Question:
How much should you spend on an engagement ring?
1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC
How much should you spend on an engagement ring?
1098 answers:
truefirstedition
2010-11-10 11:04:06 UTC
Only what you can comfortably afford without going into debt. Going in the red over a piece of jewelry is no way to start your life together!
Ashley M
2010-11-10 11:09:38 UTC
as much as you can afford, without going into debt. the three month salary rule is outdated, and was only made up by the diamond companies to make more money.



i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
yahooey
2010-11-10 11:14:30 UTC
A ring is a symbol. It shouldn't put someone in debt for any length of time. I think a man should only spend what he can afford in showing his desire to spend the rest of his life with the love of his life.
Xerxes
2010-11-10 12:42:02 UTC
500 bucks is fair for and ordinary marriage..

For real lovers a plastic ring is enough :)
Vicki
2010-11-10 11:23:49 UTC
Whatever can be afforded without a credit card.

I'd rather have a nice wedding and honeymoon, than a ring that costs more than a car.
La Vie Boheme
2010-11-10 11:16:03 UTC
Only what you can afford without going in any debt.
melouofs
2010-11-10 11:24:53 UTC
What you can afford with some saving. It shouldn't be a purchase you can make with your pocket money, but it sholdn't drive you into debt, either.
jimmybond
2010-11-10 13:11:41 UTC
Let me be honest. Years ago I found a gold ring with a red stone in it in my mother's box (she had died in 1948). Ergo I used it as the engagement ring and my life partner - actually we were in love for the past two years - was delighted to accept it and wear it with pride in front of all her siblings and friends.
johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan )
2010-11-12 20:30:24 UTC
Well firstly, you should only be buying an engagement ring if you can truly afford to.



Here in the States, I think it's fair to spend a good $10,000. You want a ring that your woman can be proud to show to people.



And anyway, if someone is going to look at 10,000 dollars as being too much, they might want to consider changing their mind about getting engaged. The fact is that a marriage that lasts years or decades is going to cost at least hundreds of thousands of dollars ( if not a million or two ), so, 10,000 is very small in comparison to what will be spent during a long marriage.



I don't think it's unfair to expect to pay at least $10,000 U.S..
2010-11-10 11:23:31 UTC
I think you should spend as much money as you're comfortable spending as long as you're not being cheap. If you really love your wife, you wouldn't get her anything cheap and would make her feel special and that you care about her, you really want to marry her, and you're serious about everything. It's what she's going to be wearing forever (or for as long as you're married), so make it mean something. It's way more important than the honeymoon or the actual wedding, in my opinion.



If I were planning on proposing, I would save my money and put some aside to the ring, and do a lot of looking around for the perfect one. There would be no rushing, because you don't want to screw anything up.



In the end, it's up to her to like what you buy her. Even if she doesn't like it, what's more important is the person she is marrying. She won't marry you for the engagement ring, but for the type of guy you are.
Koolkat
2010-11-18 06:00:47 UTC
What they can afford. It is impossible to put a dollar figure on that, because it will vary so much with the couple's circumstances.



There's a huge difference between the RING being cheap or the GUY being cheap.



A very young couple with little or no income would have a small home wedding, and can use a $2 chainstore ring, just symbolically.... and maybe plan for a good eternity ring in 10 years' time if they make it that far. If he spends his whole unemployment benefit on a ring, then borrows from her for food the rest of the week, there's a problem.........



If a guy with good income, from a well-off family, buys a small cheap ring for his girl, she should look back at their relationship and see if he was cheap with outings, dinners etc as well. Another problem.........



If someone on an average income goes into debt to buy a ring, problem again. Bigger problem if she expects him to............



If they're not already living together, how much to spend on the ring is the first joint spending decision a couple makes. Followed by what they will spend on the wedding. How they discuss it, how they decide it, will depend on their attitudes to money, budgeting and setting priorities.



Honestly done, it can be the make or break discussion for the relationship, if their expectations on this don't match up. If he turns out to be cheap and mean, or she turns out to expect more than he can provide, this is going to continue into their whole relationship forever (or until the divorce court).



Of course if both choose show over substance, and are happy to go into debt for a ring they can't afford, the marriage might still fall apart, but at least not because they feel put down by each other's attitude to spending.



All that said, estate or heirloom rings will often be a much better ring for the same money...in many places used items don't attract the same sales taxes as new, leaving more money for ring quality. Estate also means a more exclusive design, as even if they were mass produced originally, the others are no longer around.



Worst choice is something from the internet: even if it does arrive there is no guarantee of the quality and no comeback if it doesn't suit.



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A young couple I knew, living together from when they were unemployed and couldn't afford a wedding, used to buy a pretty ring with real stones from pawnshops, whenever they had a few hundred to spare. Planning their engagement ring was an expression of commitment that went on for years. Ten years, 2 beautiful sons and their modest own house later, they could finally afford to have those gems made into a ring of their own design, the leftover gold paying the jeweller for the work. She had the satin wedding gown of her dreams, they had a reception for all their friends, nobody left out....but made it a simple barbecue at a local hall with minimal decorations.
Justin
2010-11-17 12:50:14 UTC
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2010-11-25 19:38:12 UTC
$2
2014-10-26 10:52:31 UTC
Of course if both choose show over substance, and are happy to go into debt for a ring they can't afford, the marriage might still fall apart, but at least not because they feel put down by each other's attitude to spending.



All that said, estate or heirloom rings will often be a much better ring for the same money...in many places used items don't attract the same sales taxes as new, leaving more money for ring quality. Estate also means a more exclusive design, as even if they were mass produced originally, the others are no longer around.



Worst choice is something from the internet: even if it does arrive there is no guarantee of the quality and no comeback if it doesn't suit.
2014-10-08 05:30:38 UTC
At the same time, if this criteria is used, a lot of bad weddings would not take place because people would not get past the hurdle of buying rings. Perhaps the idea of three months earnings is not a bad idea after all.



My first wife got a nice set of rings which she picked out herself.



That marriage did not last though,



When I remarried, we got a cheap set of rings at K Mart. Not even solid gold, but just plated. within a year or two we needed new rings. We are now on our third or fourth set of rings, better quality each time of course and these were a bit pricey. My wife still does not have what you would call an engagement ring.



In the final analysis the price of the rings doesn't mean all that much. It i
?
2010-11-17 20:03:04 UTC
The traditional answer is two months salary. However you should not spend more than you can comfortably afford. It's doesn't have to be the most expensive ring in the store to be meaningful. Just do your homework on buying a diamond so you get the best possible quality for your money! Take your time choosing. It's best to buy a loose stone so you can see it clearly without any prongs in the way to hide imperfections. Then choose a setting. Get a certified diamond if you can. Don't rule out buying online but if you do get a 10 day money back guarantee at least and that will give you enough time to take it to an appraiser. Make sure you take it to one that does not buy or sell diamond and is just an appraiser. If you do your homework it will ensure you get the best diamond for your budget! Retail mark up is VERY high which is why I suggest considering online places. The mark up is not as high.
2010-11-16 01:05:42 UTC
some of these answers give some insight into why the divorce rate is so high.



anyone whos not at least a multimillionaire, spending 10k on an engagement ring is an idiot.



and its sad how many utterly shallow answers there are.



us? a nice Opal set in sterling silver, well under $100 (though probably WORTH more like $100) and it was *perfect*. I had originally figured to spend over a thousand, but we snapped out of the spell of the idea of it being a "real diamond" and got serious. she sees either no difference between a diamond and a CZ in appearance, or even perfers how the CZ's are sometimes even better looking in her view. and without the conscience-weight that diamonds have.

we were hoping to find an opal since she really really likes opals, and get a CZ if we didn't find "the one" in a reasonable frame of time.



then we did.



honestly, any woman who would not be satisfied with a 1/10th carrot diamond needs to take a long hard look in the mirror and think about things.
?
2015-10-24 08:42:55 UTC
However you should not spend more than you can comfortably afford. It's doesn't have to be the most expensive ring in the store to be meaningful. Just do your homework on buying a diamond so you get the best possible quality for your money! Take your time choosing. It's best to buy a loose stone so you can see it clearly without any prongs in the way to hide imperfections. Then choose a setting. Get a certified diamond if you can. Don't rule out buying online but if you do get a 10 day money back guarantee at least and that will give you enough time to take it to an appraiser. Make sure you take it to one that does not buy or sell diamond and is just an appraiser. If you do your homework it will ensure you get the best diamond for your budget! Retail mark up is VERY high which is why I suggest considering online places. The mark up is not as high.
Divora
2010-11-17 13:15:44 UTC
First of all be practical. While most women appreciate a fine ring, most would also be appalled to go into a marriage with financial debt.

Cost is only one area of discussion. Style is also a concern. If you spend a lot of money and obtain a very ornate ring, while your girlfriend prefers a plainer style, well that is an issue.

I know nothing of these etiquette issues. So I am just going to throw out my feelings. I would say, unless you are in financial tight times, it seems as if one thousand dollars would be a nice amount. This is a substantial amount of money. A wedding proposal is a very serious commitment, so a substantial financial statement would probably go a long way.

Again if your earnings are strong, then I would consider a much more generous ring.

I do not believe there is a one size fits all answer to this question. It is dependent on your personal financial situation. Sincerely Divora Stern LCSW Mind & Body
2010-11-15 14:58:11 UTC
Before this answer even begins to depend on the salary, it depends on two people and their personalities. These people, of course, are the intended.



Depending on the future Mrs., buying a ring can be a lose-lose situation. Spend more than you can afford? She'll be captivated by the ring, but then will get annoyed when you stop living up to those standards because you can no longer afford to buy her gifts. Spend less? "He must not really love me, or else he wouldn't have gotten me such a cheap ring!"



And this isn't even beginning to delve into issues of getting it sized. You have four choices:

1) Get it sized in advance. "Hey, sweetie, can you remind me to stop at the grocery store?" "Well, I'll probably forget, but people say that tying a string around your finger works...how big of a string will we need?" Yeah. She'll buy that.

2) Never get it sized. Watch it go down the garbage disposal.

3) Give it to her...and then immediately take it away from her to get it sized. I dare you. You will have no fingers.

4) Talk over getting married with her, rather than a proposal, and then she can go ring-shopping with you. This takes THE RIGHT KIND OF WOMAN.



My point, after all of this, is simple. If you have a materialistic fiancee, you're kind of screwed unless you're incredibly rich.



The right kind of woman will recognize that an engagement only lasts so long, but the marriage lasts forever. So even if you have the ring as a symbol of your love, that ring should be temporary anyway and shouldn't cost you much. How much did my engagement ring cost? $3, and I'm darn proud of it. It proves that my husband has some common sense, that we will never be broke because of stupid expenditures, and that I am not a materialistic woman who cares about shiny objects.



P.S.: My $3 ring got more compliments than you can imagine. It was gorgeous.
Baroness Grey
2010-11-14 10:46:47 UTC
The old convention was that a man should spend a month's wages on the ring, but I don't think that's really feasible in this day and age, unless you are very wealthy and believe that material things and/or extravagant gestures really matter.

I suspect in the old days it may have been looked on as fair exchange for the wife's dowry, since the engagement ring would be all she actually owned herself after leaving the 'ownership' of her father for the 'ownership' of her husband.

I think there are two scenarios to look at: usually these days the couple have known each other for a while and are planning their life together, together. In which case they should probably agree a realistic budget together beforehand then go and choose the ring.

The other scenario is the 'surprise' proposal. In that case it's up to the man to take a risk! How much are you prepared to gamble?! She might say no, and you have the embarrassment of taking the ring back to the shop...!

These days it is commonplace for couples to live together before marriage and set up a home together, and the engagement ring, while a nice thing to have, doesn't have the same value either financially or emotionally that it might have had 100 years ago, say. In that case the couple may well decide that a freezer that works is of more importance than an expensive ring, and they will hopefully choose a ring that will not get them into debt before they've even looked at the expense of getting married!
Laura
2010-11-19 09:37:30 UTC
The traditional answer has always been to spend the amount that is equal to one month's paycheck. Those who have responded that you should not get in debt over an engagement ring are being logical and prudent in these economic times. If you have a ring that has been in the family for some time and is considered to be fine quality by a qualified jeweler, that is great. If you are buying a ring, just remember that your wife will be looking at it every day and thinking about how the ring symbolizes your love. Do not be cheap. As others have noted, however, an engagement ring no longer needs to be one diamond. A less expensive, albeit lovely, choice is to go with her birthstone with some smaller diamonds. And, white gold is stronger than platinum, which should be a consideration. White gold is actually less expensive.
Dove
2010-11-18 04:29:32 UTC
I'm not going to answer your question because the answer would be so long it would appall you. (There are sooooooooooo many considerations) Those aside, unless she is picking the ring out with you, MAKE SURE WHATEVER YOU GIVE HER IS EXCHANGEABLE!! The surprise factor is great and it's the thought that counts and all but when it comes down to it, a woman knows what she wants; what looks good on her hand, what type of ring she's dreamed of since adolescence. Perhaps she doesn't even like diamonds and finds them trite or ethically objectionable (as in one of the previous responses).



Many women are not going to take the fiance up on the exchange offer, even if they are disappointed. I think the man should say "I wanted to surprise you so I picked out something. Let's go together and see if this is what you really want." The woman should say "O.K." and then make sure that she doesn't pick out anything that exceeds the man's initial choice. She doesn't need to guess, she simply tells the salesperson to only show her rings in the same price range. If her fiance doesn't mind if she spends more, he will then let her know.



If she thinks the man has been cheap, she should not try to correct the situation by picking out a better ring. She should correct it with some soul searching. Is this an isolated incident? Is this guy indeed a miser? Is he just a conservative spender? Is she going to be able to negotiate finances with him, once married, or are their values/spending habits too different?



I don't think that there is anything tacky about the guy setting a price limit.(You should be comfortable enough with your future partner to discuss budget.) However, if he knows not doing so will end in financial ruin, he should begin to question his choice of wife. Is this a Gimme, Gimme, Gimme Girl? Will he be driven to an early grave trying to make her happy? (and believe me they never are) Is she just impractical? Is status very important to her and are you okay with that?



A woman who knows anything about aesthetics, will want a ring that is to scale with her hand. She might tell you she would like something smaller because your choice overpowers her hand or it makes her feel too conspicuous, or she would like to put the extra money toward a house or something more practical. Of course, no jewelry store is going to let you "down grade." So, if you've already purchased the ring, and find you need something smaller, simply choose a higher quality diamond...(size vs. quality is a whole other question and not just in diamonds.)



About scale: It is tough if the woman has large hands and needs a larger ring so that it is not dwarfed, making her hands look gargantuan....If a larger diamond can not be afforded, consider purchasing more gold/platinum, whatever. Find something with a chunkier setting and less diamond presence. A good salesperson can help you.



After saying all of this, let me tell you: If I were becoming engaged, I would want to go and pick out the ring WITH my fiance. Let the proposal be the surprise and not the ring. "Surprise! Here is some jewelry that is not right for you, that you will wear fort the rest of your life and pretend to be happy about!" I don't think so. Try something like this "blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Will you marry me? We can shop for the perfect ring tomorrow." Then play hookie the following day and go ring shopping. An unexpected day off will leave time for other important activities...
Matthew
2010-11-17 06:40:23 UTC
In my opinion, it's just a matter of thinking "tasteful but affordable." I couldn't justify spending almost as much on a ring as I would on food for guests at the wedding or renting the reception location. Really, if you spent a ton of money on the ring, what? You're gonna wave it in front of a few people for a few months after the engagement, and maybe the wedding, then the "wow factor" of it is going to wear off pretty quickly and you're gonna think, "Hmmmm....I wish I still had that some-odd-thousand dollars so I could do something like put a down payment on a house, buy a car, start a family, etc."



But on the other hand, if you've got money to burn and it feels good to drop a bunch of cash on the ring (not to impress your friends, family, and colleagues; but because you love your future spouse), then by all means, go for it.
eccentric_78
2010-11-17 13:08:13 UTC
A person should not go into major debt spending money on an engagement ring. I don't think a relationship should be "defined" by how much a person spends on a ring. If you want a $10,000 ring and won't settle for anything less, you really need to take a look at your relationship & how much you actually love that person, or do you just want a HUGE ring to show everyone how much your significant other loves you? I am a newlywed, just got married October 23rd. We spent under $1,000 each on both of our rings. It's simple and beautiful, just like our relationship!
?
2010-11-16 20:45:36 UTC
I wold be looking at nothing really.

Yes and I know that there will be people out there saying what a scrooge

The Reality is that getting in a engaged situation means to be getting ready to spend you life with this one person whether male or female.

There is no price for love and when we meet the right person i am sure that a engagement ring does not come into the picture only our acceptance and desire to be with that person for the rest of our life

I have known people only a few years ago not have a engagement ring yet they were very commited to each other and did not see the meaning of spending the money on one.
Hatchet
2010-11-18 22:23:15 UTC
Why should it be an engagement ring of all things? Why tick away hoards of cash to support either the company who buys up and maintains a monopoly on diamonds across the world, or slave labor? We can make real diamonds in machines, better than natural ones, for cheap.



How about instead of wasting so much money on something so pointless, the money is put into something far better, like a joint savings account that grows with your love? How about going to a poor village in a poor country and using the thousands or tens of thousands of dollars you would spend on your wedding to buy the village a water pump, some solar panels and a computer with internet hook ups. Then you can watch the village develop and talk to them, watch them grow and improve, again with your own love.



How about that, doesn't it sound like a far better idea? I hope I provided an interesting answer that stands out among the hundreds of others.
Lala
2010-11-18 19:24:34 UTC
Definitely within your means. Shopping around is key too. It may sound funny but many stores like Zales and others offer preowned jewelry for a deep discount. Some items were store returns and some where returned due to delinquent charge accounts. Just because it is used doesn't mean it's worth overlooking. You cannot even tell they were used. The store cleans them and returns them to their original luster. My husband got me a beautiful $3500. ring for $800. ! Yes it was preowned from Zales but I wouldn't know the difference otherwise. It came with box and paper work.My husband went when they were having a sale on the clearance and ended up getting a steal! I even got it appraised elsewhere and it got appraised for more than the original ticket price of 3500 at Zales! I get compliments all the time on it too! Everyone tells me I am a lucky girl and my guy must really love me. He does love me very much and he would spend a small fortune on a ring if it was what I wanted but I would much rather spend the money on something else like a nice vacation. :)



~L
m_reicherter
2010-11-18 08:11:54 UTC
whoa whoa whoa... forget this talk about spending what you can "without going into debt". Going into debt should not be the guideline for how much you spend on a ring. It's this type of irresponsible spending that leaves a large portion of our country debt ridden (what happens when two weeks later you need money for unexpected problems and you've just spent your savings on a ring?) You should spend a fraction of your savings (I spent about 10%, $3,000, when i bought my wife her engagement ring a little over a year ago.) Within this year we also made a much more important purchase that we spent a lot more money on: a house. I don't believe that debt should ever come into question when buying something as trivial as a ring. If you can not afford the perfect ring now, do not worry, you will have a lifetime to buy her all the beautiful jewelry she wants when you are older and able to afford it.
jo
2010-11-17 18:03:39 UTC
I think the engagement ring price depends on the couple. I think they should both discuss the matter, since everyone has a different view. The video further proves this. My definition of a "good" engagement ring price might be completely different than my boyfriend's. Some people want a really expensive rings, other don't think the price even matters.



I myself would take a vacation over a fancy ring any day. Heehee :)
Penelope
2010-11-13 09:33:06 UTC
The retail jewelry industry has a vested interest in telling people that an engagement ring should cost "no less than two months' salary." How self-serving is that?!?!?



Thinking that you can build a healthy relationship on an overpriced piece of jewelry is a fallacy. You can get a perfectly lovely engagement ring inexpensively. Why does the salesperson at the jewelry store steer you toward the expensive rings? So they can get a bigger paycheck, people! They are paid by COMMISSION! The more they sell, the more they make at the end of the month!



Determine what you can spend on an engagement ring (and wedding rings) by what you can afford AFTER you have paid your bills each month. If you miss your house payment and get evicted, you can't very well live in a $10,000 engagement ring, can you?
Kamarei
2010-11-17 04:22:19 UTC
Well I personally don't want my future spouse to spend anything on an engagement ring. They are a waste of money. Either give me a ring that is a family heirloom or I do not want one. If I am going to have a wedding band why do I also need an engagement ring? They are just extravagances. The only reasons I even want a wedding band are to let others know I am married and to have something on me at almost all times that will remind me of my spouse when I see it.
2010-11-16 15:31:03 UTC
Based on the trends of divorce rates, buy a decent ring with high quality fake diamonds. if something happens, and you get a divorce, then everything is alright. If everything is fine and the couple stays together, then no one should be the wiser as to the diamonds being fake. Make sure the ring is made out of real gold, buy this at a pawn shop cheap and clean it up nice. It should be less than $300.00 total, remember the ring is a symbol of a commitment, not a symbol of debt. The old traditions are from a time when real diamonds were far beyond that of fakes in quality, clarity, etc. Get with the modern day, and buy what is within your price range, and if you have plenty of cash, go buy the real diamonds, but know what buying real diamonds to maintain beliefs might be supporting in the long run.
?
2016-01-25 05:47:17 UTC
A young couple I knew, living together from when they were unemployed and couldn't afford a wedding, used to buy a pretty ring with real stones from pawnshops, whenever they had a few hundred to spare. Planning their engagement ring was an expression of commitment that went on for years. Ten years, 2 beautiful sons and their modest own house later, they could finally afford to have those gems made into a ring of their own design, the leftover gold paying the jeweller for the work. She had the satin wedding gown of her dreams, they had a reception for all their friends, nobody left out....but made it a simple barbecue at a local hall with minimal decorations.
?
2010-11-19 11:34:07 UTC
If I could do it all over again, I would get an inexpensive ring and put the rest of the money into our 401k or IRA... My hubby spent $65,000 just on my engagement ring and it is long paid off and was within his means.. But I still think it is too much. Heck, if our children weren't babies we could put at least one of them through college with that money instead of putting money in a college fund every month.



Point being, spend what you want and whatever you can afford. BUT, also think about the future. Even $10,000 or $5,000 is a large enough chunk of money that will help when retirement, home buying, home repairs or a random unexpected cost comes...
?
2010-11-17 11:23:42 UTC
To me it doesn't matter the price its the thought that matters and the question that counts! I dreamed about the big ring but I am more into how will he treat my kids and if we will be together forever. Right now I dont have a ring and im engaged and im happy with that because at the end of the day I have more in life he takes care of my children the bill and buys more things now than if i would have had a ring. Hopefully one day he will surprise me and I will be complete. Love is what matters!
2010-11-13 00:59:11 UTC
Valuing an engagement ring by saying "how much should you spend" is crass and speaks volumes for the materialistic attitudes of people who think that way.



There was an old principle that said a man should spend a month's pay on the engagement ring. Whoever came up with that one either had plenty of money or didn't care about humiliating men in lower paid jobs. What a gob-smacking load of drivel that is!



An engagement ring is a public statement of intent that the wearer (usually a woman) is soon to be married. Unless this is a purely political or cash motivated wedding the motive will be love and compatibility, and a desire to live their lives together.



Therefore the ring should be chosen by what best suits the bride-to-be (she'll be wearing it as a piece of jewelry for the rest of her life, hopefully).

Huge stones or elaborate settings that say "look how much I spent" are often quite ugly and impractical (especially when she's a mother and housewife). The money would often be better spent towards setting up the marital home. It is also not a good thing when the man gets into debt to buy the thing,

Likewise, something too small can look 'cheap' and will lead to justifying it to friends, and some behind-the-back head shaking.



A sensible compromise has to be reached. But the guiding principle should never be "how much"? The cost of them can be looked at after a short-list selection of suitable rings has been made. But it should be priced so that it can be paid for without causing hardship or getting into debt; that's putting "Hollywood romance ideal" over and above the practicalities of actually living. Remember, unrealistic budgeting (cash problems) is a major root cause of divorce.
?
2014-10-13 15:17:58 UTC
are in financial tight times, it seems as if one thousand dollars would be a nice amount. This is a substantial amount of money. A wedding proposal is a very serious commitment, so a substantial financial statement would probably go a long way.

Again if your earnings are strong, then I would consider a much more generous ring.

I do not believe there is a one size fits all answer to this question. It is dependent on your personal financial situation. Sincerely Divora Stern LCSW Mind & Body
2010-11-19 20:19:08 UTC
It's not possible to have a set amount, that's where the "rule" of two (or three) month's salary for the value of the ring comes in. How much money one person makes in a month some others may make in a year. The engagement ring that is purchased should match your lifestyle.
Richard E
2010-11-13 08:20:10 UTC
This has become a cultural ritual. Just as a Masai warrior must prove that he can care for a wife by paying his brides's father a ch pf cattle, a typical American wageslave must prove that he either has money or credit by buying a grotesquely expensive diamond from the DeBeers cartel, who exploits this ritual like no one else exploits rituals.



Evidence of this can be seen in the responses that one should spend two or three month's salary for this bauble. Women (who never pay for engagement rings and often do not give them back if they break off the engagement) believe this nonsense more than men, unfortunately, so you might be screwed. Buying a nice ring in a pawnshop once you have an idea about the value of gold and diamonds is a good idea, but you should claim that it was your grandmother's or great aunts. This only works if you have your mother's collaboration, but if she is no longer around, and your sisters will not squeal on you, it works.



Diamonds are graded by brilliance, color and size A through M, and most are more toward the M category, so if you paud $2000, chances are the wholesale price is around $400. The entire jewelry industry is a ripoff, so be careful.

As for how much should you pay, the answer is "as little as possible". Cubic Zirconia cannot be detected by anyone but jewelers, but all jewelers can tell the difference. Of course, if she takes your ring to the jeweler for appraisal and gets pissed with the results, you did not want to be married to her in the first place. The problem with CZ is that most stones are too large to be credible. Anything bigger than a 1 carat diamond is certainly going to cause suspicion.



