for the guys to change their minds.
Now these ladies are finding it difficult to meet guys their age because guys their age want to date the younger gals.
Don't let this happen to you!!
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