The biggest ripoff involved with weddings are the wedding planners, of course. Avoid them like the plague.
?
2010-11-20 12:59:51 UTC
In my case, nothing. I don't like wearing rings so why should I want an engagement ring? And I don't even get the point of the engagement ring. I don't get the point of engagement altogether. If you're not legally married, what are you, then? I think it's just the way for jewellers to make money. Love don't cost a thing.
?
2010-11-19 03:53:13 UTC
The importance of the price of an engagement ring differs from person to person.

For example, my mother doesn't really like jewelery so she told my dad to buy her a really cheap ring for when they one day get married, and when they did, he bought her a ring from a flea market! she lost it a few days later so thank goodness he never bought her a giant glimmering rock!

I find the ring to be quite important. Its a symbol of love and so for me I would love a beautiful ring which was expensive. (Where can you get a cheap diamond ring anyways ;-) ) But the real love between my man and I is waay more important and if he couldn't afford it I would be fine with that and I would wait until one day when he could afford it. (even after we would get married.)

I must add that the ring is a side accessory. The real symbol of love is the two people. The faithfulness between the two people. The unity.

So yah..my conclusion is it depends on the couple and their personal feelings about this :)
Ralf
2010-11-18 18:58:00 UTC
0-6 Grand . If You Really Love The Other Person The Ring Wont Matter , You Will . If You Do Buy A ring Though It Dosen't Have To Be Very Expensive .
2010-11-17 14:04:55 UTC
I've heard that 3 months salary as a guideline for the set of two rings, engagement and wedding. Of course the whole idea of a wedding diamond was invented by the De Beers diamond family in the 1930's, and I'm sure they'd like to see big rings bought all 'round.
?
2010-11-17 10:01:19 UTC
Considering the fact that I don't think a man just wakes up one day and says I want to marry this girl, I do believe that the rule that 2 month's salary still applies, saving up shouldn't be difficult and if it is that difficult how will you save up to buy a home or anything else for that matter. No need to go get a loan for a ring but this is something that a man should take pride in so his lady can have pride when she shows her ring.
?
2015-10-24 19:25:18 UTC
Take your time choosing. It's best to buy a loose stone so you can see it clearly without any prongs in the way to hide imperfections. Then choose a setting. Get a certified diamond if you can. Don't rule out buying online but if you do get a 10 day money back guarantee at least and that will give you enough time to take it to an appraiser. Make sure you take it to one that does not buy or sell diamond and is just an appraiser. If you do your homework it will ensure you get the best diamond for your budget! Retail mark up is VERY high which is why I suggest considering online places. The mark up is not as high.
M.Z.O.
2010-11-18 14:44:00 UTC
Engagement rings are really outdated. No contemporary man should spend on that, coulding use the money to go on a nice trip together, or to start thinking about a home of their own. If the guy still wants to respect old customs, he shouldn't spend more than 10% of the total amount of his income in a three-month period.
*Smiles*
2010-11-18 13:24:59 UTC
i agree! you should never start a marriage in debt. If you have a courtship that is long enough you have enough time to save for the ring, wedding and honeymoon. But like i told my other half don't wait too long, because for every year is a diamond. his response "yes, but none will compare to the diamond i already have." There is no diamond or jewelry precious enough that can take the place of what a relationship and then marriage is worth. But just as a stone is made in nature (even though some are made by man) your relationship is what you make it! Congrats to all the ones who keep staying strong in the marriage!
?
2010-11-16 20:07:09 UTC
I still believe that you should spend 3 months salary for an engagement ring. This will take time of course to save up, but if things do not work out in the relationship, then you can go to a strip club, go on a drinking binge, then hit a casino with what's left of the change you gave the strippers.
zak r
2010-11-16 18:48:09 UTC
There is a 2 to 3 month rule on paychecks percentage, but in my opinion like others here you should only spend what you can afford. Make a budget and plan to shop around for the best deal. As it is not a wedding ring I would not go all out and would only spend $1000 minimum and $3000 maximum on a engagement ring. She should be marrying you not the bling in the ring. Remember engagement rings or not wedding rings, you can but rings that you ca use if you search enough. I would buy it during days that have sales eve if you are not purposing o that day. Christmas, Valentines day sales and after holiday sales a lot of times a good ring is cheaper ad you ca hold it for the right time.
?
2010-11-16 13:45:41 UTC
$0.



No one SHOULD spend anything on a ring. It's not a requirement.



How much is reasonable? Well that's a different question and I guess it depends on the taste of the person that will be receiving the ring. Yes it's the thought that counts but if you're going to spend money on a woman you love so much that you want to marry her then you should at least want to get her something that will make her happy.
?
2010-11-23 17:46:04 UTC
In my own opinion I think you should not spend more than $300,since you still have to buy the wedding ring. So I would say the rest of the money for a gorgeous big diamond wedding ring. I know some people who just tie a string around the women's finger since they're saving everything for the wedding ring.
The Yankee Clipper
2010-11-19 10:35:25 UTC
The Usual Of What Ive Always Heard Was What You Make at Your Job in 6 Weeks But Its Really What Ever Seems Most Meaningful & Comfortable at The Momement



Hope She Says Yes
marcus
2010-11-19 07:48:59 UTC
Well it has alot to do with what your brides expectations are, if she is into bling, then get a diamond solitare in the range of 5-10% of your annual income. But as a ring is a symbol of love and happiness think about a custom piece in silver, or a nice non diamont precious stone! I am a jewelry maker and the trend I have seen is that couples are getting away from the cookie cutter style rings and giong with unique pieces to express themselves.
Joel
2010-11-17 21:23:10 UTC
There definitely needs to be an balance between what you can afford with what you want to give your sweetheart. It's very sad to see someone over-spend on an engagement ring, with money that they don't have, and put it on their charge card. Ending up making payments on it for the next 3-5 years! That's no way to start a marriage: a definite problem and burden on so many levels.
?
2010-11-17 15:32:32 UTC
Only what you can afford without taking out credit or going in debt. The ring should be a symbol of your promise, your future, not your monthly payment. My husband spent a thousand dollars on mine, and I felt a little guilt over that, but love it so much. A ring is an important societal symbol, but I think it is important to keep in mind that it is just a ring. There are other more important expenses, so to be excessive or obsessive is pretty ridiculous.
nemitta24
2010-11-17 07:36:24 UTC
My engagement ring was a $10 silvery simple celtic knot ring. the story behind it is hilarious and will always characterize the love in my relationship. So I don't think cost should be important at all and should be based on your income and/or personal tastes, like many others have said before me. Example being if you're a multi millionaire you should probably spend more than $10..... at least $20 I think. XD
?
2010-11-16 15:18:10 UTC
Depends on the diamond, gold/silver market in your immediate area. If you're at Tiffany's in New York, prepare to spend a whole helluva lot more for the same single diamond engagement ring than if you're buying in Lansing, Kansas. I spent $150 on the ring that my wife now wears, but the diamond is actually my grandfather's diamond--so the ring has sentimental meaning as well. Good luck. Have kids! Get to know each other--and I don't mean the sex--you may be surprised after the marriage certificate is signed.
alan P
2010-11-13 04:32:46 UTC
Speaking as a man I don't like the notion that a ring should cost say 1 months salary or God forbid 2 months salary. These ideas are talked up by the jewellery industry. Get something nice that suits the person you want marry and is a symbol of your love not a symbol of ostentation that significantly diminishes what you can spend on a house. I would have thought that £1000 could but something pretty stunning and for the less well off even a few hundreds of pounds will go quite a long way. I know that it doesn't sound very romantic but check out what Argos have to offer if only to get an idea of what things cost.
IC1
2010-11-11 23:50:52 UTC
This is a question with no definitive answer and you know that too.



Three months salary is the custom, but I'll kick it back old school for you for a minute:



According to the 'Old Testament', a man must give a woman a ring with a value equal to or greater than a 'Pruta'. While many argue on what the equivalency of a Pruta is these days, it's somewhere around 0.5 of a cent. So this answers your obligation.



Now if you actually want her to say 'yes', I suggest keeping your penny ring & buying something a little better.



I personally spent a 'pretty penny' for my wife's ring (just before the economic meltdown) but am still happy that I did because she loves it, shows it off constantly (even now 2 years later) and really enjoys it. That to me is what you want; her satisfaction. Just hope that she has an affordable taste for it too & not to even look at other stones out of your budget (then girls think your stone is inferior).
Sian
2010-11-20 03:01:25 UTC
You should only spend what you can afford, but then you shouldn't go really cheap when you could afford more. Having said that, it shouldn't just be about the price, it should be about the ring. So if you saw a ring that was really special and perfect for your partner then you should get that, even if it's a lot cheaper than some others. Really your partner should be happy with the ring because it's the kind of thing they like and it's from the person they love, not because of how much was spent on it. But still, you shouldn't be a cheapskate when it comes to an engagement ring.
anjo2202
2010-11-19 12:29:23 UTC
In my personal opinion. I agree with only spending money you are comfortable with. If you outstretch yourself in spending money on a big ring, then you are starting your marriage in debt.



I have seen friends take out 3 loans just to pay for the dream ring their future bride. And they still had to pay for the wedding, honeymoon, etc...



My best advice is to purchase a ring that you can afford without having to break the bank. And every 5 years upgrade your rings without outstretching yourselves. The best part is the two of you will see how much you have grown together in your married relationship as you upgrade your rings every 5 years.



I hope this helps.
David Burnham
2010-11-19 07:35:19 UTC
"2 months salary" was a standard marketed by DeBeers, but I say spend what you can afford within your social-economic bracket and look online for bargains because the markup on jewelry is about 1000%. ie; you could spend $1000 & get easily a $5000 valued ring. It really boils down to your budget and buying power. I find incredible deals on used jewelry on ebay. I auctioned off a a $5,000K ring online on ebay for $550 which is about what my lover (at the time)paid when he sold jewelry at Kay's.



From Groom Groove:

Where did the two months of salary idea come from?



The origin of the two months' salary begins with DeBeers, the largest diamond producer and marketer in the world. In 1947, in an effort to increase diamond sales in the United States following a depressed wartime market, DeBeers launched a marketing campaign with a New York advertising firm. A copywriter penned the famous slogan "A diamond is forever". As far as advertising slogans go, it's pretty damn good. A diamond, like your marriage, is supposed to last forever. (ed. - We're thankful wedding preparation doesn't last nearly as long.)

From our research, GroomGroove.com understands that DeBeers wanted to bring diamonds to the masses, rather than have them be for a select few. Accordingly, the price of diamonds was set at approximately two months of salary, which is somewhat tied to inflation.



Diamonds, just like your marriage, are an investment, and have been an investment device for several thousand years. Hard, durable and used to mine for other minerals, diamonds are generally quite rare (although they are not the rarest of gemstones). This, coupled with cartelization by the producers and resellers, keeps diamond prices very high. As a result, it will cost a groom at least $1000 to purchase a diamond of decent cut, clarity, color and carat. Of course, a $1000 diamond engagement ring will likely be lacking in two or three of the four C's. Accordingly, a groom is likely to spend at least $2,500 on his bride's engagement ring.
Tiger Eyes
2010-11-18 16:40:45 UTC
You should spend however much you can without going into debt. It depends on the ring and I wouldn't be a cheap skate about it either since, your future wife should mean more than that.



If you plan on buying an engagement ring, maybe you should save at least $1000.
808GYRL
2010-11-18 08:31:16 UTC
I feel that what ever your budget can afford to spend on a ring. I recently got engaged on Valentines Day and I couldn't care less on how much my fiancee spent on my ring. The ring symbolizes our love and commitment to each other and that we are acknowledging that we want to spend our lives together. People are so materialistic and so focused on how big the diamond is. If that's the only concern is how much the ring is or how much carat the diamond is then they are not ready to get married.
eharri3
2010-11-17 15:12:18 UTC
Debeers did an awesome job associating a cheap, naturally abundant mineral with an artificially inflated price, with love and marriage. They set all these rules, x-number of months this, x-percentage of your salary. Diamonds=love. If you do not get the biggest one you have enough cash for you do not love your future wife.



Women buy into the crap because, well, who wouldn't? If a major manufacturer of man-toys came out and said women should spend at least 6 month's salary on a flat screen as an engagement present men would eat that crap up too. Unfortunately the TV industry hasn't thought to try this tact yet so it's women that mainly benefit from this sense of entitlement created and nurtured by the diamond industry.



Good job, some poor little African kid works 18 hours a day, 7 days per week, getting whipped all the while, so you can have something shiny on your finger to show off to your girlfriends. Awesome. Half the time he can't go out and buy jet skis or a boat or a motorcycle without taking crap from you about it but if he pees away 15 thousand bucks on a precious stone and hands it to you, well THAT'S OK.
kabro55
2010-11-17 08:41:48 UTC
People shouldn't spend more than they can afford, however if the jewelry store offers 0 interest credit card for a year I'd go for the gold. When choosing the ring make sure the ring fits the hand not just the finger.
Sharon W.
2010-11-17 05:19:09 UTC
I think 2K is reasonable without overdoing it. But really as people here said - whatever you can afford. If you can only afford 100 dollar ring - that's just fine - you can always upgrade later if you have more money... No reasonable woman would want her married life to start in debt over a ring that you can't get any use out of except wearing on your finger... Unless it is magical and grants your every wish - then it might be worth to invest and get into debt :).

One just has to make sure that the ring is not the expense to save on when you don't save on anything else for yourself.
2010-11-17 04:28:02 UTC
I would spend ALOT of money. But thatwould only be if I had a good part time job then. With a good part time job, I could save up money for something that cost around 400-500. I'd spend a bit more for the wedding ring... but I don't want anybody to steal them... This is a really tough question!
bob
2010-11-11 18:13:04 UTC
The answer to this question is very culture-specific, isn't it? The idea of spending a lot of money on a ring with a diamond, in order to ask a woman to marry you, seems to be a very Western (mainly American) thing. In many parts of the world, such a question wouldn't be an issue at all. It's such an arbitrary concept that does nothing to prove your love and commitment to your partner. Indeed, I'm sure there is absolutely no correlation between the cost of an engagement ring and the success of the subsequent marriage.



So, eventually, how much "should" someone spend on an engagement ring would be how much society expects him to. The society in which he lives in. The people around him. Nothing else. It's only a matter of social and peer pressure. That's all there is to it. That's the answer. "$100" or "$500" or "$10,000" or "3 times one's monthly income" are just random, arbitrary replies depending on the society in which the people live in.



A society in which the answer to a marriage proposal depends on the size and quality of a shiny piece of carbon is a ridiculous and absurd society.
Veronica
2010-11-22 15:54:11 UTC
The best thing to do is sit down with your finances and find out exactly how much you can spend without going into debt. Once you have found your number talk to your "soon to be" and talk until her expectations and your reality fit together as one. Sure maybe you can only afford a small diamond now, but there is no reason why you can upgrade every anniversary or special occasion.
noshaymatall
2010-11-18 13:48:30 UTC
Marriage is a gamble at best. So in the spirit of a Las Vegas adventure, never bet with more than you can afford to lose. Those long sad flights home from Vegas are like divorce. Don't be crying because you threw away too much when you should have known to leave the credit cards at home.
AlaAlba
2010-11-17 12:49:14 UTC
An engagement ring should cost about three months of salary. This ensures you get a good amount of time to think about you decision (while saving up). It also generally means you'll get a very nice ring, which is nice being that your partner will be keeping it for the rest of the marriage.
Rebekah
2010-11-17 11:04:58 UTC
My wedding ring cost about $40. It was a pure silver Celtic knotwork band that my husband and I found online. Matching pair. I loved that wedding band - I don't like gold and I'm not a fan of diamonds.



My personal opinion is get something you love, don't be pressured by the industry, and don't spend over three digits. Anything more than $300 for a symbol is a ridiculous price. Save the money for the wedding and the honeymoon, you'll have more (and better) memories to treasure forever every time you look at that reasonably-priced trinket of love.
2010-11-17 10:17:27 UTC
Honestly i would be okay with a plastic engagement ring as long as it was from the person i love. That being said it does look quite bad if you do that and some girls would be peeved to say the least... So between $200-$2000 is appropriate, although if it has deeper meaning it can be cheaper.
miss.leading
2010-11-17 09:05:02 UTC
It really doesn't matter. As long as you have a ring period.. who cares?



I am currently engaged and my fiancee got my ring off of ebay. It was made in a lab to look like a real diamond but is a fake, it's beautiful and I get compliments on it all the time. My last employer said she knew how to tell if a diamond was real or not and could tell that mine was (haha!). My family often questions if it's real or not because it looks so real but they know my fiancee probably couldn't afford a ring this beautiful.



And guess how much it cost us? 80 dollars!!! We are so happy with it and no one is the wiser :)



Everyone should follow our rule of thumb. Put your money towards things that MATTER!
?
2010-11-17 08:42:46 UTC
Traditionally the rule of thumb is that a man spends the equivalent of three months' salary on an engagement ring. The reason for this is because one of the traditional purposes of the engagement ring is to prove to the fiancee that you have the financial means and stability to provide for her and any children that might come along. But as many people have answered, those rules are changing, and you should spend what you are comfortable with, within your budget.



It would be unwise to go into debt for anything, especially an engagement ring, since the resulting wedding is going to be more expensive than you will want it to be. :)
?
2010-11-17 05:01:16 UTC
Not much for an engagement ring because i never know if this one is for my good and i did not understand what i was doing that time in the far future or not. Only a very medium amount of 200$ or

300$ nothing else.
lets_put_a_smile_on_that_face
2010-11-17 01:19:59 UTC
None. The smart thing to do would be to not get married. I defy a person to give me one good reason why two people should be married. The only solution I can come up with is they want to lessen the chance the other person will leave them. Why can't two people simply be together and leave it at that? I am a strong enough man to convey the seriousness of a relationship without trapping the woman.
Keene Tshepho
2010-11-17 03:14:03 UTC
To be honest i think this white wedding thing is overated,i mean no offence but most people who get married and go all the way with engagements rings and all that cant afford them.



People need to start appreciating the sentiments behind the whole marriage thing and life in general. a long time ago it used to be about the size of the diamond surely it should not be the same now. we need to learn to know what to celebrate. we can celebrate each other stress free and enjoy the rest of our lives debt free instead of trying to impress people with expensive rings people who dont even like us and will laugh once we fail in life becasue we failed tyring to impress them......
2010-11-21 08:41:14 UTC
Traditionally, it is 3 months wage. However, this will equal a lot of money and will most probably end up taking people a while to save (given people need to pay bills etc). My theory is.. the 3 month rule is romantic but anywhere around £2k is more than enough. After all.. it isn't supposed to be about the price right?
stina p
2010-11-20 09:40:29 UTC
Don't go into debt over a wedding ring, after all you might need that money for something else. You can get nice wedding rings for 500.00 or 1000.00 dollars at whole sale jewelers, some might even have a layaway plan, so that you can pay on the ring a little at a time.
Tonya Tester
2010-11-18 13:13:28 UTC
Don't put yourself in debt!! It's only a ring!! I know that most women dream of a big diamond but later on down the road that payment on a big ring could have been used on things you need! House payment, car payment ETC. Most women want to out do each other(the bigger the better). I love my husband more than I love my ring! And we are not in debt! So only spend according to your budget. Taking into consideration everything that you are going to have to pay combined after your married!!
Ticketgirl
2010-11-18 09:19:11 UTC
Do not live beyond your means and don't buy something you'll be afraid to wear out on the street. I do think it should be something special and they should spend a little over the red it's worth it. Personally i've been looking at rings since I believe it might happen sometime soon and i found a very nice simple ring for 4k. my first marriage my x-husband spent $200 on our rings yes both.
Jean
2010-11-17 22:10:49 UTC
You should not have to spend so much on a simple ring! I know ppl in debt because of this and it's ridiculous! There a ring I would love that costs $130 and is more than I could ever ask for! It also does not have to have a diamond!
lil nutz
2010-11-17 21:00:30 UTC
It really is NOT about the money. My last engagement ring was a little over 3,000...and now I'm selling it-we broke up. So really it really is not about how much money you spend. Don't get me wrong, what girl wouldn't want something classy! But really, I think even if a guy spent around 500.00, it could still be a nice looking ring! Money is NOT everything!
Frank
2010-11-17 19:07:25 UTC
2000
M
2010-11-17 01:48:29 UTC
Just to shed a little light on the "three month salary" rule. I was told before that this originated during war times. The ring was to act as a "Dowry" so if the husband was to be injured or killed in the war, the wife would have the ring to sell as a means to support herself and/or her children for three months without her husbands income to rely on.

In modern day times I would say to spend an amount that shows you cared enough to save for it. This does not mean that you should go broke for it though. Just think, if you really wanted that 60"flat screen tv and saved for it for 3 months, well hopefully you care more for your future wife and saved for that commitment at least twice what you saved for some TV. This will be the only thing she will wear every single day for the rest of her life. A friends ex-fiance bought her a perfectly fine ring, that cost $1200.00. They had been together for 6 years. The year previous he had spent $3000.00 for a 4 day trip with the boys to Vegas. Kinda makes you wonder where his priorities are. Ya, they never did get married. So my friends, have a good think about it cause it is not about greed or materialism, its about priorities. Goodluck:)
2010-11-16 18:32:28 UTC
Get a rung that is $1,000 or less. Even if you have $2,000,000, you don't want to spend a ton of money like $1,000,000 on a wedding ring unless if you love world most expensive things. The best rings to actually get are rings (still talking about engagement rings) with green gems. You also have to check the price. $100 tells you it's not plastic or has a fake diamond. So get it is this price range, $100-$1,000.
obama's Child
2010-11-16 05:09:36 UTC
why should it matter how much to spend ? the question in it self is pointless

The cost of the ring won't make either happy, And it Sure Won't Keep Them together.

Couples Who Start out with money playing too big a role in the union usually Divorce

when financial droughts occur. Save Your money Build Your Bonds with / to each other .
2010-11-11 14:24:16 UTC
There is no set amount of money that you should spend on an engagement ring. You should always spend what you can afford, without going into debt.



The old adage of spending "two months salary" on an engagement ring is outdated. Marketing companies for diamonds try to sell the idea that the more you spend means the more you love the person. That just isn't true. Spend what is in your budget.



Take a look at a site like http://adiamor.com to see just how much prices vary and how you can get a lot of quality for not a lot of money.



If the person you are asking to marry you loves you, they won't care how much you spend, as long as you put time and thought into what you buy.
2014-10-06 15:12:43 UTC
line of reasoning is that the prospective groom should expect to spend the equivalent of three months earnings. I think this is absurd. At the same time, if this criteria is used, a lot of bad weddings would not take place because people would not get past the hurdle of buying rings. Perhaps the idea of three months earnings is not a bad idea after all.



My first wife got a nice set of rings which she picked out herself.
Sandy
2010-11-22 13:41:27 UTC
Honestly, no more than 1/3 of your take home pay for one month. If you make $2000 per month, then less than $700. Never go into debt for an engagement ring..it's a very poor way to start a life together. :)
checo62000
2010-11-18 23:16:55 UTC
Just buy one you like. Once you marry, your wife will have plenty of time to find out if your love is true or not. Same with you.



A ring should not represent love. Actions should.



If she's not an empty headed one, she'll appreciate even a wooden ring. That is, if you're the guy for her.



Let us all stop buying other people's love, shall we?
DMGD
2010-11-18 08:05:26 UTC
People should spend what they are comfortable with spending and more importantly what you can afford. If you can't afford anything that's decent (remember, this is a symbol of your love... you shouldn't go broke doing it, but a 25 cent ring wouldn't exactly the best way of showing your love either). Don't go broke from this ring, if you don't have the money, simply wait and save your money for something you can be proud of.
andymanec
2010-11-18 07:45:36 UTC
My wife and I got matching engagement rings. Instead of dropping a chunk of money and dealing with the ethical problems that come with diamonds (not to mention the fact that we both think that most engagement rings look gaudy and ugly), we decided to make our own. We bought a $10 roll of silver jewelry wire, and spent an afternoon making braided wire rings topped with a rosette. We got exactly the look we wanted, had matching rings, and crafted them together, for what amounted to pocket change.
Yummy Yum
2010-11-17 08:41:16 UTC
I think 500 dollars is high enough for the average middle class person. Everyone has a different financial situation, though. I think too many people place way too much emphasis on the ring size/price and not the relationship. Besides, the wedding details and wedding rings themselves will probably be pricey enough.
hjalmar67
2010-11-17 03:47:00 UTC
It's a piece of jewelry, made with gold mined by kids and blood diamonds, don't spend too much. Put all your money into an unforgettable honey moon, go someplace exotic, someplace you'll probably won't the time or the money to go back to. Make it the most spectacular time you've had so far, worship your woman, take as many days as you can afford.
?
2010-11-16 18:19:34 UTC
Only what you can afford without getting into debt. I mean, come on, who wants to start a life together with debt over a piece of jewelry that just shows your getting married. Shouldn't the fact that you're together be enough to proclaim your love rather than a circle you put on your finger? In the end it's who your spending your life with and the memories you'll make with them that matters the most.
MommyOona
2010-11-16 14:13:47 UTC
Not more than you can afford... That means not on credit.



That said, the focus should be on the relationship (marriage) and not the symbols. That is all an engagement ring is, a symbol. You want it to be nice, but it is really not the most important thing.



If you do not insist on a "surprise" engagement, this is something you should talk about together. The first of many financial decisions you will need to decide together!
2010-11-18 21:18:10 UTC
I think the engagement ring should be 1 / 3 of the total budget , or over budget.

For the cost of marriage, i think it was Ring 1 / 3, banquet 1 / 3, wedding photography, clothes, 3 / 1.
jnk686
2010-11-17 15:35:22 UTC
If you are looking to save money, consider other cuts than the typical solitar diamond shape, as it is very expensive when you try to get size, color, clarity, and cut. You can save with a larger non-semetical shaped stone and often times a lot of girls like it better because it's bigger.



But don't spend more than 2 months salary on a ring, it's not worth it. She'll be more happy with the proposal than the ring, trust me.
?
2010-11-16 22:14:40 UTC
A ring is a symbol of your love. Do not go into debt just to prove that point. A woman would be fine with a standard, not that expensive, ring. But, as long as you put some thought into it and truly love her. But, don't be too stingy... buy a ring that resembles her- diamond (for an april born) or like an engraving.
Cami
2010-11-16 13:57:35 UTC
I think that the metal and the jewel should be real, but c'mon guys. It's just a ring! You don't need to spend anything over $2-300 for a pretty one. Ok...yeah, my dream ring does cost about $400, but I wouldn't mind if that was out of reach. I've seen some real gorgeous ones for $90-150, made out of real metal with a real jewel.



By real metal, I mean don't go for the imitation gold and what-nots that turn most fingers green. The engagement ring should not turn the finger green! So if you have to spend extra to make sure her finger doesn't change colors, please do. For her sake.
?
2010-11-20 14:26:32 UTC
The jewelry industry has done a great job of subconsciously persuading us that "2 months salary" is the norm. If you made $30000 a year, chances are they would think that $4000 is an acceptable right after taxes. Most jewelry stores would try to sell him up to a $5000 ring too. This is just far too much money as a percentage of one's income to spend. Their standard "2 months salary" is 17% of your annual income. As much as you love your soon to be wife, that's just too much money! They'll say things such as, "you do want to get yourself the best ring, right?" It's almost as if they subconsciously link your wife's love to how much you spend on the ring. Don't fall for these myths, ever!
Al
2010-11-19 03:04:54 UTC
the fact that you are going to have an engagement with someone else, what matters most in that case is how much love you can actually give to your partner. but, basically, if any amount must be anyone's basis specially on engagement rings, then better you settle for comfortable price...

Comfortable in the sense that you don't have to much worry on how much money should you spend just to buy the ring.
?
2010-11-19 00:48:18 UTC
As for me, if I were a woman I wouldn't pay too much attention to the price of an engagement ring. Anyway you're in love and the ring is just talisman of your attachment. So your purchase should be appropriate for financial position.
venus
2010-11-18 17:19:54 UTC
I Would Say Around 3 to 5 Thousand Dollars.
riverrat
2010-11-18 14:58:28 UTC
Nothing more than you can afford. Remember an engagement ring doesn't guarantee that marriage will follow. Never go in debt to ruin the start of a happy experience!
Lisa B
2010-11-18 09:04:33 UTC
Save what you can afford for 3 months and see how much you have. If you can get credit at the jewelry store, get a limit double the amt of money you have. Then get the ring and when the 1st payment is due, use the save dmoney. Right away it's half paid off.
MyGraine
2010-11-14 07:35:36 UTC
Nothing! They tell you that diamonds are so rare and beautiful, precious and valuable... then why does almost every woman on the planet (ok in the west) have one?

You're just as married without an engagement ring.

You can put the money wasted toward a down payment on a house. You could go on a nice(er) honeymoon. You could buy some furniture. You could (gasp) save it for a rainy day!
?
2010-11-20 14:54:46 UTC
It depends on when i'm getting married. If i was to find the woman of my dreams right this instant i would buy one from the pawn shop for the few bucks i have in my pocket. If i got married as i plan in the next 5 years i would spend maybe $4000-$15,000. Straight from the best jewelry store around. It depends ya see
2010-11-19 12:28:45 UTC
Traditionally a man is supposed to spend what's equal to three months of his salary. No, it's not about the money. In theory, it's about this being the only engagement ring he will ever buy, the only one she will ever get, and she will have it forever. Then possibly pass it on to a son or daughter when they marry.



As far as I'm concerned, a ball and chain would be more fitting! And cheaper! A woman has NO idea what she's getting herself into! :o



What ever he spends on an engagement ring is going to pale in comparison to what her parents spend for the wedding. Traditionally they pay for it.



As long as it doesn't turn your finger green, and you don't have to pay for it yourself, you're coming out ahead! LOL!!



Divorces are cheaper than weddings, and you don't need a ring. When I got divorced, my mom was so happy, she bought me a car! LMAO! :)



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Simone
2010-11-19 08:19:20 UTC
Nothing. The only purpose an engagement ring has is to show off to the girlfriends, and impress them with how much he spent. Later in life she can nag him to get a bigger stone. The whole custom is a big scam for useless expensive trinkets.
?
2010-11-18 16:47:36 UTC
You should spend however much you want. Engagement rings are a way of showing that your getting married and that you both have fallen in love with each other. So the price of the ring should not matter as much as the ring itself. You should spend the amount of money that both of you agree and are comfortable with!
Bob Smith
2010-11-18 08:15:40 UTC
I've heard people spend up to 2 months salary worth, sometimes going into debt for it. I'm engaged now, and didn't spend close to that amount for the whole wedding set. Where I live, there's a "jewelry district" nearby. There are several jewelry malls there, and it's easy to find good bargains on quality jewelry.
?
2010-11-18 08:12:57 UTC
You are only gonna get married one time or should. So by a very nice ring, but don't go into the red. Also some times it is not the prices that matter but the fact that you had there favorite gem in mind.
MissObvious
2010-11-17 07:22:14 UTC
Nothing,

my engagement ring was drawn on my finger in ink, it's not that he's cheap but it was the cutest innocent love from a man. But at the same time it was his hint of I want to live with you and will you be mine. After marriage and a bit of savings we both got rings of our love and family brand sign instead of the standard gold or diamond ring.



Have you ever thought of what a ring really means in a family and it's significant and not the universal meaning of it?
Remy
2010-11-14 13:52:19 UTC
A ring is only a symbol, so it's silly to spend some ridiculous amount of money on either an engagement ring or a wedding ring. As long as it's strong enough to stand up to a lifetime of wear, who cares what it cost? My engagement ring was $35, cubic zirconia and rhodium. We couldn't afford diamonds when we got engaged. It still looked great and was an outward sign of the commitment we had made to each other.



Honestly, why would anyone go into debt for a ring? Especially when one of the biggest "irreconcilable differences" named in divorce proceedings is MONEY!
Josh S
2010-11-13 06:55:44 UTC
I am in the market to buy an engagement ring and have made that purchase yesterday. This question was asked at the right time for me to give my personal opinion on it.



Let's be honest. I wanted to spend $2000 on an engagement ring she wanted that would make all her friends buckle over in shame over their 45 cent rings. I make decent money but have obtained a lot of debt and this was not really an option. Paying down bills was not an option either since it would take a much longer time and I want to show her that I love her and am ready to settle down. I planned ahead and created a hidden account to save up some money from my check to go in there and lied to her saying $X was all I was making per paycheck. I recently ended up sitting with her through hours of online ring shopping until I found what she was interested in getting (the shape, the designs, etc). She understands our debt situation which made it easier as well. We found a ring that was priced $500 at Zales but I got for $260 at Overstock! I am now waiting for my package from them. She doesn't have any clue.



For the new loves or even mature loves thinking of forking over some dollars for an engagement ring, I think sitting down with them and figuring out a budget for a future plan like this would make the best approach. You can talk to them without them suspecting you are planning on buying it such as pretending you don't have the money since you might share bills together. If talking about it might ruin the mood, and you want to surprise her, I believe you should focus on a design she likes (single stone, black diamond, 3 diamonds - past present future, etc) and find diamonds within the near colorless scale. Try to stay around SI-1. For the untrained eye, those colors (GHIJ) and SI-1 are going to be a good sparkle for any girl to love.



Last thing: for most rings, you can always have the diamond replaced with a larger and clearer diamond to make the value of it worth more. Always keep that in mind as the ring you pick can always be updated. I plan on in the future upgrading her diamonds.
2010-11-16 17:48:47 UTC
Anything amount that the man feels comfortable spending, don't be cheap unless that just happens to be what you can afford....as much as many girls would love a nice big ring, married isn't about the ring but about how you care for each other. I would stay away from using a credit card but your going to have to save for a little bit. it should be nice and reflect your love for her, but shouldn't be so much that you will struggle for a while, you still have the wedding and honeymoon to pay for
Sammie Davis
2010-11-23 17:42:52 UTC
My honest opinion as a woman is that price should not even be an issue (other than it putting you in the poor house). The right engagement ring should represent you both. My fiance and I just picked out mine and it has both of our birthstones in it and is fabulous. It means something. It only cost 800 but it will be priceless to me forever.
2010-11-22 09:25:10 UTC
True first edition is right, there is time in life to save for that epic piece of jewellery, but typically, starting a life together costs money, so I'd say only as much as you can comfortably afford without going into overdraft.



Save for months before hand, set a budget and stick to it. What matters is your marriage to a person you love forever.
Ben K
2010-11-18 23:27:58 UTC
You should put as much into the engagement ring as you plan to put into the marriage. As long as there is no limit to how much love there is between the wife and the husband, the price of the ring, should not matter.
?
2010-11-18 20:42:45 UTC
I've always heard 10-15% of your income for the year. I would recommend $3,000-$5,000 for a nice one. Although at the same time the way the economy is I wouldn't go in dept trying to impress a girl with when you can always get a new one later for a anniversary or something.
?
2010-11-17 16:35:05 UTC
A man is supposed to spend a three months salary on an engagement ring.
milboka
2010-11-17 11:14:39 UTC
When I proposed to my wife I gave her a coctail straw knotted in a loop. We were married two days later in Las Vegas. On our third wedding anniversary I bought her an engagement ring for a wedding gift, (money was not as tight by then). Three weeks ago we had our twentieth anniversary, she showed me that she still has the coctail straw ring. Point being, it's not the ring that counts, it's the lady who wears it.
?
2010-11-17 10:36:44 UTC
The price of a ring doesn't matter...It's the feelings between the couple that give it its value...It can be a diamond or a piece of common metal- it doesn't matter how much someone can afford..What matters is the new life that the couple dreams of starting together..So I think everyone should spend as much as they can without spending too much cause its not the ring itself that matters but the love the couple shares..



please answer my question too

https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20101116054528AAFCH7O
lakeside54321
2010-11-17 07:28:05 UTC
Considering the fact that I've been married and divorced 3 times.... I wouldn't spend another dime on one of those silly things! I also like to think of them as "Rules of Engagement Rings", because let me tell ya.... the battle will be on! Sorry I couldn't offer anything positive... I know there are quality relationships out there, so be sensible in all things... make sure you haven't rushed into the engagement.... make sure you know the person you are marrying, and if you've only been with them a short time, you need to investigate them....Get them to show you their recent credit report, do a background check on them... find out how this person feels about their mother.... their dad.... Do they like to do the things you like? Did they do those things themselves before they met you, or are they just trying to "ACT" like they like those things to please you! Because here is the deal.... When you make vows to someone..... you make those vows to the whole package you fell in love with.... When someone changes EVERYTHING after you marry them.... THAT isn't what you made vows to.... so don't be fooled into making vows to a fake! AND.... they may not be a fake on purpose or to try to decieve you.... they may be that way, because they WISH they were that kind of person, but when adversity hits.... it is back to their normal self.... the self that you may never have seen before, because you were so crazy head over heals about! I'm just sayin!
Claire
2010-11-17 04:02:56 UTC
I think if you need to buy an engagement ring you should only spend what you can afford.

My husband didnt even bother mainly cos we didnt really get engaged just married. So i use previous one (he has never taken the hint.. LOL). the previous one cost £40 (gold, 3 small saphires and little diamonds around them) I designed it and it was specially made for me - did get it wholesale though!
Kylie Anne
2010-11-14 23:36:29 UTC
I think people put WAY too much emphasis on price... who cares!

the ring I want is $180, and I'd be proud to show it off to anyone.



to me it would be more important to get something I like than something that costs a lot. I'd rather have my fiance spends $100 but get a ring that really fits me and I can tell he put a lot of thought into it than spend $1000 and just get the one the lady at the counter says is the best!



IMHO money does NOT = love
givemestrength
2010-11-14 22:15:58 UTC
Don't put too much emphasis on the cost. the significance is that you have got one just to say your betrothed. The actual wedding ring will of course be much more important to what you select and spend. A curtain ring would suffice, and nobody would any the wiser. I'm only kidding!

So for the full commitment you will make, I wish you a happy and long marriage and may there be lots of children.



givemestrength
kevina p
2010-11-12 02:18:02 UTC
Hi What is the use of spending a fortune on an engagement ring, when something a lot cheaper looks just as nice. You do not go around saying "look at my engagement ring it cost ,,,,,,whatever). You also have to look at the practical side as well, yes when you get engaged they are the love of your life ...but that can all change, and can change quickly. So something inexpensive will suffice, when you have been married ex amount of years that's when the expensive jewellery can be bought.
Jinx Silver Mcarthur
2010-11-21 03:01:19 UTC
You should spend how much you can afford. It isn't about the amount of money that you spend on the ring, it is about what the ring symbolizes. She won't care if the ring costs $5 or £5,000 if she really loves you. If she does care, then maybe you shouldn't be marrying her...
2010-11-17 22:54:53 UTC
Engagement ring is your official token of love.Be it the boy or girl their partner should be filled with the love that u wish to give them.You can buy a ring that you can afford.But the way you give it matters the most.Sometimes your partner wouldn't be very enthusiastic about the ring because it did not match their budget.But the way you give can definitely bring positive,romantical changes:-)
cande56755
2010-11-17 15:45:33 UTC
Spend it on your married life together and sudden bills that pop up. If you make it past 10 years have a big wedding with nice rings, etc

I think putting all of your chips up front is a jinx for your life as well.
?
2010-11-17 00:59:59 UTC
Having read some of the other answers, they are somewhat outdated. With the cost of gold, you cannot get even a quality setting for $100 as one recommends spending much less a diamond. I recommend you spend what you can on a quality white gold, not platinum setting. Platinum needs too much maintenance. Then spend minimally on the diamond. You can buy a bigger diamond later and put it in your quality setting for a lifetime of use.
falcunx
2010-11-16 20:28:05 UTC
The rule of thumb is 3 months of your current pay, but honestly most women (the good ones) don't really care how MUCH you spend. The more important thing is to get a ring that fits her finger. I chose three rings i liked personally, could afford, and were the right size and let her pick the one she liked from those. She loved the idea, has a ring with a stone that is the right size for her small fingers and didnt regret being able to pick it out herself :)
Annon
2010-11-14 14:11:35 UTC
It all depends on your salary and budget. Not everyone is a Doctor. I would say a one month salary after taxes. But you can get really good deals if you know how to look for them. You can spend $2,000usd for a $5,000 dollar diamond ring if you know how to find them. Also if you go to a state were someone died, you can buy a used one, get the diamond out and buy a new ring and mount the diamond for at least half the price :)
?
2010-11-12 10:06:57 UTC
Well this depends on who you are marrying. If this person you are marrying has something that clicks you just know that she is the one, the one that you cannot live without. Someone who you would always love, and cherish through whatever happened. Someone you would do anything for. You need to spend a lot of money on a ring. Nothing says more that I love you more than anyone else than a ring that you can't afford. Something that you have to save up for, for so long. That you have to go to hell, and back to get the ring.



But then again someone who really loves you back could say they don't want that expensive of a ring. Just the gesture tells the woman that you love them more than anything in the world. If a woman declines the ring, and asks for a cheaper one then that could mean two things. She really loves you as much as you love her, or that she thinks the marriage will not last. Most of the time when a woman declines the ring, and says she doesn't want an expensive ring just you, it means she loves you just as much as you love her.



But if you are unsure about the marriage, and you just love her for her looks. You shouldn't spend that much money on the ring. It isn't a good idea to spend a lot of money on a marriage that could die in 1-2 years especially if you don't have the money to buy the ring. I wouldn't go over $2,000 for someone who I'm not really certain about. Someone you met at a bar, or something. You need to know that person for a while to be able to really love her.
2010-11-23 17:39:00 UTC
I am starring this question. And so should you, America.



I have the same answer as someone else almost:

Only what you (currently) can comfortably afford without going into (credit card) debt.

Going in the red over a piece of (not necessarily 'forever') jewelry is no way to start your (happy) life together.
Meriel
2010-11-18 13:35:39 UTC
Spend what you are comfortable spending. If she is the one, she will appreciate a ring that is suited for her style and not based on the price tag or carat weight. You don't want to start your married life in debt because of the ring, and she probably won't want that either ;-)



Congratulations in advance!
Skyknot
2010-11-17 21:30:21 UTC
You should spend as much money on how special that person is to you without using all your money. A engagement ring doesn't represent how expensive it is. It represents how much that person thinks about you. Even if it is the cheapest engagement ring in the world you should be loving to the person who bought it.
?
2010-11-16 17:43:53 UTC
You should spend what ever amount you can afford. I would,t put a great amount into an engagement ring as unsettled as the world is today and the reasoning of the women of today is not very reassuring or stable.I would be more generous with the wedding ring.
?
2010-11-16 17:16:33 UTC
Always too much. Some fruitcake came out with a formula that it should be something like 30% of your annual income. In this economy, don't get yourself in debt like my fellow posters wrote. I would go with something affordable and then down the line if economy picks up and have the cash for it get another ring for the 5 year anniversary that tells her you appreciated her sticking around. I for one told my wife before we got married, I wanted to get married only once. That was 4 years ago. Unfortunately we are now divorced. So I'm glad I didn't spend 30% of my annual salary. I'd still be paying for it now. That would be a bummer on top of the bummer from our divorce. Anyhow... wish you the best and congrads on the engagement.
Unloved-Emo-Chicka
2010-11-16 14:26:04 UTC
To tell you the truth a if she really loves you she wont care how much u spend on the ring. The ring is a symbol of how much you love her and she should be happy that she even got a ring. But if you want an exact amount ummmmmmmm about 2,000 dollars.
♥Me and You♥
2010-11-14 02:42:16 UTC
I think you shouldn't spend over $1,000.00 sure, sounds and seems like a lot, but that's the price for a REAL diamond ring, not a fake phony one and sure it's the day you're going to propose and the ring "has" to be perfect and beautiful, and whatnot. . . But spending too much is just ridiculous. Some people will spend over $10,000.00 on a necklace and then let alone an engagement ring?! It's ridiculous! But it's really just how much you love the person... so if you love them a lot.... a good $5 or 400.00 ring would do it. Well I hope my opinion helped on all 200 answers! =]
ofevermore
2010-11-21 12:31:07 UTC
What I've heard is that 2 months of your salary is the basic amount you should spend on an engagement ring. Good luck!
Erica R
2010-11-20 20:24:29 UTC
However much money you spend on a ring should be how much money you can afford on a ring. If you cannot afford it then please do not spend it. It's like wedding planning. You have to understand that you need to live after this ceremony and you won't have much of a life if you start out in debt.
2010-11-18 14:44:04 UTC
One month's salary is a good rule of thumb. You certainly wouldn't want to get your girl a $5000 ring if you only make $1500 a month. Remember you gotta pay for the wedding, honeymoon and regular monthly bills too.
?
2010-11-18 14:08:37 UTC
I don't think the engagement ring should be as much as the wedding ring. The engagement ring is temporary, i'd hope, and in my opinion is no less important but it should really depend on your budget. I personally am young and would stay under thirty g's.
Someone Online
2010-11-17 20:51:44 UTC
I agree with true, you should only spend what you're comfortable with, maybe something more creative such as a jewel to match her eyes rather than a diamond if you're on a low budget. I think an appropriate amount is about 3 - 4 months worth of your salary.
2010-11-17 03:58:00 UTC
So many things can affect this. How much do you love him, how much do you have, how uch are you already in debt by lol only joking. Just saying, there is no reason to spend thousands and thousands on a ring. I plan to propose with a ring with a small black rose, little black diamonds and engraved with our initials. So make it personal to the other person's taste. :)
CKB
2010-11-17 03:29:36 UTC
The engagement ring will remain forever in your fingure, coz that will tell rest, that you are married, hence it should be beautiful enough to catch glance of others, but keep in mind, you should have enough money to support other expenses of your marriage. So better watch your budget, subtract all other expenses from it, whatever remains spend on your engagement ring..
2010-11-16 22:07:15 UTC
getting engaged should be about a ring. of course the bigger the better, but love is love and doesnt need a ring to show it. You should spend whatever you feel is right on the ring.. not what other think.
Kristine
2010-11-16 14:14:28 UTC
I told my husband (while we were still dating) that I did NOT WANT a large ring. I told him that I like small jewelery and wanted something small. He is a great bargain finder and got a diamond ring set for about 800 dollars. When we had it appraised, we were told it was worth almost $3,000 dollars. I like that kind of savings. We can use that extra money on other things that we want or need.



BTW - The ring I actually got was bigger than I was planning on and it took a while to get used to. My husband is not a cheap man, he just doesn't like to pay full price for anything - and neither do I.
embrace the UNKNOWN
2010-11-15 22:16:53 UTC
Most people with common sense would go for affordable, but when it comes to love? Whomever you are with think of them when you are shopping for a ring and ask yourself if you can put a price on that. Every time he/she looks at that ring they will be thinking "this is how much I mean to him/her". He/she will never admit that/ that is what they are thinking because then you will think they are cold and very materialistic. Im not saying go over the top and break the bank, just go for what you think is a decent price for a nice ring and push for alil more than that.
2010-11-15 19:04:20 UTC
It's not about the money. I think it's better not to spend more than 1K on a engagement ring and save the rest for more important things
Vash
2010-11-13 23:19:52 UTC
Invest in sentiment.



Sentimental value holds deeper value than monetary value.



If you get a ring based on money and it makes one happy well then so be it (I won't argue). In that case pay the most you can to make it happen.



But my preference when I got married was for a sentimental ring (a handed down ring from someone who was a mom to me) and it is priceless.



There is always time to buy a "bling ring" like 10th, 25th, 50th anniversary.....

With my 25th approaching I don't want part with it, in fact if anything I would just change the stone if anything and keep the same ring.
?
2010-11-11 05:28:59 UTC
As a woman who is married, my husband and I took a different approach. I said that he would not get an expensive ring until we had been together for 5 to 10 years. I don't feel that the ring should be a symbol of how someone feels for you or the amount of time they want to spend with you. The ring is a priviledge and the woman should have to put some work in before she deserves a huge expensive diamond. So maybe down the road I will eventually have a big diamond but for now I have just enough and all his love and thats all that matters.
?
2010-11-19 23:51:40 UTC
A ring is a symbol. It shouldn't put someone in debt for any length of time. I think a man should only spend what he can afford in showing his desire to spend the rest of his life with the love of his life.
2010-11-19 22:32:56 UTC
A ring is a symbol. It shouldn't put someone in debt for any length of time. I think a man should only spend what he can afford in showing his desire to spend the rest of his life with the love of his life.
2010-11-19 17:12:13 UTC
A ring is a symbol. It shouldn't put someone in debt for any length of time. I think a man should only spend what he can afford in showing his desire to spend the rest of his life with the love of his life.
joe
2010-11-18 21:47:47 UTC
Can you really put a price on love??? Get the most expensive ring YOU CAN AFFORD starting out your wedding with a diamond ring the size of a poppy seed is not cool and I grantee your wife will be embarrassed by it and she won't brag about how excited she is to marry you...
Codster
2010-11-18 21:30:04 UTC
Nothing, the ring is just a symbol, our society manipulates you into buying an otherwise useless object at a hugely inflated price! If you and your future spouse truly love each other, you don't need a piece of jewelry to show, prove or remind you.
2010-11-18 14:10:28 UTC
Traditionally it is the amount of 3 months salary, but in this modern world...

I am engaged, but my Fiance hasn't purchased a ring for me yet. He is waiting for the right ring and the right price. We aren't going into debt for the ring, but it is an important piece of being engaged. It is just my opinion.
John M
2010-11-18 07:22:37 UTC
Find out how much she thinks you should spend. This is a good indicator of her behavior during the marriage. Many women flaunt their wedding/engagement ring to other women. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want to be married to any of those sort of women.
Secular Humanist
2010-11-17 19:41:41 UTC
My son gave MY ring to his future wife. Should I get married again, I would prefer to wear a fake diamond. But really, I didn't and I wouldn't have a big wedding either. The 3 week honeymoon was great though!
Sierra
2010-11-16 18:11:48 UTC
I think you should spend what you can spend without bending over backward. It's too demanding to expect an expensive ring from someone who can't afford it, and no rock is worth starting your life together with a big old hunk of debt.
2010-11-16 05:10:34 UTC
A ring is a symbol. It shouldn't put someone in debt for any length of time. I think a man should only spend what he can afford in showing his desire to spend the rest of his life with the love of his life. as much as you can afford, without going into debt the importance is your really love
Emily Kate
2010-11-20 06:03:39 UTC
You could save money by finding a jewellery student or graduate just starting out - get them to make something inexpensive for you. It'd have the benefit of being completely unique, which probably means more to your fiancee than spending loads of money and getting into debt. Or do a crash course on jewellery making yourself and have a go!
2010-11-19 22:04:07 UTC
The Ring Of The Family ''Like My Grandma's Ring Or My Mother Ring'' Is Better That 1000000 $ Ring ..
Amber M
2010-11-18 11:19:54 UTC
I think the amount you spend on an engagement should depend on your amount of income. I'm not a materialistic person but if my boyfriend had a 6 figure income I wouldn't feel very important to him if he spent $150 on my engagement ring. Something that is supposed to mean forever should last forever, that means it should probably be gold. Also, gems that are made in factories are far from precious. No matter the price, the ring should be a treasure. If you buy a cheap ring at least have it personalized somehow as a symbol of your seriousness of remaining with your partner for the rest of your life. You want it to at least last your lifespan.. Engagement rings should never need to be replaced.
Savior Of Silence (M-WWE)
2010-11-18 10:43:45 UTC
I'm only 16, but, IF I ever got married, 9 times out of 10, I'm marrying the right one and the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, so, I would spend anywhere between $2,000 and $20,000 on a wedding ring, cause, the girl would mean alot to me and she is special to me.
skirtsnsk8boards
2010-11-18 10:06:16 UTC
Speaking from a girls point of view.. I would be so upset if i found out my boyfriend dumped his life savings on a ring. There are much more important things that money can go toward especially when you are beginning to start a new part of your life.
tmreturns
2010-11-18 01:54:57 UTC
Traditionally the groom used to spend the equivalent of 3 months of salary.

Personally, I think that's a reasonable rule. It just depends on what the couple is comfortable with.
2010-11-17 12:33:34 UTC
I think that an engagement ring should be nice and simple

and not outrageously expensive. you don't know how long the marriage will last and you be out of allot of money. but down the years is be nice to give the love one a nice ring
2010-11-17 09:13:54 UTC
if you have enough money i would say 500 for every year you have known he/she with a cap at 4000

but its never a good idea to go into debt for an engagement ring

the wedding ring though i would say should be a lot more than the engagement ring
La Reina
2010-11-15 22:10:20 UTC
Whatever it takes to make her smile! If you are about to propose, you should know the lady you are proposing to and know what will take her breath away.



Some women will appreciate the thought you put in much more than the price tag, and some know exactly what they want and expect their life partner to invest a great deal into the symbol that will represent their bond for many years to come. There is no rule of thumb, because deep down you know what will make her happy!
peculiarpup
2010-11-15 08:39:46 UTC
Well, how much can you afford? Seriously, do you want to start out the marriage in hock for a rock? Plus, you're about to get married -- and the wedding (and wedding ring) cost something, too. You can find a ring that is personally meaningful that is less expensive than a major stone (for example, some museum shops sell rings engraved with romantic sayings, or you could have a less expensive ring engraved with a personal reference that is meaningful to both of you).



It's easy in the excitement to miss the fact that weddings are about marriage. The important part starts after the ceremony. The rest is fun (and should be) but what you're showing the world about yourselves as a couple can be a very different image than the one you're spending a fortune to present. For example, if one or both of you gets stressed out over the wedding expenses, you'll be tense and brittle, and that is the image that will be conveyed, not how lavish the process was. Lavish weddings, including jewelry, can be fun if you can easily afford them, but I've known marriages that didn't last until the weddings were paid off, in part because of the mountain of bills.



When my husband and I got engaged, we were young and just starting out. He told me he couldn't afford an expensive ring and I told him I'd marry him if all he could give me was a cigar band (neither of us smokes, btw). When he proposed, he gave me a ring box with a cigar band inside. Tucked inside the cigar band was a very modest engagement ring. I still have both the cigar band and the ring years later.
CarrieB
2010-11-25 05:30:13 UTC
It's not a question of putting a price on love, its a question of how much can the couple afford. And!! why does a woman need an engagement ring?? soooo outdated!!
Minnow
2010-11-17 11:04:00 UTC
You know, this may be odd, but I believe the ring should be more symbolic than bought. My husband had a friend of ours craft together a ring, put on it the oldest traditional stone (moonstone) for engagement, and buy it like that. It was symbolic of a lot of things, and didn't cost much.
cheruvima
2010-11-12 01:12:53 UTC
Take your girlfriend window shopping and see what she likes, or arrange for one of her girlfriends to do the same...just to see what her tastes are, then start saving up. A ring is just an item, but it's a symbol of your love and desire to spend your life with this woman. It's for her, but it's a reflection of you. How well do you want to be reflected, not only by the ring on your wife's finger for life, for in her heart? Do the best you can. It doesn't make sense to go into huge debt, but it does make sense to plan, save and do the best you can. I think the old rule of thumb about 2-3 months salary is still reasonable. It's hard to come by, requires some planning and sacrifice, but can be done. It's like a little miniature test of how you'll do in the marriage. Can you plan ahead, can you be diligent and disciplined, patient and persistent in getting what's necessary and getting things done to provide for your new family? Can you make sacrifices for the happiness and contentment of your spouse? If you really do not have the financial means to buy a ring now, how do you have the financial means to get married and operate a shared household? Even if you have a moderate budget, a high quality diamond is far better than a less quality one, so go smaller but maintain quality. Never go under 1/2 a Karat. And only do 1/2 a Karat if you are nearly broke...and then, really, reconsider getting married until you can afford to do so. Whatever you do, have the ring paid off before the wedding, so that your new bride doesn't end up making payments on her own ring in the marriage...that's just cheap.
?
2010-11-19 04:48:36 UTC
Don't buy something out of your budget. When you know that they are the one start saving, I saved for over a year spent $2,600, on a 1.1 carat princess cut diamond with a white gold band. You don't have to spend 10 - $15,000 on a ring.
Maddie's Mom
2010-11-18 13:30:34 UTC
I have heard 30% of your annual pay is reasonable to spend on the ring. Remember, it is something she will be wearing for the rest of her life! My husband spent about $8,000 (in 2007) for a 1.01 ct diamond and platinum ring and I don't think I'll ever get bored of admiring it.
Teresa
2010-11-18 06:50:42 UTC
How much? Money?

I really don't think money counts here...so, I'd say from 0$ to whatever you can spend on it. I would be happy enough with a plastic ring if given by someone I loved.

Simple.
chad
2010-11-17 16:43:36 UTC
Nothing. Buying expensive rocks to display on one's finger is pretentious and annoying. Save the wilds of Africa from soulless mining companies and forgo buying a diamond engagement ring. Love has nothing to with jewelry. Buy her a nice water bong and get high instead.
?
2010-11-17 02:42:59 UTC
No more than is practical for your budget. It is better to have a humble engagement ring that you can look back on years down the road. It will be more meaningful by the lesser of it's monetary value.. Unless that is, you might be an engagement ring /rock collector. They however, are not meant to be collected.
Hypnotic
2010-11-16 17:32:35 UTC
Talk about insecure investment. I know it's ya gal, but the success rates of marriages are abysmal. And you mate think "but i plan to do it differently" or "we have something special" but seriously, don't those other people who's marriages crash and burn?



So personally I'd say get a nice, easily affordable ring, instead of dropping a significant %age of your yearly wage on a ring.
2010-11-14 19:44:14 UTC
Nothing at all because all men in this country should be actively engaging in a marriage strike until our laws and social code treat women and men as equals.



If you cannot afford 3 months salary for the ring you cannot afford the rest of the liability that comes with marriage.
Little Hobo
2010-11-12 05:43:24 UTC
My Fiance and I talked about marriage and decided on £1000 as a limit, which was something we could comfortable afford. We were shopping 2 weeks ago and I came across an antique ring that I adored. It was priced just over half of the agreed amount, he proposed then and there and bought me my beautiful ring. Decide on a limit and what you can afford but the most expensive option is not always the way to go :)
Flowerpower
2010-11-24 14:33:56 UTC
I was engaged 26 years ago and my ring cost I think between £200 & £300 so I don't know what it would be in today's money maybe £500 to £1000.

I think maybe £500 to £1000 as long as the person can afford it or maybe a little less because even that can be of value too.

With the ring it can be a life long cherish item it can also be passed down like with William's mother's to his fiancee I think. Its something valuable in married life.
by Grace
2010-11-22 10:16:35 UTC
Not more than 2000 dollars for a pair of ring, I would invest more on the wedding ring, a diamond ring then for the wife to be.
2010-11-19 12:43:05 UTC
As a tradition it said that the engagement ring should cost the same as two months wages.



However in modern reality it really does not matter, but if tradition is what you want, its a good reference to go by.
ℓiℓу ツ
2010-11-19 09:34:39 UTC
3 months salary is the rule... However, if that's not enough for a ring where you can actually see the rock w/o a magnifying glass than I would get a gold band and wait until you can buy a proper ring to replace it.
Chris C
2010-11-19 04:56:37 UTC
I hear jewelery companies recommend a month's salary, I spent about 2 days salary yet my wife is still too frightened to wear it except on special occasions in case she loses it. This may be more for sentimental reasons than its actual value. Still I'm glad I didn't spend more as most of our lives it will be sitting hidden in a box.
2010-11-18 13:36:22 UTC
As a woman, I think that it is CRAZY to spend thousands of dollars on rings and big elaborate weddings....the engagement ring should be under $1000 and the wedding under $10,000 including the dress and tuxedo...I have done alot of reading and it is certainly do-able....
Jeff G
2010-11-17 07:44:54 UTC
I set aside some extra money for 2 months, not all my money, just what i would usually spend on odds and ends and left over from the month. I was able to get what she loved but I didnt have to break the bank or bend over backwards to make it happen either.
?
2010-11-14 17:18:41 UTC
Love each other is more inportant then an item, Little as possible, save that money so that both of you can do something and enjoy something together. Getting Married is for both the Man and the Women, Both should be able to Shine on that Special Day.
rilo
2010-11-14 13:14:00 UTC
Buy what you can afford!! Bait-and-switch is so unfair. You can't lure her in with some huge diamond and then plop her down in your ghetto apartment after you're married. Surely there must be some sort of equation to make this simpler. I've heard that two-month's salary is a rule of thumb, but I'm pretty sure that's been established by the -sellers- not the -buyers-.



And ladies, be realistic!! You are not a princess. If you think you should be treated like a princess, you should act like one. But one fake princess and one fake prince should not one royally huge ring make.
2010-11-18 12:03:47 UTC
from 200 to 1000
2010-11-17 20:27:44 UTC
If you can't afford it then don't buy it.... DUH!!!! People go through to much pressure because of the non sense they see on tv, music they listen to and what their goofy silly friends say. Me as long as you ask my hand in marriage and marry it's all that count, we don't have to get some expensive ring because it doesn't show how much a person loves that person, but for some weird reason men are attracted to women like that and women are attracted to men like that, yeah because I am not materialistic, I believe this is the reason why I am still single. Men now want a woman who walks around like she is the snap because of what she got on, not all men but the majority of them.
2010-11-19 21:01:55 UTC
Let me be honest. Years ago I found a gold ring with a red stone in it in my mother's box (she had died in 1948). Ergo I used it as the engagement ring and my life partner - actually we were in love for the past two years - was delighted to accept it and wear it with pride in front of all her siblings and friends.
Taylor Poteat
2010-11-19 07:39:33 UTC
I've heard that you're supposed to spend 3 months pay check on a ring, but I am not totally sure. I guess it's depending on your love and on how much they really care about being flashy or not.
Michelle
2010-11-18 12:19:41 UTC
$200
skatingangel44
2010-11-17 22:49:32 UTC
I think it depends on what is important to the couple. Over the course of an engagement, wedding, and honeymoon there will be quite a bit of money spent so I think each couple needs to decide where they want to make do with less. For me, the ring would be the first thing to skimp on. I would much rather have a nice wedding than a nice ring. So personally I would spend maybe a couple hundred dollars on one.
Dragon2323
2010-11-17 14:34:56 UTC
I just got engaged. The sales lady was trying to convince my fiance to spend $8k on a ring. Luckily I was there and I pick that I love and on $1k.



So whatever you can afford....but make sure that she likes the ring. After all, she's the one who have to wear it for the rest of her life.



:-)
Luv2smile
2010-11-17 08:58:42 UTC
Whatever that he is comfortable spending, that isn't going to cause much debt, or even no debt. I hate to see someone put $2000 on a credit card for a ring, it takes years to pay off a credit card with that kind of debt. You don't want to start off a marriage with tons of debt.
edie
2010-11-17 04:42:04 UTC
i think you spend what you can afford, because there are some pretty nice rings out there for under 2000.00. i say this because there are all kind of beautiful rings out there and a ring can be what you want it to be. plus you aren't going to go around telling everybody how much you paid for the ring, unless you are a movie star, and then you can still be lying.
2010-11-15 14:00:26 UTC
for someone whose deeply in love ,they should spend a maximum limit of no more then $200 because some many nice rings that express a lot of love cost a lot of money . All way find the cheapest store like K jewelry store or walmart.
Daniel
2010-11-14 09:41:17 UTC
They say, you should spend ONE MONTHS PAY on an engagement right.



Since the rings value goes down as soon as you buy it and the divorce rate is over 50 percent in America, not counting the women who keep the engagement ring when the marriage gets called off, I say,



AS LITTLE AS YOU HAVE TO





Then after a few years and a stable marriage, I would surprise her and upgrade to a 2 months pay ring.



Seriously, that is the wise way to do it as we talk about finances so much on here.
?
2010-11-13 10:05:14 UTC
To be honest, women have this view of materialistic things anyway even if they do say that oh love is all we need and a ring don't matter. Its kinda crap, fair enough you love that person and will take whatever they give you, but you wouldn't mind a $100000 ring on your finger, bet you wouldn't! Men are in a sense dutied to make a woman feel like a princess. Women do all the hard work, a nice ring is not a lot to ask for a whole lifetime of workship and effort.
Sharee R
2010-11-11 20:49:21 UTC
I never got an engagement ring from my husband, til this day five years ago i only have my wedding band. I don't think an engagement ring is necessary if your in love becouse materialistic things are not the ones that make a marriage work.
?
2014-10-09 19:30:25 UTC
This has become a cultural ritual. Just as a Masai warrior must prove that he can care for a wife by paying his brides's father a ch pf cattle, a typical American wageslave must prove that he either has money or credit by buying a grotesquely expensive diamond from the DeBeers cartel, who exploits this ritual like no one else exploits rituals.
?
2014-06-26 09:06:08 UTC
The average cost of a jewelry store diamond engagement ring is between $2,000 and $4,000
?
2010-11-24 15:05:38 UTC
A price that is not too expensive so you don't go broke after buying it, but enough to show how much you love your future spouse. If your spouse prefers something more expensive than what you can afford, (not that referring to a gold digger or someone who loves expensive things but what she will think is enough for her)you can buy what you can afford and make up for the rest with your love and devotion.
jEN
2010-11-18 20:12:43 UTC
$1000 to $5000
?
2010-11-18 14:34:28 UTC
Price doesnt matter you have to know your significant other and what they like and will want to ware. If price matters find a new girl... she just wants your money and divorces cost money, know a few people going that road now and they all had an expensive ring. 500 to 2000 sounds good
confused77
2010-11-17 21:56:39 UTC
I dont believe in the 3 month salary rule:

I feel that you have to spend within your means...

but It's your personal choice to spend $100 - 10,000;

just make sure you feel good about your choice at the end of the day.

goodluck
Akshay Dabhi
2010-11-16 15:43:50 UTC
I think money is not important to purchase engagement ring. The best design wether is it expensive or not should be considered. and the most thing is if the ring is the best for life partner's finger than its best.. from my point of view money is no matter... bcuz its a life's best decision and arrive one time to remebember whole life so make it so special
2010-11-19 18:23:04 UTC
If I were planning on proposing, I would save my money and put some aside to the ring, and do a lot of looking around for the perfect one. There would be no rushing, because you don't want to screw anything up.
2010-11-19 12:17:40 UTC
Well, to be honest, I would prefer to have an amazing wedding but if I got a £100 pound ring, I would have to say no. I would have to say at least £2000+ Sorry men!
?
2010-11-19 04:27:11 UTC
its not the engagement ring that you need to spend alot of money on. its an anneversiry ring. anybody can get married but can everybody stay together for 5-10+ years?
?
2010-11-18 07:07:48 UTC
I've heard that traditionally you are supposed to spend a month's salary on a ring. This seems like quite a bit of money to me.
squall09
2010-11-18 05:45:18 UTC
100$
johnnyq
2010-11-17 17:47:42 UTC
Everyone says "what you can afford", but that really doesn't help. If you knew how much you could afford, you wouldn't be asking the question.



I would recommend (assuming you have no crazy debt) between 2 and 3 months worth of your salary.
Danielle
2010-11-17 06:56:22 UTC
Someone else said exactly what I was thinking. It's not about the price, it's whether or not you love it. Remember you have to wear it with pride. Unless your partner went shopping and picked it out without you knowing, don't be ashamed to pick out exactly what you want. And if you want, help pay for it. My ring cost 2K (it's a bridal set) and we both went half. It's what I wanted and I love it.
?
2010-11-16 21:07:18 UTC
If I were planning on proposing, I would save my money and put some aside to the ring, and do a lot of looking around for the perfect one. There would be no rushing, because you don't want to screw anything up.
daph20
2010-11-15 07:43:30 UTC
Well what can you afford? Any girl wants to be proposed to so if she frowns on the ring you got that is the key to show you how the marriage is going to be. Trust me, find something in your budget and don't go overboard. You will have plenty of more money to spend on the marriage, honeymoon, and other things you guys want to do and don't want to get into debt starting out.
?
2010-11-18 18:40:19 UTC
My husband spent 1 /10th of his yearly salary and it was picture perfect. Just enough to get me a beautiful ring without going into debt - with much left to spend on our wedding.
Kari A
2010-11-17 07:03:03 UTC
I just got engaged Thursday (11/11) and my boyfriend over 1,000 on my set .. to me that was a lot.. but the price of gold is very high right now..
2010-11-17 06:39:52 UTC
Maybe 30 rupi or find a ring by the street. Thats where i found my plastic ring. Now I am happy at home with wife!!

Giggity giggity..
Mark S
2010-11-17 06:12:12 UTC
well, i suggest that as long as the budget allows..this is a special day..and a special item should come in a special price..But don't forget that there's still some other priorities that comes after the wedding...say, the post marriage espenses..and others...it's not bad to alllocate a budget for the ring..provided that there's also a backup money for future expenses...
White Van Man
2010-11-17 03:02:44 UTC
You should buy a ring that you know will last a life time, but also affordable. think of a type of ring that your misses would dearly love, obviously do not say the Price.
Callie T
2010-11-17 02:25:46 UTC
500
Sharon
2010-11-16 21:38:37 UTC
As for me I would want only the best but the best don't have exact answers for every person have its own taste different indeed! Of course when you are there planning for the wedding you wanna make sure everything is good. There's always this BUDGET things for that.



Hint: When you love someone our heart only says "the best" for that someone we are loving. Go out and check personally see for yourself. You will know when you see it.



How pure is your love?
Sarah
2010-11-16 15:41:07 UTC
A ring is just a ring, I would say 0-2000, even that is a little high. Depends on the person, and the relationship..
2010-11-16 10:17:08 UTC
I always heard two months salary. But honestly I think around 2 thousand, or what you can actually pay cash for. Do not put an engagement ring on credit
B3n car0l
2010-11-15 02:40:29 UTC
I don't care what it costs. The thing that I take in to consideration is that the engagement ring should of such a value that it shows how much you love your would-be wife. Now this value can be judged without any money. It could be cheapest or most expensive, but should be beautiful enough to please my wife and convince her my sincere admire and love for her.



Well, that's how I feel about such expenditure.



Good Luck!
?
2010-11-14 08:41:48 UTC
Everyone, it is a fallacy that higher price = loving her more, or that the more you spend, the happier she will be. It is not a law of nature! If you think about her honest views and values and act consistently with that, that's what will make her happy!



As a newlywed, let me tell you that I would feel like a complete idiot walking around with some giant bling-rock that cost what my husband makes in 2 months. We spent the equivalent of 4 DAYS of his pay on my ring (estate sale, consistent with our views and values), and it's gorgeous, perfectly "me," I get compliments all the time, and I don't feel ridiculous going about my messy, active day in it. I don't need a giant rock to tell the world how loved I am -- everyone knows how it from seeing me light up when he walks in the room!
the irony of dying on your birthday
2010-11-21 14:05:41 UTC
well most women don't care about the price but want a beautiful ring that doesn't mean it has to be 24 kerit gold & 24 kerit diamond i would say in the range of $500-$1000
2010-11-20 10:18:58 UTC
They say(I don't know who really) that you should spend 4 months pay on an engagement ring
ecpaa
2010-11-17 01:52:13 UTC
It really depends on your circumstances, of course.



Even rules such as 'a week's salary' or 'a month's salary' aren't really helpful because two people with the same salary might be radically different in terms of their outgoings and expectations of future salary increases.



The three month's gross salary 'rule' was invented by the diamond company De Beers and is a nonsense. If you're not well off then spending three months' salary on a ring will force you to unacceptably scale back on life's essentials and if you're well off then spending three months' salary on a ring will leave you with something ridiculously expensive that will probably be ostentatious, overlarge, gaudy, and a target for thieves.



An engagement ring is clearly a luxury rather than a necessity. It's not absolutely not worth spending so much that you get yourself into debt you can't service, or so much that you have to cut back on true essentials such as food.



But it's a fairly important luxury, something that you'll keep for ever, that people will want to look at and talk about, and that [within your budget] you want to be as nice as possible.



A couple of reasonable rules of thumb might be:



(1) Around 10% (give or take a bit) of the total budget you have for wedding and honeymoon; or

(2) Roughly one to two times the amount of money you would spend on your main annual holiday for the two of you.
JT
2010-11-18 15:55:56 UTC
Personally, I don't care if the ring came out of the fifty-cent machine. The cost does not matter. It's the sentiment of the ring is what really matters.
2010-11-18 11:49:06 UTC
One of the best things to do is find out what kind of ring your fiance likes. Once you have the right style, then you can price shop to find the best price in the ring that your girl wants. Remember, she might want a super expensive ring, but once you two get married, that debt will then become her debt. It is best to pick a ring in a price range that you can easily pay off before the wedding. You can find good deals with a great ring if you just take the time to look.
?
2010-11-18 06:59:30 UTC
I'm going to go against what most people wrote here. I believe that a piece of jewelry, like an engagement ring, is as much an investment as it is a symbol and a show of a man's love for the person he is marrying.



From what I have seen, I believe that a reasonable price to spend on a diamond engagement ring is between 4 and 5 thousand. While I am not married or engaged, if the time were to come, I would be more than willing to contribute to the cost of my own ring if my partner were unable to afford the ring that I wanted. I also believe that couples who decide to become engaged should discuss the cost of the ring and should choose it together, so that the woman gets the ring she wants.
Joseph
2010-11-17 14:02:21 UTC
400
Cadcar
2010-11-17 07:34:17 UTC
Who cares? Jewelry is nice, but finding a decent husband is better. Knowing how hard it is to find someone really wonderful to marry, I would be blessed enough to even have that. So give me an incredible man who loves me to marry, I would take a piece of string.
Shellback
2010-11-16 19:37:10 UTC
My wife of 35 years and I decided that things for our modest home were more important than a ring, for either of us. Instead we researched wedding rings that were beautiful but were much more modest in price. We chose to buy each other Hawaiian wedding bands that had each of our names in Hawaiian on them seeing how we had a Hawaiian wedding. To this day we have no regrets.
2010-11-16 19:16:11 UTC
some one should spend as much as they can afford because if they try to buy something that there going to be in debt for is not worth it. Things can also go wrong and then the money just gets thrown away.
Sally Anne
2010-11-13 07:00:07 UTC
That is an open-ended question. How long is a piece of string! It is personal how much. It is given with love and if somebody can only afford a cheap one then so be it. It is the meaning behind the ring that matters in my book.
kiss my wookie!
2010-11-11 19:55:40 UTC
I have always heard the saying "the ring should equal what you make in 3 weeks worth of work"... or was it three months? either way, you shouldn't pay attention to sayings like that. what you *should* pay attention to is what is it your future wife/husband will like. Most guys spend copious amounts of time finding out what a girl likes in a piece of jewelry. Once a guys knows the size of the main stone/cut/metal/size/amount of smaller stones, then you can find out how much you are comfortably able to spend. There is no ONE payment amount a person should stick to, it all depends on the type of ring, and where you find it. whether it's in a high end jewelry store (where they usually have this years styles in jewelry and the price can shoot over $5k... depending on the ring.) or you go to a pawn shop (where the price is cheaper, and the styles of rings are much more diverse.) In either case, choose what might make your future spouse happy, not what is going to be the most expensive because there are some very expensive and at the same time very ugly rings out there.
2010-11-24 11:15:37 UTC
What you feel comfortable paying for. And a ring is a symbol of your love, does love really have a price? So, if you can afford it and you think your partner will like it, why not? But why buy a cheap one when u can buy one both of you feel comfortable seeing?
Lady T
2010-11-23 09:35:29 UTC
I would spend 1000 to 1200.
Angels Internet Cafe K
2010-11-18 02:26:21 UTC
Yes Its the best thing in one life and the start up is should be with the best, Keepind one budget in mind what one should spend on ring should not be more than 2 % of what one is planning to spend on his/her marriage. it Comes out to be the perfect amount of your total spendings.
No Monkey To Hide
2010-11-17 17:59:40 UTC
Go inexpensive ($200-$250), then spend the rest on a honeymoon or the perfect dress.
life's a journey
2010-11-17 07:47:40 UTC
Only what you can afford.No sense going into debt for being showy.There are plenty of other things that can come your way that you will need the money for later.If you love and care for someone a ring will not make a difference.If it does than.maybe time to rethink.
?
2010-11-17 07:19:51 UTC
from 2 to 3 months salary
K-RAE
2010-11-14 05:08:32 UTC
Well it depends who your partner is.



If you have a partner who cares about you and as long as you are together it doesn't matter about anything else, then a cheap ring is okay. Maybe somewhere around £100 - £150.



If you have a nice partner but likes to look pretty in things and wants a good looking ring, then somewhere around £200 - £250 would be a good price.



Now if you have a Diva or even a Gold digger, then you have to go all out. somewhere around £700 to £1000 would probably be good enough. Probably.
?
2010-11-11 05:24:40 UTC
Engagement rings are something that have grown as a luxury rather than just a traditional symbol.

Everyone can't have a perfect ring without having a huge bill follow it. Too much money and time has been wasted on this unnecessary tradition. It's just a ring on your finger. There are way more important things in life. Just being able to say "I'm getting married" brings a happiness that shouldn't be distracted by such a material object as a ring. I think we should all look back at the root of where this idea came from and rethink on whether it is that important or not. An engagement ring to me is just a little piece of glitter that will possibly fade or worst, get lost, and if it's supposed to symbolize an undieing love, I don't want to have something so delicate and needless to represent my marriage. The whole concept of piece of jewelry to mark the faithfulness of spouses has been thrown out the window. Even looking at the fact that fiancé and fiancée who get engaged, have already had sexual relationships not only with each other but with others before, are pregnant, and are still dating before marriage shows that this ring doesn't have anything to do with faithfulness at all. It is completely wrong that a man or woman would have to invest any amount of money for something that has already failed to reach it's purpose. It is meant to put your trust on a ring instead of God for a happy marriage. That's polytheism. It has also become a way to break the bank so that a future bride can be exceedingly happy for such a short period of time and more likely puts the couple in a difficult financial position for after they're married. This relationship only builds on material objects instead of the actual love and God-fearing characteristics that is needed for a healthy marriage. For those who can afford it, they are not exempted from having a possible bad ending also.

Marriage is a sacred contract between man and woman that will unify them into one family. It is there to help you enjoin good and forbid that which is bad. Being married allows you to have a relationship with each and try to please one another with out having to go outside of marriage for pleasure. You have to use kind treatment and patience with one another in order for your marriage to be successful. To merely have a ring to depend upon is truly a waste and definitely unreliable. What can a ring possibly do? It's like an illusion. Marriage can definitely surpass any obstacles by just having propers pillars for it's foundation.





Women love jewelry but sometimes it's better having a husband than being poor.
My name is...
2010-11-18 23:32:21 UTC
the ring shouldn't matter as much as who it's coming from and the message they're trying to send. If the ring they buy will send them into debt, it doesn't represent one's net value. The price for be comfortable for the individual's needs. It would be even more flattering if the ring were a family heirloom, sending an even deeper message of "welcome to my family" rather than a ring with a price tag of over $1000.
Volt
2010-11-16 19:30:32 UTC
Since you dont know how long that marriage is going to last, get something you can easily afford without tears. But then, spend thousands on the wedding ring every 10 yrs
Manish V
2010-11-23 03:27:47 UTC
When two loving hearts make one sense of love. It doesn't matter how much an engagement ring really cost.
Smilesunny Lin
2010-11-22 01:24:12 UTC
$700
2010-11-20 03:19:07 UTC
Only what you can afford:)



It is the thought that counts:D



And wouldn't you rather have an amazing day full of memories:)



Than a ring worth more than a house?:D
hunnybee
2010-11-19 10:15:22 UTC
I don't have an engagement ring, they are useless and a waste of money in my opinion..and I have been happily married for 6 yrs.
ukwildcatfan
2010-11-19 10:06:16 UTC
$800
2010-11-18 19:38:51 UTC
If you feel happy, nothing is serious. A ring is just a symbol, and you can just get an engagement ring in your afford.
cappor
2010-11-18 18:27:32 UTC
Depends on the woman or man that you marry and the size cut and clarity and what the ring would mean specifically to to that person you are about to marry .
dmcguillory
2010-11-18 18:05:55 UTC
I've always heard the man/woman spends 3 months of his/her salary on the ring.
girl
2010-11-18 14:35:22 UTC
there is a rule on how much you should spend on a engagement ring. Save up 3 times as much as one of your paycheck and that's the amount you should spend on a ring.
Fatima Aziz
2010-11-18 14:33:48 UTC
I think the engagement ring should be around £20 - £60 unless you can afford more
Becky
2010-11-18 14:00:32 UTC
I was having this conversation with my sister and our opinions are that a engagement ring should cost your partners 3 months wages,,, so obviously different depending on what your partner earns so mine earns around £1200 a month so total £3600 for a ring,,,,



NOW before some of you go letting hot air out this is the way me and my sister and so many other friends see this... forget the £3600 figure think of it like this............... What is 3 months wages out of the rest of your life's! So say your lucky and get to a 50th Golden, 60th Diamond anniversary again what is 3 months out of 50/60 years! :)
2010-11-18 12:39:36 UTC
The cliche statically answer was always the equivalent of the groom's 2 months earnings.

That was based upon 2 months of an entire YEAR salary.

Different marriages and culture and modern society have re-determined what to spend on engagement rings or promise rings.

In a 2010 recession or depression and with all different cultures this factor varies according to income and what religion.



Basically the statical answer "used to be" 2 months of the groom's earnings from an entire year salary.

In modern culture this varies by religion/society/culture/economics.
?
2010-11-17 19:08:40 UTC
it is very meaningful to get an engagement ring while marriage. To buy the ring that you can afford would be enough. The key of marriage is that it can bring you happiness.
?
2010-11-17 16:41:28 UTC
3000
2010-11-17 13:32:43 UTC
People usually say you should spend about 2-3 months of your salary
?
2010-11-17 11:46:50 UTC
The average engagement ring should cost between three and four months wages.
SJSTAR21
2010-11-16 17:17:55 UTC
Traditionally speaking, the groom to be is only supposed to spend what he makes in a two months salary. If you make $1,000 a month, then you buy a $2,000 ring. If you make $20,000 a month, then you buy a $40,000 ring. That is the traditional way though.. good luck!
♥Sali90♥
2010-11-13 13:01:34 UTC
It isn't how much you spend on a ring that should matter, it is the meaning behind it that is the most important part.



The ring my fiance gave me is very precious, it may not cost thousands but I wouldn't part with it for all the jewellery in the world!
South Beach Boutique
2010-11-20 05:36:54 UTC
It depends how much you can afford a ring. Never go over your budget. The ring doesn't make a perfect wedding.
LostHome09
2010-11-19 02:10:45 UTC
If you buy a ring and go into debt, ask yourself first why are you getting married if you can pay for a ring with real money.
sailingawaynance
2010-11-18 14:02:01 UTC
As much as you can comfortably afford. Unless her promise to you is based on monetary items and money. Love, commitment, trust, unity, life partner can not be purchased in a store. Or for any amt of money
teibor k
2010-11-18 08:34:37 UTC
Spend as much as your heart desire. As a matter of fact, it is a symbol of LOVE n RESPECT n ETERNITY you are going to commit yourself to the DEAREST PERSON of your LIFE. So go on spend anything on it...............in the end of times you will look into it and you will say... man, it did made me feel GREAT from day 1 and till today I feel the same coz the BOND I commited for it really paid well.
2010-11-18 00:23:10 UTC
First you should spend your $ on rare and quality commodities first and foremost.



second you should be looking in the range of minimum $2000



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www.feridesignerlines.com



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banananose_89117
2010-11-17 18:25:10 UTC
You spend what you can afford. Going into debt would be silly. Or find a nice family ring
Giselle J
2010-11-17 17:20:29 UTC
its not the price its the thought that counts but still to get engaged you need a ring but i think that you should go for what you can afford don't go over your limit so you can have enough money for the wedding
?
2010-11-16 23:48:20 UTC
What you want & how can you afford is what matters

No need to get the pricey ring just because you want to show off

Pick which one you can afford and you think is pretty

Sometimes,people gets so pathetic buying ring that they can't afford,so pathetic,way too pathetic

sorry,no offense but its the truth =)
2010-11-16 15:10:02 UTC
I got a very nice one for $100 at a pawn shop, they cleaned it up, buffed it, and it was like new ($750 retail).



I also got a 1 C diamond dual wedding band at another pawn shop flawless for only $500 (retail $1300). My wife to this day loves that ring!



I also got her a 1 C diamond necklace for $344 from another pawn shop (Retail $1500). It is mint and beautiful!
silver44fox
2010-11-14 16:59:19 UTC
as much as you can afford ,say £20 for each month you have known the girl. reason if you've only known her for a little while the ring doesn't cost much and she is more likely to leave you,if you've only been together for a short while so you won't lose a valuable ring as well as your girl. .if you've known her for a long while there is less chance of her leaving you as she has spent a good part of her life with you and wants to stay with you.so the ring should be of more value.plus she is not after getting a valuable ring out of you ,she is after spending her life with you.
heathrjoy
2010-11-11 00:30:35 UTC
It's not possible to have a set amount, that's where the "rule" of two (or three) month's salary for the value of the ring comes in. How much money one person makes in a month some others may make in a year. The engagement ring that is purchased should match your lifestyle.



Although, I like to believe there is yet another reason for the two month's salary rule...and that is to give the ring purchaser time to think about the purchase, while they are saving their money. So many folks seem to be in a "finance it and get it now" state of mind that this is overlooked. It's not about spending lots of money, or having big, flashy, bling...it's about being patient, sacrificing small things over time if needed, and knowing it was all worth it in the end. If you find you can't make it through the process of saving for that ring, if it's just not important enough, then you have a reason to rethink the whole thing. There can be more value in a ring than just what someone paid for it, whether the price tag was $50 or $5 million.
?
2010-11-19 23:12:15 UTC
People should spend what they can comfortably afford within their means. Nothing so cheap that your Iphone costs more, and not so much that you will be in debt for the rest of your life.
Michael Oladejo
2010-11-19 07:49:07 UTC
Well at least when you get her the ring you can tell her you got help from Yahoo Answers :D
?
2010-11-18 11:01:14 UTC
You should get a ring that you feel is good, that she will like, and won't put you debt. The ring is a symbol that you love your partner! With that being said, ring or not, she will love you she will love with or with out a ring:)!
?
2010-11-17 19:39:43 UTC
Given the high rate of divorce and females beating males at cheating to the tune of almost ninety percent... spend as little as possible.
2010-11-17 14:48:37 UTC
The engagement ring will be on your finger forever, so however much it costs to get a really beautiful one.
Norcom21
2010-11-16 20:24:40 UTC
I would buy a ring that would be within the money I have, I would not go into debt, because the ring is actually a symbol of love it is not the real love.
2010-11-15 22:14:37 UTC
If I were planning on proposing, I would save my money and put some aside to the ring, and do a lot of looking around for the perfect one. There would be no rushing, because you don't want to screw anything up.
2010-11-15 18:39:43 UTC
Good rule is about a weeks wages. Diamond cartels try to guilt you into 3 months salary....but that is simply marketing pushed by greed that they have sold to women. Spend only what you can comfortably afford. 3 months salary will crush the newleds finances.
?
2010-11-14 07:40:45 UTC
I should spend a little on an e-ring. Because an engagement ring is not important for me, I would prefer to spend my life on an engagement. Ring is just a symbol, life is precious
JC
2010-11-24 17:53:41 UTC
I think at least 1000 dollars or as much that you can afford but this ring should be special cause youll be seeing it every day so it has to count!
Anna Banana
2010-11-18 09:01:48 UTC
The average engagement ring should cost one months salary.
Bursting with Joy
2010-11-17 09:12:42 UTC
I don't think I would spend more then $300,I agree with what some else said it is a symbol, not something that is a necessity in life
2010-11-25 11:15:19 UTC
It's a personal thing though i would say spend as much as you can within your economic range - you know what women are like..
miguel
2010-11-22 02:56:40 UTC
i suggest giving her a special ring in you mind. If she really does love you with all her heart she would accept the ring even if it cost not as much as the other diamond rings do.



*Note*

Just because i said this dont go around buying plastic rings give her a special one that she will apreciate. ;)
2010-11-19 03:00:22 UTC
spend an amount that will cost you much so that you will know the value of the engagement ring which indicate marriage. i have seen a man who thrown away the engagement ring ( which means she does not love his wife again).His because the ring was not VALUE ENOUGH BY HIM) THAT was why he thrown it away
StopPanda
2010-11-18 19:42:46 UTC
I think I spent about $850.00 about 22 years ago. That was about 1 months salary..that was all I could afford at the time..My wife will not let me buy her another to replace it.
Sonali
2010-11-18 19:08:44 UTC
i'm sure your to-be-wife will understand if u didn't get her a million dollar ring. Buy an engagement ring that is classy and sophisticated but one that also fits in your budget comfortably
?
2010-11-18 15:09:24 UTC
Provided your intended partner wants an engagement ring, you should spend what you can afford or are comfortable financing.
2010-11-18 14:30:31 UTC
It all depends on how important the person is for you and What you can afford. To tell you the truth I think it shouldn't matter at all as long you know how much that person is worth.
?
2010-11-17 19:15:32 UTC
It depends on how much you love the person.



Pity= $50

Sort of= $100

"love"= $200

Love= $500 at least

Crazy= $1,000

lfvgliasdgcvjlahgfcterufytguyasgfjgawfuykguyygfc LOVE SO MUCH GOING INSANE= $10,000
sara_x3_babii
2010-11-17 16:08:49 UTC
The tradition is 3 months worth of paychecks.
2010-11-17 10:45:50 UTC
20% of one months salary-so in example, if you earn $2,000 in a month then $400, $4,000 in a month then $800, you can buy a fine ring in these ranges, but if you earn $10,000 in a month then these rings would be el cheapo to your girl (she knows your worth), so stay with the 20% rule and be more extravagant and get the $2,000 ring.
Leidys S
2010-11-16 16:44:38 UTC
In my opinion as much as you can afford is just fine. Marriage itself is hard enough you shouldn't go into debt as well. Chances are the person receiving the ring will love and appreciate it no matter how much it costs you.
2010-11-15 13:34:40 UTC
Whatever can be afforded without a credit card.

I'd rather have a nice wedding and honeymoon, than a ring that costs more than a car.
*City Gal*
2010-11-13 13:50:49 UTC
Seriously?! It's a ring. It's not like how much you spend translates into how much you care about the person, the ring is just a symbol of your relationship, not the real thing. I would be ANGRY if you spent MORE than $1000. You can get a really nice silver ring for a lot less than that, that's not necessarily marketed as an engagement ring. I'd much rather have something really unique, from etsy or something, for a couple hundred. Save the money for a trip that will change your life, something you both care about.
Carmen T
2010-11-26 10:12:47 UTC
Only what you can comfortably afford without going into debt. Going in the red over a piece of jewelry is no way to start your life together!
?
2010-11-19 05:41:11 UTC
A tenth of what she's expecting you to spend. If she can put that ring on her finger with a smile, you have a winner. If she gets angry, you've just saved yourself a lifetime of heart ache and poverty.
decibaldude
2010-11-16 23:14:27 UTC
I don't believe a price should matter if you are truly in love then a dollar amount should not be the point. If its a less expensive ring i wouldn't say that makes it less love..
Erica
2010-11-15 08:46:06 UTC
I would say whatever you can afford. As a woman, I know there are some women out there who are high maintence and want a "wow! look at that ring!" engagement ring. But personally, I wouldn't mind where the ring came from or how much it was worth as long as it was given to me out of love and with the best of intentions. As the commercial says, "Oh my god! He went to Jared!" I wouldn't mind saying "Oh my god! He went to Wal-mart!" Hey, hey it's hard times people.
2010-11-25 11:13:48 UTC
A 20 dollar ring at walmart is really nice even though its kind of expenssive
k.o. 71
2010-11-22 11:30:52 UTC
A lot of people say 2 months salery but if you can afford it go 4 months
?
2010-11-18 16:41:59 UTC
according to a popular theme, an engagement ring should cost about a fourth of your annual salary, or three months worth.
Chickx
2010-11-18 02:30:45 UTC
not under $50



I think as long as the ring looks good and doesn't fall apart it shouldn't matter wat it cost i mean im not saying just going with plan basic maybe 30 but i wouldn't want my boyfriend to spend over $90 especially in today's world, and in fact that may even be to high, i think should save more for wedding itself. i think it should be more than average price so not lower then 50
kanna
2010-11-17 22:10:20 UTC
I think I would rather be able to pay the bills and live comfortably with my man rather than wear a sparkly debt on my finger. I'm fine with a ring pop. =)
olivia♥
2010-11-17 19:08:31 UTC
As much as you can afford, but not a cheap $100 one.

I would say $400-$700
Notellingyou
2010-11-17 17:27:50 UTC
Spend about 50-60% of your monthly income.
mrcolors2003
2010-11-16 20:30:36 UTC
I think that it's the thought that counts.

You don't have to get an expensive ring to make your fiance love you more.

Just buy a ring that you can afford at a moderate price and wait for a good timing to present it to your lover.

And the rest is up to her. ;-)
Courtney
2010-11-16 17:39:47 UTC
What is reasonable in your price range but not too cheap, my fiance and zi were broke when we got engaged and he got me $100 ring with the tiniest real diamond in it,we can afford a better one now, but i won"t let him, it wasn't the ring that made me say yes, it was the question!
Radhakrishna( prrkrishna)
2010-11-26 02:27:27 UTC
It is starting of the Holy marriage Institution.So it shall not push one into debt that will be painful to both after marriage.



It is not the Cost that really matters.The way you look into her eyes and affection touch of the hand are the best indicators to her.The ladies are said to have a nice sense of judging personalities by a simple hand shake.



So start a happy long married life with some backing balance , to happily enjoy the holy Institution.



In the name of Pomp do not run into a debt, she will feel bad about that when she knows about it, in my opinion.
?
2010-11-26 09:45:41 UTC
From nothing up to whatever you want, it's the thought and the love behind it that matters, nothing else. As the Beatles once said "Can't Buy Me Lo-ove"! (Totally true.) Love is priceless - the value of a mere object means nothing in comparison.
2010-11-18 19:22:52 UTC
Absolutely nothing. I would propose to her and make her buy her own ring. They asked for equal rights, they got it!



I am not asking her to buy me an engagement ring, why should I get her one?
?
2010-11-18 19:13:39 UTC
it depends on who you are getting it for. my dad got one that while relativly simple is like super good. he is a simple guy. but for an almost 50 yr old he looks pretty good. my moms ring is slightly more elborate. she pretty and seems complicated at first. their rings reflect what they saw in each other. you get the ring to reflect the person who wears it. like my moms ring was about 950$ but dads was 275$.
2010-11-18 13:16:10 UTC
Spend what you can afford. I personally started out with a piece of string because we were in college. I've never loved a piece of string so much.
2010-11-18 09:08:46 UTC
If you are Price of England that should be $45,000





Anyway, I would rather a ring with a story than a price tag. I am just that kind of girl.
stroud09
2010-11-17 21:00:19 UTC
As long as it last, does it matter how much it cost cause last I checked When I look at my hand I never think wow he spent $450.00 on my engagement ring and $350.00 on my wedding band! he got them on clearance and they are awesome the previous years styles and they are awesome!!
Sammy
2010-11-17 05:22:52 UTC
Does it really matter? The point is that you are showing your love and affection for somebody no matter how much you spend (although spending on this person will probably boost your relationship with them).
2010-11-16 16:30:18 UTC
My brother is spending $700 on one. It is a REALLY nice ring though.... It's about 6 or 7 months of his salary.
Cherry
2010-11-14 02:04:37 UTC
My engagement ring belonged to my Grandmother, so it has great sentimental value to me.

When I marry next year, I will also be using her wedding ring.



By a great stroke of luck, they fit perfectly.



My partner doesn't want a wedding ring (I couldn't care less about this).



So we've managed to save quite a bit of money - getting married is such a rip off!
Matt
2010-11-13 20:32:26 UTC
Marriage should not be about materialistic objects and the ring is no exception. She should be happier about getting engaged instead of getting a $2000 piece of jewelry.

If you feel that buying your woman is the only way to true happiness then fine, buy her an expensive ring, but for those sane people out there, how about a kiss and a heartfelt "I love you".
2010-11-19 19:10:44 UTC
As much as you can afford. Even the cheapest rings will mean alot to the person you are buying it for.
smart kid next door
2010-11-18 15:38:07 UTC
I feel that an engagement ring is something that should be cherished. You should spend an amount that is reasonable but also lovable.
2010-11-17 17:32:21 UTC
i do know what has been preached as proper etiquette over the years..you spend a 3 months salary..i don't agree with this, but i do know in many parts of the country, that is the golden rule..
iamtheyak
2010-11-17 14:35:25 UTC
Whatever you can afford without going into debt, with a maximum of 6 months' wages.
Trublade
2010-11-17 11:39:05 UTC
Look into her eyes and remember that feeling when you shop for a ring. Remember how much you mean to her and whatever you feel comfortable buying she will love.
soccergurl34938
2010-11-17 10:12:24 UTC
whatever you can afford. it's not about how much money you can spend on a ring... it's a symbol of love and dedication to one person, so a ring means a lot anyway.
Munday
2010-11-16 17:02:58 UTC
No more than 200 to 250.
Chris
2010-11-16 05:21:04 UTC
Well of course how much you can afford but I would spend 300 dollars on it your choice and good luck with the wedding!!!
2010-11-15 15:18:21 UTC
As affordable as possible

I'm not spending a bunch of money on a woman that's probably gonna leave me for some rich guy that's richer than moi
?
2010-11-19 04:37:20 UTC
just enough to live some for a wedding

not beyond to squash your wedding commitment

not less to lessen its valuability

and not more to boast to your partner

by the way this sometimes happens once in one's life so it should be celebrated with the most out of you
None
2010-11-18 19:23:33 UTC
Don't be a cheapo, but something you can comfortably afford. Also, there is no point in buying a big expensive ring if she is not comfortable with something like that.
leslie k
2010-11-18 17:34:38 UTC
One to two weeks pay should be what you spend... if it is really someone special I would use my moms old engagement ring if she will allow it.
indianprincess814
2010-11-18 17:01:46 UTC
I think you should save for the wedding ring, make it count you want your spouse to feel like it is special i want my ring to be 1200 and up
nwlover11
2010-11-18 15:01:04 UTC
you should spend the amount of money that you can spend comfortably, but keep in mind tht if ur wife if truley in love with you it should not matter what kind or how much the ring costs, but the value of your love :)
?
2010-11-18 10:34:35 UTC
I think the only way to get to that answer is to ask this question: Are you purposing to a spoiled princess or a down to earth kind of girl?
Eliza Pietron
2010-11-18 06:56:24 UTC
Typically, 2 months salary.
izzy1
2010-11-18 03:14:42 UTC
You should only spend as many quarters as it takes for the iron claw machine to grab it from the pile of other worthless junk.
?
2010-11-17 14:32:21 UTC
Only what you can afford! You can always upgrade later in life. My mother recently upgrading her ring to a 2 carat once they could afford it, which was years later. So only whats in your budget!
?
2010-11-17 14:13:40 UTC
traditionally an engagement ring should be worth 2-3 months salary. this obviously varies from profession to profession, but it insures that no one is overreaching.
LUCKY
2010-11-16 08:01:23 UTC
Its not a big matter. I ll spend 50% of my one month salary as she is the 50% of my life and She and me ll make the 100%..
breanna rosen
2010-11-25 08:43:12 UTC
i think you should spend a good amount of money on the person you love because the person you will give it to will wear it for the rest there life so you should spend at least 1,000 bucks.
Gemma
2010-11-25 06:42:13 UTC
The tradition is you're supposed to spend 1 months wage, or so I've heard.
α вєαυтιfυℓ мєℓσ∂у ♫
2010-11-24 09:54:16 UTC
Three Months Salary sounds about right.
2010-11-21 21:42:25 UTC
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?
2010-11-18 12:19:37 UTC
my engagement ring only cost 300 and my wedding ring only cost 700 and i picked them both out i got exactly what i wanted without going into debt
Sean O Sullivan
2010-11-18 05:47:27 UTC
As much as you can afford . . . but try and get a ring that she will love . . . you should know what kinda rings shez into . . . if shez one of the ones that like big diomands and has ta be stylish dn get her a big diamondy one but if shez nt really into jewlery dn just get her sumthing small and basic
?
2010-11-17 20:34:11 UTC
No matter how much you spend, even if it's a dollar, a wedding ring shows your love, no matter how much it was, and if you could afford it or not.
knoxzi
2010-11-17 19:01:11 UTC
remember for true love there is no pricey,just go whatever you can afford. If she really love you,she careless about how much that ring cost. That's all I have to say.
Pook
2010-11-17 18:46:37 UTC
I thought tradition was 3 months wages... but maybe it's better to save the money for the wedding!
Erika
2010-11-17 15:33:09 UTC
Everyone is saying "Buy what you can afford!" or "Don't go in debt!!!" But I say, buy her what she deserves. Or at least show her that you can to financially support her :D Do what you can with what you got. If it's real love, the littlest thing will be enough.
2010-11-17 11:18:45 UTC
It should be what you can afford to pay. I would suggest get something that she'd be proud of, but not something that you would have go into serious debt to buy. If she makes that big of a deal about it I would think she was being shallow and question whether it would be worth it...
lawrence hall
2010-11-17 04:18:13 UTC
8000$
Shannon
2010-11-16 23:46:46 UTC
Well traditionally you are supposed to spend 2 months salary
Ben S
2010-11-16 21:18:18 UTC
Every woman said, "whatever you can afford without going into debt". I say F*CK THAT!!!



Spend as little as you can get away with. Its a ring that surrounds a worthless stone.
2010-11-16 16:41:15 UTC
It's not about how much you spend but how much heart and soul you put into getting the ring for your very special person.
Florida Girl
2010-11-16 13:52:14 UTC
One months salary is what you should spend on an engagement ring
Royal Pain
2010-11-15 08:33:07 UTC
It's not the amount of money you spend. As long as she likes it and you can afford it without a credit card or a mortgage on the house or anything else stupid like that then you are good.
FRANCESCO P
2010-11-15 07:22:07 UTC
I think that the love has not price.

For my wife,for her engagement ring, i spend about 18 months ago euro 4.400,00
?
2010-11-11 14:27:32 UTC
Well in the UK in the past it was tradition to spend a months salary on an engagement ring but to be honest 1 in 3 marriages ends in divorce so I wouldn't go much over a days!
2010-11-19 16:57:24 UTC
as much as you can afford, without going into debt. the three month salary rule is outdated, and was only made up by the diamond companies to make more money.
Love JOY
2010-11-23 01:00:28 UTC
55,000 on it because it an engagement ring you want her or him to say yes bt if they love you they will take anything because they love you and that's not really the ring that counts the most it the wedding ring
Fraser
2010-11-20 17:14:07 UTC
As much as you would spend on leasure in 3 months
Tanner
2010-11-18 20:09:34 UTC
as non-expensive, reliable, and good-looking as it can be. Expensive jewellery doesn't mean crap if it takes ALOT of money to buy that small ring. Love isn't about really expensive things but the love you have for one another.
Cheyenne
2010-11-18 15:48:12 UTC
What you can afford without going in debt but that dosent mean going cheap. At least 100.
RomanReignsIzAhBeast_Celtic4Lyfe
2010-11-18 03:01:31 UTC
IMO..not over 500..if you REALLY TRUELY love someone..why make them spend a fortune on a ring..its material..I mean i think it should be over 50 bucks but that about it.
?
2010-11-18 00:37:06 UTC
the rule of thumb is 3+ weekly pay check. Of course common sense should over rule all factors
Day-by-Day
2010-11-17 18:57:06 UTC
I would say that it depends on which ring that fits your interest first regardless of price till after you find some that fits your critique. Then budget money wisely.
?
2010-11-17 09:54:49 UTC
REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!

1. Say ur name 10x

2. Say ur mom's name 5x

3. Say ur crushes name 3x

4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck and ur dad might lose his job
2010-11-17 09:14:46 UTC
by her a fake plastic ring from the dollar store.

after all it's the thought that counts right?



i did that and my fiance cried for a week because she was so happy she then punched me in the face and then gave me a BJ
2010-11-17 08:19:24 UTC
You should spend as much as SHE is prepared to spend on YOURS.



The idea that a man should work one year of his life to save 2-3 months of after-tax savings to "ask for permission to love her until death" is so stupid, I don't even need to finish this sentence.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HuFPTrN5VT4
2010-11-17 05:25:38 UTC
the lady should just be happy there is a ring on the finger and not compare it to the other ones out there! it should not matter what or how big it is hell even if its plastic it should not matter and if it does then she is not the right lady for you
?
2010-11-14 22:55:50 UTC
Even if you did not get the best ring for her, she will not because of that matter not care about you and break your heart right...

Maybe on that day, you might want to do other things that cost less to make her hapy :D
Guillermo Zepeda Selman
2010-11-19 10:48:43 UTC
Don't spend more than 1 months salary.
?
2010-11-18 22:16:24 UTC
get her a fake diamond!! then later on after 2 months if your marriage is doing great then buy her the real one!! one that will blow her away!! like a ring worth a car lol
2010-11-18 16:35:10 UTC
AT THE TIME OF OUR ENGAGEMENT THE MOST VALUABLE THING MY FUTURE HUSBAND OWNED WAS A HORSE. hE IS CHEROKEE INDIAN SO HE GAVE ME THE HORSE AND I PURCHASED THE ENGAGEMENT RING AND WEDDING BANDS. I SPENT $75 ON AN ENGAGEMENT RING AND TWO WEDDING BANDS ( 14 CA ROT GOLD)
?
2010-11-18 06:07:30 UTC
As a woman, I'd say: make happy your fiancee and spend a lot on that ring ;)
2010-11-17 13:22:41 UTC
$350 but no over $450
?
2010-11-17 11:53:37 UTC
My future wife is going to have to pick between a big ring, a big wedding, or a big house! Haha
ellisd1950
2010-11-16 18:30:13 UTC
how much can yold beu afford? there are all sorts of rules and suggestions, but the first rule should be to not break yourself for a symbol. that is what the ring is a symbol of your love, of your devotion and also your wallet. dont be greedy and dont spend so much that you cannot afford the rent
Glasswater
2010-11-12 13:59:48 UTC
I think the price is never important,the most important thing is that you give the ring with all your heart!it may be cheap but that couple live together for always! and it may be expensive but that couple don't live together just for some years!

I don't care how much the ring is,but I care who and how one will give it to me!

maybe I pay 10 $ or 1000 $ for one ring in the future,it's not important as I said before!
2010-11-22 08:51:21 UTC
If the man is really in love it shouldn't matter what the ring costs.
?
2010-11-18 20:14:07 UTC
I really feel anything between $500-$2500 is logical. I feel those big rings just don't look right on most women. They look Gaudy and unnatural.
spunky
2010-11-18 19:01:53 UTC
The price of a ring should not matter--it is just a superficial sign.
300zx girl
2010-11-17 11:58:35 UTC
It doesnt matter the cost of the ring and if it does to the person you are giving it to then maybe you should rethink
Gina Dicamillo
2010-11-17 05:05:51 UTC
I think the average engagement ring should be 1,000 to 1,500 if the guy is wealthy ....well then keep adding zero's.
indian indie!
2010-11-14 10:23:49 UTC
I'd just be happy with a ring from a dollar store, its more about the love than the price of the ring. Love is priceless.
2010-11-26 08:41:46 UTC
Why would you want to engaged on the first place?
Adam
2010-11-22 16:43:57 UTC
$900-$1900
ck
2010-11-18 12:24:17 UTC
I think an engagement ring shouldn't be value for how much it is worth but for how it is propose!!!
Cherry x
2010-11-18 08:50:52 UTC
3 months earnings, its an old rule but makes a lot of sense. I mean your going to wear it for the rest of your life! it should be worth it (proportionally though).
2010-11-18 07:02:39 UTC
i spent a dime. actually, she gave it to me and i got a heart shaped ring out of the candy machine at the grocery store. been married 21 years.
Liz
2010-11-17 12:51:56 UTC
at least spend 2 months pay on it...but it what the ring symbolizes thats whats important
2010-11-17 11:52:33 UTC
I have always heard that what you spend on a ring should be equal to 3 weeks pay. Congrats:)
?
2010-11-17 09:07:38 UTC
It depends on the person receiving it. If they like expensive things, then go for something expensive. If they could care less, don't go over the unneeded top.
Samantha
2010-11-17 07:18:12 UTC
Well it depends what kind of ring it is . i would pay 2000- 22000 for a ring
Nikki
2010-11-16 18:47:03 UTC
As much as you afford the ring really shouldn't mean anything what matters is the relationship
noname_
2010-11-16 15:31:27 UTC
However much you think the person is worth to you and what they would appreciate. If they're a simple person, get a simple inexpensive ring. If the girl really loves you, she won't care how much it costs, as long as it serves as an accurate representation of your love.
2010-11-18 03:48:09 UTC
your life savings or $20,000, whichever is greater. that way, when the gold-digger divorces you she'll be able to sell or pawn it for a large sum of dinero. you'll feel like a chump, but it's a good lesson to learn from.
2010-11-17 14:47:19 UTC
I think you should spend as little as possible without making it seem super cheap...



Thats what I do whenever I buy jewellery for anyone
Nancy
2010-11-16 16:53:18 UTC
The average engagement ring should cost around a 3 month salary. If he/she makes $2,000 a month the ring should cost $6,000.
2010-11-18 13:12:09 UTC
Only what you can afford. To spend more is to incur debt which is a lousy way to start a marriage.
?
2010-11-18 09:25:24 UTC
If you are lucky the best thing to do is hand off the ring you inherited.
2010-11-17 12:23:11 UTC
What I could find in a Cracker Jack Box.
FoodOverBoys
2010-11-17 05:36:33 UTC
However much he can afford to pay in one payment. No need to have to go through debt for a rock on my finger.
he r
2010-11-17 02:25:23 UTC
well it depend that your money!

I spent 500$. it's ok!!

but i promise one day i get rich, i will buy a luxury.

my wife never complain the price of the engagement ring.
BlueAngelGal
2010-11-16 18:29:35 UTC
Enough to not be a cheap jerk -- if it's plastic, for example, it's not enough. But other than that, it really depends on how much money you have and on what you and her want. If she's happy with a cheap silver ring, for example, then great.
2010-11-15 06:02:41 UTC
How much you spend on an engagement ring is what you can afford.
2010-11-22 17:11:35 UTC
I got my fiancés ring out of a cracker jack box.
Rubs
2010-11-19 12:24:57 UTC
It should be made out of bread twisty ties. That will work. But make sure you get it from wonder bread...cause those have the best and strongest ties.
Lola Dawn
2010-11-18 17:47:32 UTC
I would say $75(at least) to $350 if I were to get married now. I won't want to be in debt on my honeymoon!!!
?
2010-11-17 06:27:34 UTC
Your monthly salary x 3.
2010-11-14 09:38:27 UTC
you may see in these films the women having "the perfect ring" but in real life it's nothing like that, women are after the perfect guy, the ring doesn't matter, something affordable not too over the top. treat her right and you'll be fine.
KatieP
2010-11-13 16:32:55 UTC
I don't think there is any need for people to spend lives on an engagement rings.





It doesn't matter how much money it costs; the most important factor should be that the diamond is sourced under the Kimberley Process which guarantees it is ethically sourced/ non conflict.



Conflict diamonds often known as Blood diamonds have been serious political and social problem. Many people have been killed in the pursuit of diamonds, including mine workers forced to smuggle diamonds out to support growing families or pay off individuals who have threatened them. The weapons that the diamonds purchase have been used to fuel civil wars and acts of terror in which scores of people have been killed.



Conflict diamonds captured the world's attention during the extremely brutal conflict in Sierra Leone in the late 1990s. Illicit rough diamonds have also been used by rebels to fund conflicts in Angola, Liberia, Ivory Coast, the Democratic Republic of Congo and the Republic of Congo. Today, the flow of conflict diamonds has been reduced.
?
2010-11-12 01:22:23 UTC
Hi there,



Lets use some common sense here. If I were a Surgeon, chances are I'm gonna splash-out several thousand UK Pounds, or nearly doubling that in US Dollars, got me?



If I worked In Admin, then probably up to £500, $750. Do you get it now?



Please do try not to live beyond your means, however much you love this person.
2010-11-25 11:14:36 UTC
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che_obama
2010-11-19 06:29:04 UTC
I have always heard two months salary, with that said, probably the best answer is what you can reasonably afford.
yogibooboo
2010-11-17 13:03:21 UTC
2 months worth of pay at the most
Sarah B
2010-11-17 11:55:06 UTC
I don't think the amount spent matters. I found the ring I always wanted and it was only $400.00.
?
2010-11-17 11:41:35 UTC
One months salary is what the average man spends.
ll m
2010-11-17 10:59:07 UTC
call a divorce attorney and ask what their going rate is and then triple it... that way when the time comes, u can seel the ring, pay the attorney and have your first alimony payment ready to go.
Allee
2010-11-21 10:35:07 UTC
not too much cause will still need money spend on the wedding and it doesn't matter how much it costs because it is the thought that counts
khizar
2010-11-19 04:10:26 UTC
i should spend on an engagement ring one day in week.
Glen H
2010-11-18 21:32:53 UTC
Start from small but not too small , I will say 2ct. then every 5 years give her something, After 10 years give her something bigger and better.



Don't even spend something you can't afford, she will love what ever you give to her, because is from your heart.
amberlovesuga
2010-11-17 12:02:18 UTC
i think it depends on ya love for the person. if u really love the person, the ring shouldn't really have a price tag. u would just want to get the most beautiful ring possible for your bride to be.
2010-11-17 05:10:43 UTC
why get married in the first place?

I hope this isn't a personal question - don't take advice from strangers

if you really love somebody, you shouldn't need certificates and diamonds and items to prove it
yellostrat
2010-11-17 04:07:49 UTC
well, put it in perspective.....If she was going to buy you a car would it be a Kia or a Kadillac?



I say fifty cents is about the limit....... Spend the money on something you can enjoy, unless you are filthy stinking rich....
?
2010-11-16 08:36:29 UTC
Its said that its about 3 months wages. But its really up too you, some people spend more, some less.
tars
2010-11-15 08:10:42 UTC
$1000
Elmega
2010-11-14 03:56:20 UTC
When you finally muster up all that courage to ask your loved one to marry them the ring's value shouldn't be an issue. If your partner loves you enough and if they know you love them, then as long as the ring is from you then they are sure to feel special. But plastic rings just don't cut it y'know?



You cant put a price on love.
♥ нαρρу вυввℓє ♥
2010-11-13 05:28:30 UTC
I got engaged to my fiance 2 years ago and i can honestly say my ring didn't cost him a penny.I bought it for myself,only because he was (and still is) completely broke.My ring cost me a very cheap £10,he's since said many times he'll replace it or pay for it but i don't want him to.This ring i wear is a symbol of us,our love,doesn't matter who paid for it,every time i look at it it gives me a warm glow and i can't help but smile.
?
2010-11-12 20:13:05 UTC
You shouldn't spend that much on an engagement ring because you are just going to have to buy a even more expensive ring later on..
2010-11-19 06:56:56 UTC
only what you can afford!!! you should never start your marriage off in debt, no matter how badly you may want the perfect ring lol. you can always upgrade later on, when you know you can handle it :p
Danny M
2010-11-18 12:32:45 UTC
Enough to prove you love her enough to think about the ring, AND prove you can make sound financial decisions.
eentrok
2010-11-18 01:26:25 UTC
you have the rest of your life to pay it off!! : ) live it up. but to an extent.... you have to be smart. I believe this is the only thing you should splurge on. It will be in the family for forever too.
lynn
2010-11-17 11:37:36 UTC
a cute ring to what you can afford, I agree dont go into debt if your gf really loves you then she shouldnt care. then maybe for a 1st anniversary you get her a really nice upgrade.
?
2010-11-17 01:23:43 UTC
97 cent
2010-11-14 10:09:53 UTC
The equivalent to 1 month salary/wages.
2010-11-13 10:31:22 UTC
When we decided we wanted to tie the knot,i was informed by my mates i would be expected to pay about one months wages for a ring.I was in the RAF at the time,and my pay was £3 -2- 0d That was in 1949. On the weekend we had planed for our visit to the shops, alas i was on duty.and she went on her own.She bought a wonderfull diamond ring for £10.10s. not quite a months pay..It was our treasure untill she died 59 years later. Every penny was well spent.
?
2010-11-12 17:17:20 UTC
In the US it is generally recognised that it should be the equivalent of three months of a man's salary.

I guess that is a good rule of thumb to work by, but of course there are all sorts of circumstances that might make a couple want to alter that.

Often too much emphasis is placed on engagement rings when the cost of it would be better saved for the couple's future together.
2010-11-11 14:02:53 UTC
I don’t think engagement rings or wedding rings are even necessary for a happy marriage. It depends on the people involved, and what THEY want.



Some people, for example, would feel insulted if the ring is not expensive.

On the other hand, some people are offended by the idea of spending a lot of money, the exact opposite of the first example.



I, for one, think it’s cool if the ring is made out of something strong. I don’t think it should be expensive, or ‘super pretty’ just strong. I think that symbolizes love a lot better.



I’m also against diamonds when used as jewelry. I’m against spending money on something that just sits there and looks pretty. If the same amount of money can be used on a super nice TV for the house (to be shared by the couple) or a nice(r) honeymoon, then spend it on that instead.

But that’s ME. Not everyone has to agree with that.
Soni
2010-11-21 11:37:40 UTC
amount you think would be worth spending on the ring to make you happy and affordable to you
TehMec
2010-11-19 01:10:22 UTC
1 penny
Amy
2010-11-18 18:02:53 UTC
Definitely only something you can afford. You don't want to have him pay for it after it comes up on the credit card bill.
Tony F'n Lind
2010-11-18 08:27:49 UTC
Female response- Your entire life savings.

Male response- 200 bucks.
EJ
2010-11-17 22:33:00 UTC
Go forth, sell all you have and buy your girlfriend the ring. And you shall have treasure in Paradise.
raymond_borowiak
2010-11-15 08:29:26 UTC
Nothing.



The Beatles said it the best:



Can't buy me love, love

Can't buy me love



I'll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright

I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright

'Cause I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love



I'll give you all I got to give if you say you love me too

I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you

I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love
?
2010-11-21 15:22:05 UTC
3 months salary
beth
2010-11-19 03:41:33 UTC
it's how much you can afford... if you spend more than you can afford it won't look good because you just want to impress the girl to like you... if spend less than you can afford you will look too mean for her maybe you don't really love her.
merdoc81
2010-11-19 00:03:51 UTC
I thought it was supposed to be 3 months pay, now everyone is saying only what you can afford
?
2010-11-18 17:59:01 UTC
3 months salary
tom
2010-11-18 12:52:26 UTC
this is simply how much you are willing to spend, out of how much you have at the time you wish to obtain the ring.
Alx
2010-11-17 22:25:09 UTC
only spend as much as the girl is worth haha jk spend a little more than that
2010-11-17 20:37:52 UTC
don't spend money

make a ring out of a twist tie
?
2010-11-17 18:52:44 UTC
3 months salary
Kitty
2010-11-17 03:54:00 UTC
Engagement ring also waste money..... and I am so young. Sorry if my answer never satisfy you

regard,

Monica
greenfrogs
2010-11-16 17:55:58 UTC
My husband spent enough; my son-in-law spent too much. Spend what makes you happy and keeps you

from feeling like a cheapskate. It is to last your whole life or hers any way.
Malarose Black
2010-11-16 15:52:04 UTC
I wont spend more then 200 on a ring
dragon
2010-11-15 03:25:49 UTC
LOVE is priceless, however as for the cost of a ring, you both need to talk about it. and i strongly advise you only to pay what you can afford to spend
Cherie
2010-11-12 22:45:34 UTC
I have always heard the engagement ring should cost the man at least one months salary. I think that is actually pushing it these days with our current economy. I think buying a loose diamond then choosing a band is the best way to buy it, and the least expensive. My fiance insisted on buying a $6000 ring but I would have been happy with a less expensive one. I used to be married to a jeweler and he only spent $2000 on my ring. He did say that people used to spend up to $20,000 on a ring for engagement and then want to return the expensive rings when they realize how much the wedding is going to cost. The great thing about a diamond ring is you can always upgrade to a bigger stone every few years or as often as you like!
BrJa
2010-11-11 05:37:01 UTC
Reading others' answers the common consensus seems to be as as much as you can afford without going into debt. My question is; Why don't more people take that attitude towards more things? Something like student loans and maybe a house payment I can understand but to be way in credit card debt, a car payment or 2, and a large house payment?! It seems strange all of the sudden how when it comes to a wedding ring no one wants to go into any debt....

But I'm not saying that people need to spend more on a wedding ring, what I'm doing is encouraging people to take an antidebt attitude towards more things; Do you really need 2 new or like new cars? Do you really need that remodel job done? Do you really need name brand products? Do you really need....?



Anyway as far as a wedding ring goes, I agree, what ever you can afford without going into debt. (within reason, I wouldn't get a plastic ring or anything goofy like that).
Manu Is Awesome
2010-11-20 17:16:23 UTC
It matters what it is made of. Diamond is more expensive than silver. Platinum is more expensive than gold. It also matters on the karat size.
SEXY nostrils
2010-11-20 15:30:51 UTC
2 months salary
?
2010-11-19 10:00:12 UTC
It all depends on what you can afford and how much the person is worth it. You can always size up later we did.
2010-11-18 20:53:50 UTC
2 months income
2010-11-17 17:31:54 UTC
What ever you want and can afford, without giving up the rent and food for a year.
?
2010-11-17 16:38:52 UTC
ATLEAST 4 months salary. I know people who have paid only with 2 or 3 months salary, and their wives got REALLY pissed and filed a divorce. -.-
bev
2010-11-19 11:51:37 UTC
Not everyone can afford one of those Victor and Nicki Newman diamonds, but

whatever you can afford and you are both comfortable with.
?
2010-11-19 10:15:35 UTC
Ha ha it doesn't mean you love her any less if you don't spend large amounts of YOUR money on her. And is she gets mad at you for not spoiling her than maybe she isn't the one.
2010-11-19 04:53:00 UTC
Elo !

I believe that if your love is unconditionable, then you shouldn't look at what others think , or what other spend , you make your own limit for the one you love!
srini vellore
2010-11-18 23:58:04 UTC
spending regards your income , expectation and your love , As love is a lasting , Love needs to be loved, For this we can spend one step above our earnings .



All the best
2010-11-18 15:12:50 UTC
A nice good healthy chunk of dung thats what
2010-11-18 13:41:35 UTC
Just to show that you care. Atleast 12 pesos. If your better off than me you can spend up to 16 pesos.
2010-11-18 09:26:30 UTC
$1000 per year you were together before the engagement









j/k it doesnt matter the price as long as they love each other. its only a symbol it doesnt reflect the couple's true feelings
jupiter_11505
2010-11-17 19:02:17 UTC
As much as you can afford you can start with a small rock and upgrade as time goes on.
2010-11-17 15:48:54 UTC
3 weeks salary
Ashley J
2010-11-17 11:40:15 UTC
it is commonly said you are supposed to spend three months worth of pay cheques on the ring.
2010-11-17 07:49:52 UTC
buy a cheap but beutiful ring for her if she actually loved you shed accept it as a bond not something to be boasting baout how much you speant on it
CodieCorvette
2010-11-16 18:37:29 UTC
I have heard it should be half of the mans income that he makes in a month but i think its more of what you both agree is a affordable price for one.
J Z
2010-11-14 15:32:05 UTC
A hundred bucks. Spend the real money on the wedding rings.
OH, THE GUILT
2010-11-12 12:20:05 UTC
As much as you are comfortable with. If you are only comfortable spending $1500, then only spend that much. Don't go into debt over an engagement ring... after all, it's the wedding ring that's more important!
matthew coltrin
2010-11-17 10:42:55 UTC
There should at least me a 2 month payment after you buy it
t d
2010-11-21 02:51:32 UTC
I would spend as much as the person is worth to me.
2010-11-20 00:12:39 UTC
What you can afford with some saving. It shouldn't be a purchase you can make with your pocket money, but it sholdn't drive you into debt, either.
2010-11-19 18:53:50 UTC
What you can afford with some saving. It shouldn't be a purchase you can make with your pocket money, but it sholdn't drive you into debt, either.
Nicole
2010-11-19 09:25:52 UTC
I heard that you are suppose to spend 20% of your months salary.
RidetoLive
2010-11-19 07:32:09 UTC
I think you should both get matching ring tattoos, then you never have to take it off to wash your hands or skydive.
Totes
2010-11-18 22:15:53 UTC
To be honest, I'd almost say that depends on the girl you want to propose too, if you know what I mean by that.
2010-11-17 23:38:53 UTC
$2000 dollars
2010-11-17 07:27:27 UTC
3 months wages
?
2010-11-14 10:16:25 UTC
I think you should pay exactly the right amount for you, if your rich i would go up to 8,000 if not 100 even. You don;t want it to be that exspensive because wedding rings get lost/
Hybrid
2010-11-14 03:34:06 UTC
As much as you can comfortably afford. she will always be more priceless then a ring. A ring is simply a symbol of engagement. A big diamond ring can snag on things.
Vulture38
2010-11-13 08:57:12 UTC
The supposed received wisdom of spending a given (and costly) is the financial equivalent of a 'Hallmark' holiday.



ie Some contrived event designed to make money.



Buy her the one she'll like. There is more important things to spend your money on.



(Sorry ladies...and jewellers.)
2010-11-13 02:10:26 UTC
Atleast £50.
2010-11-25 11:57:56 UTC
5-20 grand, depending on how much the guy makes a year.
Mohsen
2010-11-19 09:34:30 UTC
as much as you think you will be wearing it!

if that is for going to be a lifelong ring then consider to be a little more generous.
Kevin
2010-11-19 07:19:51 UTC
traditionally you should spend one month's wages on a ring. not go cash your check and buy one, but save until you have the equivilant.
Richard Cox
2010-11-18 09:45:16 UTC
what you make in the course of 3 months
2010-11-18 08:39:24 UTC
I spent £2,300, did me no good at all, she got pregnant then we split up 4 months after getting engaged
wookie
2010-11-17 23:08:10 UTC
Love and commitment should not start out with a monitary value.
?
2010-11-16 16:52:41 UTC
Buy the best dang ring there is. Who cares how much debt you go into. It will show them you care hahahaha
James Pactat
2010-11-25 09:25:25 UTC
If your girlfriend seriously loves you she won't care how much the ring is.
?
2010-11-19 05:45:50 UTC
yo it ranges from $130 to $1300 or more
?
2010-11-18 20:14:43 UTC
On average, men spend $2,000.00.wedding band $300.

Hope I answer your question.
hetal v
2010-11-18 14:49:30 UTC
you should spend at least a 3 month salary's worth
Bob
2010-11-18 09:46:45 UTC
As much as you can possibly afford. You can't put a price tag on that special lady!!!
?
2010-11-16 16:24:28 UTC
well u should spend as much as u can with out getting into debt card so u dont have to wrry about ur bill later on during ur marrige
Beautiful ♥
2010-11-16 14:25:29 UTC
you should spend a amount of money that

u know u won't regret spending or something that will

put u in a debt...........



just one more thing....anything is better than buying ur engagement ring in walmart...like that guy in teen mom...
?
2010-11-23 15:39:16 UTC
Whatever you can afford even the cheapest things are worth more than expensive [:
2010-11-21 11:36:34 UTC
if shes a ***** and dosent deserve crap, buy her a plastic ring. if shes beautiful and is worth your life, er id say like 10 dollers.
?
2010-11-19 12:57:37 UTC
Only what you can afford. If you can spend an outrageous amount, then go right ahead.
JUAN A
2010-11-18 19:13:25 UTC
you have to break your back and get the best with the money that's available to you... It will show your commitment and just how ready you are for this
Kakashi Sensei
2010-11-18 13:09:41 UTC
3 months paycheck
bina
2010-11-17 18:31:47 UTC
Well if you really love the person then money shouldn't be a problem, but if money is a problem the get it from your heart.
2010-11-17 15:59:41 UTC
over $9000
mbl
2010-11-17 12:17:23 UTC
If there's real love, no ring at all is necessary. Waste of money if you ask me.
lawrence22
2010-11-17 06:22:42 UTC
1000 dollars
Kara
2010-11-16 17:37:28 UTC
You shouldn't go in to debt, but you SHOULD save up. Show her you can provide, manage your money, and what you think she's worth. I've read that it should equal a few months pay.
~d~
2010-11-16 17:24:44 UTC
I've always heard that you're supposed to save up 3 months salary.
cloud
2010-11-16 14:13:28 UTC
I think it was said a months wages. Of course you get to make payments over time.

Remember she is going to wear it the rest of her life.
✏ nɹɐɯ-zʇpɐq
2010-11-14 00:16:06 UTC
It doesn't really matter because it's for such a life-changing event.

Unless you're broke at the moment... then I'd say no more than $1000-2000.
?
2010-11-17 15:34:07 UTC
500 to 2000 dollars depending on your affordability...
?
2010-11-16 17:22:13 UTC
I would check the cracker jack box before I spent any money at all.
kiakia0131
2010-11-12 11:21:07 UTC
Less than $1,000 would be ok for me...money, expensive rings, doesn't buy happiness. It shouldn't be an object. I would be happy with a $100 ring. If you are so shallow that you would say no because the ring wasn't expensive enough, then you aren't worth marrying.
Phil
2010-11-26 02:07:50 UTC
money does not come into it, only your heart should. if the ring is calling to you then that is the ring no matter of the cost.
2010-11-24 17:42:21 UTC
you should not spend anything unless you know that its gonna cost you ten times as much to get out of that B.S. thing called marriage
2010-11-23 23:30:39 UTC
i think it depends on how much you earn i don't think you should spend over $300 on one and get yourself into debt, as long as you can afford it and who ever your giving it too appreciates it then thats all that matters.
?
2010-11-22 16:54:55 UTC
I prefer the classic yet less conventional severed ear.
2010-11-20 16:07:49 UTC
Its not about money its about spending 's heart! pick the ring that appeals to him/her
2010-11-19 20:49:59 UTC
500 bucks is fair for and ordinary marriage..

For real lovers a plastic ring is enough :)
?
2010-11-19 08:42:21 UTC
I THINK IT IS WHATEVER THE FEMALE WANTS. MY HUSBAND PROPOSED TO ME BEFORE BUYING THE RING. I WENT AND PICKED IT OUT. IT WAS A HUNDRED BUCKS BUT NICE. HE PICKED OUT THE WEDDING SET ON HIS OWN. I WEAR THE SET AND THE ENGAGEMENT RING NOW
2010-11-19 03:15:55 UTC
I like symbol but my man should get me something he really want me to have. Price is not the issue, it is quality and symbolization.
2010-11-18 16:36:26 UTC
should spend at least a months pay on her depends on what you make don't be a cheap prick you go cheap just shows how much you love her
bullticky
2010-11-18 16:05:03 UTC
Only what you can afford. No point in starting out in debt
Nik.Marie
2010-11-17 18:57:43 UTC
Three months salary
Pedro
2010-11-17 10:20:15 UTC
Depends how much your willing to spend on your special girl :)
vintner
2010-11-14 19:20:53 UTC
If you are able to save $300.00 or more a month for retirement, you should spend 3 months' salary. If you are only able to save between $100.00-$299.00 a month, you should spend a month's salary. If you are unable to save anything, you should buy a plastic ring out of a vending machine and have your reception in your mom's backyard. Serve barbecue or pizza and soda to your guests in that case. Actually, that third type of wedding was the most enjoyable I've attended!
Nurse_Kitty1986
2010-11-14 12:10:21 UTC
I think traditionally it's supposed to be three month's wages but it's not the money that counts, it's the significance and what the ring stands for. Mine was my great-grandmother's.
Jess
2010-11-14 07:56:30 UTC
(cheesy lines now) i don't care about the amount of money is spent on a ring, his love for me is much greater than a small diamond ring, that is the greatest symbol i could ever ask for :)
serg
2010-11-16 22:51:37 UTC
as much as u can afford, it's not about the ring, it's about the love u guy's share!
2010-11-16 15:53:36 UTC
Buy two...a nice one and a cheap one. Give her the cheap one first. If she starts acting stupid, take the nice one back to the store for a refund.
2010-11-19 23:23:13 UTC
i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
?
2010-11-19 23:02:56 UTC
i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
?
2010-11-19 22:49:40 UTC
Whatever can be afforded without a credit card.
2010-11-19 17:54:53 UTC
i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
?
2010-11-19 17:24:31 UTC
Whatever can be afforded without a credit card.
Kadeza
2010-11-19 06:20:33 UTC
i think you should spend about $100-$500
?
2010-11-19 02:13:51 UTC
Only what you can afford. What matters is how much both partners love each other.
Chris
2010-11-18 19:04:10 UTC
3 months of your salary
ShananaBanana
2010-11-18 18:49:45 UTC
Depends. As much as you can without going into debt.
cali_fornia
2010-11-18 12:09:55 UTC
Maybe a month's salary, unless you're eloping and won't be paying for that big wedding....then spluge = )
Gaby
2010-11-18 10:29:49 UTC
What can you afford? She will love you no matter what, so you might as well, do what your able to do. She'll understand. Find one you think she will love, than consider prices.
2010-11-18 07:15:26 UTC
My girlfriend is a skank that used to be sexually abused by her uncle so I didn't get her a ring cause she didn't deserve one
mkboda
2010-11-18 06:11:19 UTC
If you're sure she's the one, then i say go all out...but then again, you should be considerate of your budget....after all you'll still have a wedding to plan
The Man
2010-11-18 05:50:07 UTC
I'd say somewhere around 500 bucks would be nice
2010-11-17 13:35:55 UTC
i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
Lol Face
2010-11-17 02:46:54 UTC
I've heard 3 months salary, but I'm not sure.
Christopher Hentzen
2010-11-16 16:17:58 UTC
Two months salary is the recommended amount. She will be with you for a lifetime and you need to show her that you value her.
Someone S
2010-11-12 13:09:40 UTC
My Sister's Fiancée Payed a Good $3000
2010-11-12 08:21:18 UTC
My Dad used one months wage when he bought my mum's engagement ring. My fiance and I are getting ring tattoos instead.
Lizzy
2010-11-11 12:34:10 UTC
I think it shouldn't matter what the ring costs. Of course, if he pays a lot for it you can assume that he really appreciates you, but in the end the deed is more important than the value! I wouldn't mind if it was only £1! As long as it's coming ;)



@truefirstedition: I agree with you! Debt is no way to start your life together!
lui759
2010-11-18 17:04:09 UTC
about 300 or 450 depends on you!!
special
2010-11-18 12:41:22 UTC
you should spend 3 months worth of pay.
2010-11-18 12:34:25 UTC
i dont know about you but i dont want to start married life in debt over a piece of jewelery
S.I.B.
2010-11-17 15:57:51 UTC
10 grand.
Angelstar
2010-11-24 14:08:45 UTC
I thought the rule was a month salary.
Gloss
2010-11-19 07:40:07 UTC
i say between 100 and 200 hundred dollars
2010-11-18 17:21:44 UTC
well there is 12 months in a year.

1/3 of 12 is 4.

So, If u make 100,000$ a month then you should spend 400,000-500,000

Your welcome.
softsneakers
2010-11-18 10:01:48 UTC
"FOUR MONTHS' SALARY"

.

(Full disclosure: Yes, you'd recognize that as De Beers' tag line.

.

However, wait a few seconds and they put a question to their own answer,

.

. . . "Is four months' salary too much to spend for a lifetime?" . . . )
Ross
2010-11-18 09:10:52 UTC
spend 5/10 % of your week's total earning.
Sally
2010-11-17 23:32:04 UTC
A good chunk of change, so it is impressive, but, won't turn your stomach when she throws it from a moving vehicle.
mommy
2010-11-17 17:46:41 UTC
should not put a price tag on love!! its all behind it that matters the most, you are gonna build a life together and that is priceless!
Brennan
2010-11-17 17:06:28 UTC
how much you value ur husband/wife is how much u should spend on ur engagement ring
?
2010-11-17 16:59:44 UTC
Whatever is comfortable enough for you to spend and won't put you in debt and whatever your fiance loves.
?
2010-11-17 15:04:14 UTC
at least $1 million
?
2010-11-17 10:47:09 UTC
it not how much the ring is it how the ring shows your love and what it means
Strickland
2010-11-17 06:57:52 UTC
The same price as that person is worth to you
XO
2010-11-14 16:27:04 UTC
Whatever amount someone feels comfertable spending with the amount of money they can spend without going in debt.
GIRL
2010-11-14 10:39:49 UTC
i think you shouldn't spend that much on the wedding ring.. me persoally id rather take love then n expensive ring becuase no one can fake loving you.. any man can buy you expensive stuff. love is more important then money
?
2010-11-13 13:49:23 UTC
3 to 4 months salary minnimum
Graham
2010-11-13 10:36:42 UTC
It's not the money it's the way you do it, the ring doesn't need to cost much
2010-11-19 22:17:29 UTC
Whatever is comfortable enough for you to spend and won't put you in debt and whatever your fiance loves.
2010-11-19 08:51:40 UTC
$2,000.00 more or less.... but if money is no object.... then sky's the limit.... hello, it's only your partner for the rest of your life you're giving a gift to. don't hold back
2010-11-19 03:00:24 UTC
it's depend on u tht hw much u want to spent on a ring...if it is in ur range then u can spend as much as u want...but be in limit...
2010-11-18 23:20:40 UTC
3 Month Rule no exception. Do you really want to be THAT guy? Get her something she'll be proud of.
lol1254
2010-11-18 14:25:30 UTC
It depends how much you care about people getting their hands cut off in Africa.
?
2010-11-17 21:24:38 UTC
just hundred i can spend to engagement ring
2010-11-17 06:48:43 UTC
It should be 20% of your annual income
2010-11-17 02:07:33 UTC
Spend all the money you want, make it special. The more you spend, the more you must care about them. Obviously.
?
2010-11-16 22:18:00 UTC
Whatever the person can afford. Its the thought that counts.
?
2010-11-13 09:58:47 UTC
I agree with what you can afford, but you also want to give her something that shows her how special she is to you. My ex-spent pretty much nothing on my ring, and then went out the same month and bought himself a $2500 bike... this should've been foreshadowing for me.
?
2010-11-12 09:37:36 UTC
As much as they can afford!! It doesnot matter what you are wearing in your finger but what person you have in your side!!! Life is too short to be focused on a price of a piece of jewellery, therefore, make your partner one of that kind!!!
Replicant
2010-11-10 16:07:49 UTC
I know I sound weird but I have one already picked out I can imagine getting: http://www.silver.uk.com/Product.aspx?ProductId=R850



It's just basic silver and stone, and pretty cheap compared to most engagement rings but imho, as long as it's hard wearing enough to wear daily for the rest of your life, you don't need to spend a lot on a ring; there's deeper ways to show your love. The only flip side perhaps is that for some people it is a security investment, but you can put savings into buying expensive art or other things that could be resold in times of crisis (I have an upmarket Leica atm and plan to collect more cameras so that's my alternative savings investment)



I also am passionate about the anti-blood diamond cause, so part of me would be happy just to have a plain wedding band and forget engagement and enternity rings and all that (some women I know just have wedding bands). As another answer suggested: get a second hand ring perhaps.
YuhI'mTaylorForreal?.YuhXD
2010-11-21 21:13:33 UTC
3 months atleast of savings!

but only as much as you can afford to save
Bri
2010-11-18 22:25:06 UTC
3 paychecks worth I thinkkk..
2010-11-18 13:52:13 UTC
Money is not most important.



Make sure it has meaning and she would love it.



but dont buy a £25 coz thats nasty!
BIG FELLA
2010-11-17 07:34:42 UTC
cost should not come into it depends on the style of the ring and if you and your fiancee like it
Thirst Quencher
2010-11-16 23:31:15 UTC
Nothing. Don't get married, it's the biggest mistake you will ever make. Marriage is outdated and obsolete.
mindy x
2010-11-14 21:53:30 UTC
As much as you can afford at the time when propose. If she does not like it, you can always buy a better one after you are married.
?
2010-11-13 22:15:00 UTC
Spend as little as possible on her....PERIOD....trust me if you throw good money after bad you'll kick yourself in the rear when she uses you and,dump's you only to take the rest of your income for as long as she can and,for god sakes don't have children.If she starts talking how it'll make yall closer bla bla bla,RUN, shes on her way out the door and,is just looking for a little easy money. Trust me!!!!Keep your income a secret,stash some cash for a safety net so you can get a place of your own with all the amenities because as long as your married to her it's "both" of your stuff the second she decides shes tired of you its all hers you'll be lucky to get out the door with a pair of underwear and,a hat.Also get a prenuptial,I don't care if your flippin fries for a living get one and get a really good lawyer on retention,also if you have kids make sure you record ALL of her crappy activity and,keep yours outta plain view so you can do like I did get the kids and,hand her crap when the dust settles....All in all PROTECT YOURSELF.....you may be screwin her tonight,but she'll be tryin to screw you the rest of your life.
2010-11-12 05:52:18 UTC
I spend that much of money which makes you safe for living with that ring.
Miller Conde
2010-11-24 01:42:11 UTC
you go to one store. and pick the ring that catches your eyes the most no matter how much it is i'd buy it
2010-11-23 17:18:28 UTC
No more than 400$. Unless you are rich.
2010-11-14 19:20:38 UTC
to me a ring is something symbolic, something memorable that represents my relationship with my significant other, nothing expensive. Something beautiful, affordable and simple, well that's just me i love simplicity. I think it has class.
苗語
2010-11-13 00:51:06 UTC
I'm pretty sure the girl you're marrying don't want you to go in debt. So I think you should just buy what you can afford. Do what's right!
J.S.
2010-11-22 07:51:42 UTC
well how much you can afford and if the person really really really loves u the price shouldnt matter. Thats if they love you
**Elisa**
2010-11-21 07:36:09 UTC
3 months salary!
?
2010-11-19 04:21:42 UTC
It depends, if I really like her 4 months of my pay.
BBarker
2010-11-19 00:25:15 UTC
F off turds
2010-11-18 20:03:28 UTC
The cheaper the better period. LOL It's the love that counts.
hellman123
2010-11-18 18:58:29 UTC
3 months pay
John H
2010-11-18 17:45:17 UTC
Whatever it takes that keeps you with money to spare for everything else your life would need money for.
2010-11-18 12:33:10 UTC
More than Prince William for a start!!!!
2010-11-18 10:51:18 UTC
$0. Marriage is an archaic and obsolete tradition that is only practiced by the weak minded.
Rocky
2010-11-17 23:45:30 UTC
as much as u want, the most expensive ring is for 16.26 million dollars
cod4daltontube
2010-11-17 21:52:31 UTC
A few thousands
Kara
2010-11-17 09:12:43 UTC
3 months salary.
dammitolkittasaurus
2010-11-17 02:29:34 UTC
2 months salary is the classic thought for the wedding ring, so maybe one month's salary??
Sassielex
2010-11-16 16:39:01 UTC
if you really appreciate her at the least 2 monthes salary at the top 3 or 4 monthes salary
Keysle
2010-11-15 10:28:05 UTC
If she comforts you then respecting your own budget shouldn't be out of that comfort



Get what you can afford.



Down-Raters don't respect people living in a hard economy
2nd~awesomenest~person~ever
2010-11-10 14:46:28 UTC
It depends but then again it doesn't

Lets say your to people that don't have much money and the girl knows that what you can and can't afford but she loves you ....well then a ring pop is fine (My cousins did that because they got married at like 16 ...and didn't have money...18 years later an she still has it :P )

which is another thing if your marrying someone in high school ...well most teens don't have much money to their name so young so ring pops are fine i suppose :P

if your marrying a girl that comes from a family thats pretty well off or rich then at least 5000 dollars spent would be ideal ....if you don't want to make a bad impression and there expecting someone that their daughter will be in good hands with

unless your eloping with her and your broke and she doesn't care then go back to the ring pop idea

i think though at least 10,000 dollars would be good but it depends

what is more important is the type of ring that will look nice on her/him and something that he she likes and wants :)







for those who don't know what a ring pop is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ab3kXRjhVA



:)
?
2010-11-18 05:26:49 UTC
i wouldn't want to waste money on such trivial matters. but if my wife would want a ring, i'd cut some barbed wire and i'd make one for her
me
2010-11-24 09:41:37 UTC
you should spend 100 or more it is a special time
Stephanie
2010-11-20 09:01:40 UTC
2 months of your paycheck
2010-11-18 15:56:26 UTC
anything that won't get your wife upset on how much you spent on your credit card! bu make sure its special because your starting the true love :)
Abby
2010-11-18 14:43:06 UTC
how every much you feel is right to spend

but make sure u don't go into debt
Shona Kashyap
2010-11-18 10:25:51 UTC
it definitely depends on the afford-ability of the person who is buying it..

after all it is gonna be there in her finger for the rest of her life...

so investing is your decision..
?
2010-11-18 08:54:58 UTC
As long as you don't buy something from the Wal-Mart costume shop, I think she'd love it.
Alessandra
2010-11-18 05:41:25 UTC
I think everyone shoul spend only what is affordable for him. Not more than that.
2010-11-17 10:14:20 UTC
id buy a cubic zirconia ring shel never know
?
2010-11-17 09:46:58 UTC
As much as it takes. Love has no price
?
2010-11-17 09:36:45 UTC
As much as she is worth!! Good luck. Hope she says yes!
?
2010-11-16 22:18:33 UTC
The amount of money should be secondary to the amount of love and thot.
mummy to thomas n summer
2010-11-14 07:25:26 UTC
price should not matter its more about what the ring signifies my engagement ring cost £90 and i love it
?
2010-11-12 13:52:59 UTC
I like a car instead of a ring lol
sammer
2010-11-21 09:20:04 UTC
as par the girl how cute she is ,if she is so cute 100000$ and if she is below average only 10$
?
2010-11-19 18:40:17 UTC
Only what you can afford without going in any debt.
?
2010-11-19 17:41:47 UTC
Only what you can afford without going in any debt.
2010-11-18 19:20:12 UTC
you should spend how much you think you should.If you really love that person then buy an expensive one.and yeah.it all depends
Rockets
2010-11-17 16:37:47 UTC
To the point, you should spend in the neighborhood of $4000 and up. This is something that your wife will wear the rest of her life. It should be a high quality ring. You fiancee might tell you a ring is not important to her or she doesn't want Africans shedding blood for the diamond, but she is being disingenuous. In fact, she is going to show it off to everyone she knows and she really wants something she can be proud of.
Cider
2010-11-16 19:11:11 UTC
Alicia keys says

some people want diamond ring.

some just want everything.

but everything means nothing

If I ain't got you.
2010-11-24 18:17:05 UTC
Two months' wages. It's the law!
yum2177
2010-11-22 23:06:03 UTC
it shouldnt really be in price range but sentimental value. as much as you can afford according to your income. its the thought that counts.
?
2010-11-20 00:25:30 UTC
Only what you can afford without going in any debt.
?
2010-11-19 23:36:37 UTC
Only what you can afford without going in any debt.
Evan V
2010-11-19 02:38:52 UTC
if it is true love then y do u need a ring if she realley loves you she wont care if you dont get her a ring
SixOn
2010-11-18 03:29:31 UTC
I think he should buy his own ring using his own money and she must buy her own ring using her own money. This means, just buy what you can afford.
John
2010-11-17 23:22:56 UTC
2 weeks pay
2010-11-17 17:29:32 UTC
if you love ur g friend then u should spnd over 1000 dollars if u love herrr!!!

have a gooood weding
blaze 420
2010-11-17 13:57:24 UTC
3 months of your pay
?
2010-11-17 12:19:35 UTC
Just get one out of those machines at walmart, those are real nice .
CaveMan_Living
2010-11-16 14:07:03 UTC
as little money as possible. and i suggest that you do not buy a diamond. buy a topaz, they come in various colors, even clear. or you can buy a fine goodlooking Cubic zircon. its just as good as a diamond.



and its cheaper.

love is all that matters, not diamonds.
guitardaz2000
2010-11-14 16:06:11 UTC
£250
Cara
2010-11-14 13:55:25 UTC
This is something you need to spend a lot of money on. This is a ring that she will have for the rest of her life. You don't need to go into debt, you just need to save. If you can't save up 5-10k for a ring, then how are you going to do it for a wedding, honeymoon, house, kids, etc.? Marriage is expensive.
2010-11-12 13:11:09 UTC
well i got engaged few months back i new he could not aford much but he said when he is doing well he will replace my ring, its the thoughts that counts he is a plumber i said id be ok with an olive thats beacause i love him and love has no price tag!
cmAsernal
2010-11-11 12:34:33 UTC
While celebrities are extravagant when it comes to engagement rings a few are role models when it comes to the reality of being a couple. If you love him something in the range say minimum £300 given the CC should I say Credit Crunch I would say you are a genuine lover. What matters is that moment when he snicked into that shop, that is enough to tell you that he loves you. You have a long way to go together save the money for those future romantic days. His assurance is enough not the ring its for Footballer's Wives. Chao
eve
2010-11-11 00:42:11 UTC
Stores usually say its 2 months salary, but that's a guideline for financing. I think your wedding ring should be nice because that's the one you'll be wearing everyday ,forever hopefully. I think if it's important to you, you can wait until you can afford something nicer or don't have an expensive wedding and use the money from that.

Or use a family heirloom until your anniversary and get a big rock, that's what we did.
?
2010-11-16 20:57:26 UTC
as much as i cn afford afterall love sud matter most nt the diamond in it
johnnyl321
2010-11-16 18:56:36 UTC
Your entire LIFE
2010-11-16 14:09:16 UTC
it's not always about the cost, either one of you should be happy with not only the purchase but the engagement itself!
Crouton II
2010-11-14 15:08:22 UTC
Depends, how much does a cheap kiddie plastic ring cost?
?
2010-11-25 06:46:46 UTC
Well two months pay from what my parents have said
RunningfromRaisins
2010-11-21 14:29:47 UTC
As much as you can but if you love one another cost doesnt mean anything.
2010-11-19 07:12:43 UTC
seriously you don't have to spend a lot, as long as you love each other everything will just be fine.
George Maximus
2010-11-18 09:23:57 UTC
i will spend all the money in the world just to be happy with my love :)
?
2010-11-17 12:14:00 UTC
$300-$1000 i dont ask for alot but this is a very special event
2010-11-11 19:14:36 UTC
i'd go with 19.99 for an iron or steel ring. Gold, and diamonds are only expensive because they are rare. When aluminum was rare it was super expensive, but since it has become abundant its now super cheap and seen as an inferior.
2010-11-25 05:35:53 UTC
Not much.

Because once you devoice them, you want the money not the ring.
?
2010-11-21 13:06:39 UTC
It is all relative, depends on how much your budget allows ,if he is rich then money is no object i guess .x
Tyler Nash
2010-11-19 09:51:53 UTC
3+ pay checks
No Picture
2010-11-18 20:39:27 UTC
The price doesnt matter
Ð4MÃN!™ (End the Fed!)
2010-11-17 10:43:17 UTC
Does it really matter?



Why do we presume that materialistic wealth equates to happiness?
Mr Cool
2010-11-17 03:49:22 UTC
I personally think less dane 3grend is fine for me.
Stick
2010-11-16 22:55:47 UTC
OVER $9000
2010-11-16 19:17:41 UTC
the rule of thumb is 3 months salary
geojoseph4
2010-11-16 18:12:59 UTC
whatever you think shes worth without going into debt
?
2010-11-16 16:21:28 UTC
Whatever can be afforded without a credit card.
?
2010-11-16 15:35:03 UTC
I heard somewhere. 3 months salary
?
2010-11-13 04:37:07 UTC
Look at all the rings, and once you see a ring that clicks, you'll know it's the perfect one :)
Tanaya
2010-11-12 19:49:06 UTC
The engagement ring should be 3 months worth of his salary.
Lakeside5
2010-11-12 15:25:27 UTC
only what you can pay for cash with. I have a 6000 ring sitting at my house, been split up for 6 months and still owe 2000 dollars on it...
?
2010-11-17 18:53:15 UTC
at least 3 months salary if not more
2010-11-25 13:18:58 UTC
Enough to give a girl what she wants.
Lois L
2010-11-24 22:11:18 UTC
It is not a matter on how much you should spend, it is a matter on how much you can afford.
?
2010-11-20 16:25:36 UTC
3 and a half month salary if you have good pay
A Yahoo User
2010-11-19 08:56:13 UTC
agree with others.only as much as you can afford.even you can spend more you just don't have to because you want to showoff to people unless you are in showoff yourself.
December
2010-11-19 06:10:55 UTC
Its a non-refundable investment, keep it simple so you wont regreat five years later :)
Tim
2010-11-18 22:25:04 UTC
Tradition says two months pay :-P
CJ's mom
2010-11-18 12:15:41 UTC
whatever you can afford and pay for up front with out using a CC.
Jordan Hamill
2010-11-18 05:31:52 UTC
wellll....you can go to a 25 cent machine and get one at random XD
?
2010-11-17 19:34:52 UTC
something you can afford but not to cheap. If you love her a lot get her something nice to
Jeffrey
2010-11-17 17:46:06 UTC
Half of your salary XD
yomo
2010-11-17 09:52:00 UTC
if u taking about money that should be not more thann 500 dollars i very precious
Nathan
2010-11-17 06:51:42 UTC
You should spend whatever you think your wife is worth.
2010-11-16 18:55:55 UTC
haha twenty dollas from roscoe at tha pawn shop
?
2010-11-16 17:05:07 UTC
On your budget and what your comfortable with. Debt and credit cards are certainly not what you want to get into !
Kev
2010-11-16 14:53:45 UTC
Just get one of those plastic ring tht cosst 25cents and you're set.
J
2010-11-15 15:39:59 UTC
plain and simple



no less than 1/2 your monthly income
Aaron Weaver
2010-11-15 04:47:50 UTC
A months wages
rongar
2010-11-11 07:37:35 UTC
An Engagement ring that comes from the heart has no price on it.
KidChaor
2010-11-10 19:27:35 UTC
I guess I would buy any ring if it was the girl of my dreams. Like seriosly I can't lose her. But I guess if your I normal person with a salary of $70000 a year a $2000-$5000 would be good. But if your making $250000 a year a

$5000-$15000 wouldn't hurt it all depends if your wife is nice not that much on hot :D
?
2010-11-18 19:18:43 UTC
no matter how much you spend;

spend your entire life for the emotion behind it ie. for love.
?
2010-11-18 05:10:51 UTC
spned enough to impress but not go in debt for it..

the leading cause of divorce is marriage..
Ali Ali
2010-11-25 11:13:08 UTC
As much as your wife wants.
2010-11-22 15:05:53 UTC
howcome this wack *** question got 1036 answers and my questions that are actually worth answering get nothing
Humbug!*
2010-11-19 01:56:30 UTC
as much as she wants you to spend. You ought to teach her from the beginning she can have as much money from your wallet as she wants!
.K.H.
2010-11-18 21:07:17 UTC
As much as you can tiffeny jewerly will work if your rich har har
?
2010-11-18 14:48:17 UTC
Enough to make her happy without irritating me.
?
2010-11-18 14:04:01 UTC
personally, I wouldn't spend more then 2 or 3,000 dollars
thegooddays23
2010-11-18 01:53:46 UTC
Your entire life savings. If you love her.
mickydare
2010-11-17 10:21:57 UTC
i would say obviously as much as you can afford , but my answer would at least one weeks wages ,hope this helps you and gd luck
Sabre Bratcher
2010-11-17 07:45:37 UTC
as much as u want to she will appreciate any thing u give her!good luck and stay together forever
Arlene
2010-11-17 05:34:33 UTC
Around $3,000.00
stellastar23
2010-11-15 16:24:06 UTC
3 months salary.
2010-11-14 13:48:40 UTC
its usably and tradtional to spend a two month salary on a wedding ring
Krissy
2010-11-11 19:57:50 UTC
I believe that you should only spend what you can afford. If the person loves you, they'll realize it's the thought that counts.
Taiwo Adebayo
2010-11-18 16:50:08 UTC
it depends on what kind of diamond you buy some of them are very cheep some of are expensive.

Cheep:$17.99-$599.99

Expensive:$799.99-2499.99 or much more
2010-11-18 13:31:07 UTC
Used to be equal to one month's salary....has that changed?
2010-11-17 14:54:24 UTC
spend as much as you love the person your buying it for. the more you love her the more you should spend!
?
2010-11-13 13:33:47 UTC
The ring is only a symbol but money cannot buy happiness, love and trust...
Beach Sunsets
2010-11-12 10:51:23 UTC
Only as much as he can afford. It's not the ring, it's the love that matters.
tribalost
2010-11-22 03:59:06 UTC
Price doesn't matter, it's the thought that counts.
wohoozit
2010-11-18 21:00:56 UTC
It shouldn't cost more than one months salary.
?
2010-11-18 17:44:00 UTC
Who cares? Just make up for it in bed!
2010-11-18 16:06:38 UTC
About a hundred dollars.
?
2010-11-17 21:48:14 UTC
As per your satisfaction and level
Stephanie
2010-11-17 18:53:29 UTC
get her a synthethic diamond ring ! theyre cheaper and its still great quality !
luCee*
2010-11-17 17:55:30 UTC
it just depends on how much you love the person you are marrying(:

good luck though!
Emma B
2010-11-17 15:20:34 UTC
Traditionally it was to the value of your monthly salary :-)
joe
2010-11-17 01:17:21 UTC
I live in Malaysia-not more than RM500.00
bd
2010-11-16 23:26:49 UTC
three full paychecks.. that's like one of the most common things known lol
?
2010-11-14 07:29:40 UTC
i think 2 months salary is a good goal. or just go by what she likes, and if you love her enough, youll buy the ring right!?
RylieMoo
2010-11-12 12:43:57 UTC
the ring is not all that important to me. alright... it is. but not in the way that other ladies may think. i'm looking for a ring that's beautiful and simple that i can wear without thinking, "Oh my gosh! How much did he spend on this? EEK!"



so i would say, for me, around $400
?
2010-11-24 19:00:29 UTC
it could be anything it could be a necklace or just chocolates and flowers! whatever you can afford without breaking yourself
2010-11-21 19:57:02 UTC
some people say 3 months pay but honestly i think its what you think she will like.
?
2010-11-18 17:46:24 UTC
None! The government should pay for it!
Mike M
2010-11-18 13:18:38 UTC
Don't they say two months salary? Or, is it just the jewellers who say that?
clcy@att.net
2010-11-17 09:23:56 UTC
I was always told one months salary.
2010-11-17 06:54:19 UTC
My boyfriends mom's new husband paid 24,000 for hers..I know right?
2010-11-16 16:16:38 UTC
Nothing. Don't get married, it's game over, man.
Renee T
2010-11-16 13:59:56 UTC
spend as much as you want without going into debt
2010-11-24 00:11:21 UTC
It depends ah
?
2010-11-23 19:35:46 UTC
you should only spend 200$ or less
?
2010-11-21 06:54:40 UTC
As much as I can afford
Strong-n-Secure
2010-11-19 07:36:50 UTC
at least 1, 000 dollars. it should be real, fancy, and well thought out, perferrably custom made
Jessica
2010-11-18 13:36:29 UTC
ACTUALY THE MAN IS SUPPOSE TO BE 1/4 OF HIS YEARLY SALARY. WHATEVER HE IS MAKING AT THE TIME. :)
2010-11-11 16:18:35 UTC
Not a lot, the House, the Honeymoon are all a lot more important
sava
2010-11-21 06:58:49 UTC
Spend what you can afford, Good luck :)
ponytale
2010-11-18 13:39:02 UTC
ARE U SURE U DON,t want to in up in front of judge,judy!!
Anliana Van assche
2010-11-18 13:20:35 UTC
Cheapest on Tiffany's (: Cuz their still expensive but who cares if its the cheapest one.. ITS TIFFANY'S
Stephen Innes
2010-11-18 11:30:38 UTC
the traditional sum is one months wages
Joe
2010-11-17 20:47:21 UTC
The more you pay the less likely she will say no!
knowsbetter
2010-11-17 20:01:56 UTC
2--3 month salary, if you can't do that then maybe you should wait
?
2010-11-17 13:55:43 UTC
as little as possible, you know she is going to pawn it in 3 years when you divorce.
?
2010-11-17 09:02:04 UTC
whatever you can afford; i.e., what you can spend without feeling the loss of that afterward.
ccgman8
2010-11-17 04:12:38 UTC
30% of your paycheck
10
2010-11-17 03:25:31 UTC
$1000+ for real love.
nicdane2005
2010-11-17 01:45:34 UTC
in this economy, 1 months wage. If you can spare it!
2010-11-16 20:26:57 UTC
It should be 3 months' worth of your income =)
2010-11-25 21:23:19 UTC
2 hours wages if you really love her
Matt
2010-11-17 11:24:36 UTC
Depends on how big the ego is.
Babygirl
2010-11-19 11:32:00 UTC
i think $100 is plenty. but thats just my opinion. if its beautiful and not expensive then why not
Butterfly
2010-11-19 10:09:57 UTC
Ebay....then the price is yours to pick. Dont' tell him/her how much it cost. It's between you and ebay.
cookie
2010-11-18 13:39:01 UTC
what you can afford. But make sure you also know what she likes, since she is the one wearing it..
Faviola Menendez
2010-11-17 14:49:44 UTC
Half a paycheck.
2010-11-17 09:28:16 UTC
3 months pay.
PRITAM NEPAL
2010-11-16 20:17:01 UTC
As we earn , not to spend more money on dept
hey
2010-11-16 19:41:48 UTC
generally 2-3 month's paycheck but. practically what you can afford and what could make you or her happy:)

believe it!
yezzir
2010-11-16 14:56:06 UTC
get a good ring, but as cheap as u can, tel her it cost mor, nevr bring it up agen
?
2010-11-26 04:38:03 UTC
It all Depends on how much you love her/him.
Yashar
2010-11-25 01:31:51 UTC
how much you can afford, it needs to look nice but not that expensive. if ur rich then its different!
Vanessa
2010-11-22 05:51:42 UTC
I think 1,000 you could get a nice one!
2010-11-18 23:07:42 UTC
Just be yourself. It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.
2010-11-18 22:26:55 UTC
Your right arm
drag0n m00n
2010-11-18 21:58:01 UTC
you should spend as much money as yu need to
yahoonell
2010-11-18 15:02:47 UTC
What ever you can effort it.The most important is love.
Jj
2010-11-17 16:22:32 UTC
a minimum of three months
2010-11-17 08:52:36 UTC
anywhere between 400 and 1000

however much you can afford..
rush360fan
2010-11-16 19:15:24 UTC
Its the thought that counts.
2010-11-13 21:26:54 UTC
you must consider what kind of lifestyle you want to lead and what your budget will be with your spouse-to-be. the best way to start a marriage to look individually at your specific lifestyles and see what your personal financial needs are and what must be sacrificed to ensure those are met.
Bianca
2010-11-12 12:00:44 UTC
I have always heard it was a 3-Months salary, but you should really buy what you can afford.
2010-11-22 01:48:38 UTC
as much as you could spend on it
?
2010-11-21 23:59:21 UTC
One you can afford without going into debt. :/
2010-11-21 20:10:11 UTC
How much credit are they given you?
2010-11-21 18:03:49 UTC
only what you can afford without going in any debt. or if you have capital money.
?
2010-11-21 14:34:43 UTC
500-5,000 dollars diamonds.
Zack
2010-11-18 06:26:15 UTC
I was told one month - two months salary.
d_no
2010-11-17 10:03:35 UTC
Nothing because money isn't enough to expess how you feel.
55555
2010-11-16 17:42:25 UTC
There is only one answer: 3 months salary. That's the rule. Sorry, guys. I didn't make it.
Mr Clean
2010-11-13 00:57:13 UTC
Price of love is only in the heart, so buy one you can afford, If she is not happy, then think about the relationship?
?
2010-11-19 11:36:30 UTC
as much as you think shes worth, of how much shes worth keeping, even after(godforbid) you break up.
katie r
2010-11-18 21:45:44 UTC
Theres no price on love :)
?
2010-11-17 18:34:07 UTC
Price does not matter;

if the person loves you, then it wouldn't matter.



:)
nsn.
2010-11-17 12:41:19 UTC
real lovers think a plactic ring would be enough :)
2010-11-17 10:59:25 UTC
As much as possible!
?
2010-11-17 00:40:01 UTC
ONLY 200
2010-11-16 20:09:01 UTC
3 months salary!!
Samuel Lann
2010-11-11 12:04:35 UTC
No more than a couple hundred dollars. Find out how much she is paying for his wedding band. Spend the EXACT same amount on the rings for her. Jewelers would love for people to follow their 3 months salary suggestion, but its foolishness to spend $10,000 to $30,000 on a tiny decorative rock who`s purpose is ONLY to show off to her mother and friends. The wedding band is a symbol of the union of marriage, the diamond on it is merely a trophy to the ego to show off the wealth of the man hat she has "caught". Anyone who demands a huge and expensive ring does it out of selfish greed, and not out of love for their future spouse. Image all the things a new couple NEEDS that that money could be spent on, instead of what 1/2 of the couple WANTS. Of course most women want huge, extravagant, over expensive diamond that`s 5 times what her fiance can actually afford, but i want a new Porsche! That doesn't mean i`m going to go get one just because it`s shiney and nice and will impress all my friends and family. When I got married, my (future) wife spent about $500 on my wedding band, and that's just about what sent on her rings. For our 10 year anniversary, she got the big $20,000 ring. Beware of gold diggers and selfish egos. An woman who insists on an expensive symbol of your love might not be interested in your alot all, but merely what she can manipulate you into purchasing for her.
2010-11-11 11:35:33 UTC
Spend as much as you want on the ring you really like.
2010-11-17 13:59:04 UTC
about 850-1,000
?
2010-11-12 08:25:25 UTC
The Lady chooses,the gentleman obliges.
Thomas
2010-11-22 07:59:54 UTC
100 that way if she says no you aren't out 1,000
2010-11-20 08:32:10 UTC
I was told it should be around 2,000 to 3,000 $
2010-11-19 20:35:30 UTC
I definitely think you spend how much you can afford on the ring, it doesn't really matter how much the ring costs. Lol unless it's a cheap 25 cent ring you get in the gumball machines, but that would be ridiculous. I mean if you love your partner and they love you, then it shouldn't matter how much the ring actually costs, what matters is that you two are willing to make the commitment to spend the rest of your lives together, and who knows maybe down the road you can buy her and even better ring. Most of the time it won't even matter how much it cost, because it's not like they are going to ask you, how much did that ring cost? It will all be about presentation, how you present the ring to her, and how you propose, everything else won't matter.
Face
2010-11-18 16:57:28 UTC
i think its 30% of your yearly salary
Kevin
2010-11-18 15:29:17 UTC
I would spend $10,000
wellofworlds02
2010-11-18 12:32:23 UTC
It should be based on what one can afford.
?
2010-11-16 17:34:10 UTC
Whatever the wife wants.
Haley
2010-11-16 15:49:49 UTC
somethinggg nice but very affordable it depends on what u would really like
Keith
2010-11-13 22:13:54 UTC
One months salary is traditional in the UK
?
2010-11-13 13:46:53 UTC
Im gonna stay cheap, now old chap! 5 or 1 dollar.
2010-11-13 13:36:55 UTC
not much its not the ring that counts but teh love you share together which you can buy x
?
2010-11-25 14:05:33 UTC
not matter how much love is important
?
2010-11-21 14:05:26 UTC
you cant put a price on it, but do consider your partners taste..



good luck. x
Clint
2010-11-18 21:56:46 UTC
Shouldn't be more than a sixteenth of how deep your pocket is...
?
2010-11-18 19:33:36 UTC
Between $1,000 and $5,000 no more than that
miss yahoo
2010-11-18 04:11:38 UTC
as much as you can without getting into debt .
?
2010-11-16 22:07:22 UTC
Yeah, as much as you can afford.
misty
2010-11-16 17:02:37 UTC
All the money you have! Plus Take out a loan.
2010-11-16 12:25:14 UTC
not too much.. you still have to buy the wedding ring.
2010-11-11 04:21:05 UTC
It depends on your family budget and on how serious your relationship is. Definitely, if you can hardly afford the expensive ring, choose a cheaper one. It won't affect your relationship, be sure. Check the source page to read the original article and more advices.
2010-11-23 11:52:19 UTC
$50,000,000



I'm going for that nice Persian diamond!
architectdj@ymail.com
2010-11-19 07:19:50 UTC
as little as possible, don't waste all your money before the big day!
2010-11-19 03:25:12 UTC
Watch your pocket first then go for luxuries. ;)
2010-11-18 20:44:38 UTC
as long as it will last as long as the relationship it doesn't matter, but it being nice doesn't hurt.
Michael
2010-11-14 01:20:00 UTC
5% of a years wages.
Star L
2010-11-12 07:26:05 UTC
as long as the ring is pretty, it doesnt matter how much you spend.... as long as you love them, thats the most important thing.
?
2010-11-11 14:38:25 UTC
I'd rather have my future husband put a down payment on a house!
Tillymeeow
2010-11-11 07:42:27 UTC
Im agreeing with the majority of the answers here, as much as you can comfortably afford without going into debt :)
icg1032
2010-11-11 06:35:59 UTC
Three months salary. That's net, not gross. But make sure you take your girlfriend shopping with you so you get something she likes, because she's the one going to be wearing it and showing it off to her family and friends. Also, learn about the 3 c's of diamonds. Color, Cut and Clarity. Sometimes it's better to have a smaller diamond of greater quality, than a large stone full if imperfections or occlusions.
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Jamieeee
2010-11-24 01:25:54 UTC
it doesnt matter how much you spend if she loves you she wont care!
Mesut KILINÇ
2010-11-22 14:58:47 UTC
spent the last
Kayla
2010-11-17 17:53:40 UTC
depends on how much you love the other person. =)
?
2010-11-17 13:54:53 UTC
how much your baby girl is worth
yingli
2010-11-17 05:49:03 UTC
about 10,000 rmb in China.
2010-11-12 09:48:35 UTC
The ring should have the same price as your heart
?
2010-11-12 03:48:08 UTC
If you love her why go on about prices or spend 15% of your annuial income
Erik D
2010-11-11 16:07:22 UTC
nothing a ring doesnt prove you love someone
John Arkell
2010-11-11 07:43:33 UTC
wow i think my answer has already been put forward by nearly everybody :D only what you can afford as a maximum, but there should be no minimum i think. a ring should stand for how much you love a person not how much you like to burn your wallet on :)
Tasm
2010-11-12 12:49:21 UTC
I say give her the choice knowing your budget. If she wants to blow the budget on her ring, then you might want to reconsider.
2010-11-19 19:34:19 UTC
how much does love cost? nothing... there's your answer.

3219488230 call me baby :D
?
2010-11-19 19:07:04 UTC
depends on how much you love your GF
?
2010-11-19 02:01:20 UTC
As much as i can afford.
2010-11-18 17:48:34 UTC
Half your saley
amela
2010-11-18 14:36:25 UTC
i would say depends on the financial status but then no matter what it should not be lower then 3,000!!
Anastasia B
2010-11-17 14:02:03 UTC
does it really matter pick some thing that she will love
?
2010-11-17 12:44:44 UTC
the cost of a single condom
Sylmoneyvesta
2010-11-16 21:44:14 UTC
whatever is affordable to start off
2010-11-16 18:35:28 UTC
it doesn't matter how much it is just as much as you love the person you're giving it to
Maria
2010-11-16 16:22:44 UTC
How much you can afford, I guess. Price doesn't matter.
2010-11-16 14:58:47 UTC
As much as they can afford
2010-11-14 11:14:55 UTC
As Much as you need or how much you want!

How ever much you love your gf/bf!
Reuben ✡
2010-11-11 08:23:47 UTC
As much or as little as you wish, I don't believe their should be a rule or guideline as to how much you should spend.



I believe price should be unimportant, okay it's fair enough to say price is important as long as you don't push price, but the price of the ring is unimportant, it is the symbolic value of the ring that is important, so of course a person should choose the most beautiful ring they can find at a price they can afford. It is important to know what she (or he) likes before choosing a ring, rather than looking for the most expensive thinking this will be the most pleasing to your partner.
Eric Gees
2010-11-10 22:40:45 UTC
There is no limit, there should be just agreement, or spend what you can without ruining your savings. an engagement ring should be symbol not a show.
2010-11-20 15:30:23 UTC
maximum baby
Pimp the Poo
2010-11-17 09:37:57 UTC
just dont go all out. U might get divorced...
?
2010-11-17 07:13:19 UTC
As little as you can... save for a d... home
?
2010-11-16 23:54:14 UTC
a few million dollars, just to show your love. (:
jfk
2010-11-16 20:22:15 UTC
3 months salary!!
2010-11-11 03:36:45 UTC
ok from experience a ring the guy can afford is probably not the one you want for the rest of your life :p



if you're going to be traditional about it and it will be the only ring she ever gets, then stretch yourself a little guys, make a bit of a statement by going a little bit beyond what you can afford.



if you're all modern then get what you can afford (in our case a Ferrero Rocher wrapper ring), or design something and have it made (not as expensive as you think) later. or have a ring tattoed on your fingers, save for a diamond and then have it set later.
2010-11-23 14:43:18 UTC
1050! answered this!
2010-11-16 18:29:56 UTC
$0... engagement rings are bull crap and unnecessary.
Rkolegacy .
2010-11-10 23:07:30 UTC
I definitely think you spend how much you can afford on the ring, it doesn't really matter how much the ring costs. Lol unless it's a cheap 25 cent ring you get in the gumball machines, but that would be ridiculous. I mean if you love your partner and they love you, then it shouldn't matter how much the ring actually costs, what matters is that you two are willing to make the commitment to spend the rest of your lives together, and who knows maybe down the road you can buy her and even better ring. Most of the time it won't even matter how much it cost, because it's not like they are going to ask you, how much did that ring cost? It will all be about presentation, how you present the ring to her, and how you propose, everything else won't matter.
bONitA
2010-11-25 22:57:41 UTC
doesnt matter ! but dont get a cheap one just get one u know she will love !
Steve
2010-11-26 06:59:53 UTC
as much as she wants!
2010-11-24 11:05:34 UTC
$500000 its once in a life time. ONCE
?
2010-11-18 16:37:15 UTC
2400 dollars
?
2010-11-18 09:56:54 UTC
if you can afford .... take the best ring !
HayleyRae;;
2010-11-17 23:06:35 UTC
3 months pay is proper.





:)
2010-11-17 12:00:59 UTC
emm well...............

100: eh u can do better

150: Good boy

200: really good

300-500: she'd definitely say yes!
2010-11-16 18:24:34 UTC
It doesn't have to be really expensive, but do make sure it's real.
Samantha Avila
2010-11-16 18:05:50 UTC
At least 500,000 dollars
allie
2010-11-16 17:07:48 UTC
2x the amount of your yearly salary
jabbotuk
2010-11-14 15:00:47 UTC
One month's income is the traditional norm.
?
2010-11-13 09:18:13 UTC
Rule of thumb is one months wages.
2010-11-12 11:42:40 UTC
Well it depends on how much you love that person and how much money you really have.
?
2010-11-12 04:24:57 UTC
3 months wages
Liam
2010-11-23 02:27:03 UTC
OVER 9000!!!!!
dudette
2010-11-20 09:31:59 UTC
not less then $300.00 thats all I need to say
Dr J
2010-11-17 06:54:47 UTC
its ment to be 2 months wages is it not?...
2010-11-23 06:59:19 UTC
a looooooooooooooot of money
cutie pie
2010-11-22 01:16:53 UTC
anything aslong u dont into debt.
?
2010-11-21 11:25:25 UTC
how did this get a thousand fricken answers lol!!!!
2010-11-18 20:33:26 UTC
cubic zirconium
2010-11-18 19:23:51 UTC
general rule is three months wages ...
I'm Not David Bowie
2010-11-18 06:29:28 UTC
mushroom gorge
?
2010-11-15 20:42:47 UTC
7-10k my sister's rings was 7k my other sister's was 10k. thank you. that's if you can afford it. weddings are suppose to last forever.
WelshLad
2010-11-12 05:07:43 UTC
I would spend what I can afford and be reasonable.
2010-11-11 16:14:27 UTC
call me flaky, I don't care... I've always had this dumb fixation with the number 33. I don't know why but my guess is because I Dj off and on and I hate CDs. I use records. Don't spend ONE RED CENT north of $3300. period.
Lotty.
2010-11-25 03:46:09 UTC
10p in one of them machines.
2010-11-24 17:35:44 UTC
alot
2010-11-23 21:19:41 UTC
this is unbealieble ssssssssssssssssoooooooooo many answers111
?
2010-11-22 19:48:39 UTC
as little as possible, without being too cheap :)
2010-11-22 11:18:13 UTC
depeds how much you love your wife and how much money u have
?
2010-11-19 00:44:13 UTC
depends. as long as it looks expensive :P
warshark0152
2010-11-18 13:51:02 UTC
as much as your heart and wallet will allow.
2010-11-16 23:08:05 UTC
a little bit more expensive
?
2010-11-16 11:32:24 UTC
As much as she would spend on you...
?
2010-11-25 19:39:50 UTC
Ummmmmmmm......................... 2 to 3 grand atleast
?
2010-11-25 11:19:28 UTC
About three month salary....
Andy
2010-11-22 08:30:04 UTC
how much is needed...and how much you can afford(ofc)

just make your half happy
?
2010-11-21 21:29:51 UTC
no more than a thousand dollars.unless your rich.
?
2010-11-18 09:02:17 UTC
it doesnt really matter as long as they like it
shahpar k
2010-11-17 14:24:55 UTC
for all of her engagement
JAZ
2010-11-16 15:04:20 UTC
5,000 is the best because it right in the middle
rhike
2010-11-13 11:47:51 UTC
One full month of salary
2010-11-11 10:22:33 UTC
None, who says a ring will seal the marriage? If you really love each other, a ring wouldn't do anything
2010-11-21 23:47:49 UTC
At least a grand.

:)
?
2010-11-20 15:05:52 UTC
have fun choosing best answer.
Paigeee
2010-11-17 18:29:47 UTC
Whatever you can afford- she will have it forever!!
BAMF!
2010-11-17 14:13:29 UTC
any amount, as long as u cant afford it
puhahahha
2010-11-14 15:25:16 UTC
more than 5000
?
2010-11-14 15:08:31 UTC
How ever much you love them. Every one thing you love about them add 100 bucks.
Mike
2010-11-14 01:18:31 UTC
two cents. As you hand your wife/husband their engagement ring you may present to them your two cents.
2010-11-11 06:13:28 UTC
Love and money is difficult. Perhaps the engagement ring should cost somewhere between £ove and $ove, an average of about €ove.
2010-11-21 07:52:45 UTC
What you can afford
Ravi E
2010-11-19 10:52:35 UTC
buy it quit complaying
Rojit Manandhar
2010-11-19 06:26:32 UTC
zero u should not marry....u gonna ruin your life...

haha

just for fun ...
Cassie
2010-11-17 10:00:13 UTC
....depends on how much you love the person(:
chris
2010-11-10 17:43:46 UTC
Tradition is, at least the way it was explained to me, the wedding rings value should equal at least 6 months salary of the spouse acquiring it. The reason being that should the marriage go south or the spouse decease suddenly the ring could be used as a cash reserve to support the spouse suffering loss. Also the commitment of six months wages shows determination of the spouse acquiring the ring and his or her commitment to the relationship.
Therline
2010-11-19 10:33:34 UTC
It depends on what you can afford, but don't be cheap. :)
violet1842003
2010-11-18 11:29:39 UTC
don't spend more than you can afford
-
2010-11-12 15:19:56 UTC
Just buy a fake one and hope that it doesn't turn her finger green.
Karamazov
2010-11-19 08:25:23 UTC
at least 1250 $ !!!!
GeekyKid117
2010-11-19 06:00:45 UTC
ATLEAST, AT THE VERY LEAST, IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER, ATLEAST $25,000.



DOn't be a cheap ***.
Ronald
2010-11-18 16:09:05 UTC
one month of your salary.
2010-11-14 20:19:06 UTC
9 billion
J M
2010-11-14 12:35:02 UTC
as much as u feel is necessary, if 100 mill wont convince him/her then sucks to you
SpLover4e
2010-11-25 09:11:31 UTC
50cents
?
2010-11-21 16:28:26 UTC
10,000,000,000,000,000,001



And that's not even expensive, so I'm being nice. :)
haley payton
2010-11-20 10:24:09 UTC
25cents
Ms B
2010-11-19 11:29:10 UTC
love has no price

so get whatever u what!!!
2010-11-18 21:24:07 UTC
about 1lakhs
Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore
2010-11-17 19:11:52 UTC
pump all your money into that sucker if you want a "yes"!
Tom-tim
2010-11-17 15:04:55 UTC
it depends on how much you have
Rahul
2010-11-17 01:13:58 UTC
25000
2010-11-16 16:10:23 UTC
If she love you as much as you love her she should love any!!!
2010-11-16 13:50:04 UTC
nothing. she can use an onion ring...that she bought.
2010-11-25 18:56:24 UTC
whatever your comfortable with and whatever is best for her
May M
2010-11-11 04:40:37 UTC
I can spend for engagement ring from 1 dollar to 1 million dollars because this is very very important for my life.
Janice M
2010-11-16 20:50:43 UTC
What can be afforded.
?
2010-11-12 09:05:34 UTC
I think you should spend about 5,000 or less.
Lynette Scavo...Soccer mom!!
2010-11-12 08:00:21 UTC
ASK THE GUYS!!



But if was a dude....what i can afford and if she's worth it!!
?
2010-11-10 20:04:24 UTC
I can’t fathom spending that much money on a piece of jewelry when you could be saving it for the honeymoon, a house, a car, or even retirement.



By combing estate sales and going out of business sales we managed to find both my engagement and wedding ring for under $300 each. The diamond is small, yes, but it is an antique and so beautiful and exactly what I wanted.



I am proud of my husband for being so frugal and truly listening to what I wanted. I told him I wanted an antique, sent him several pictures as examples, and told him I didn’t want him spending more than 1,000 if he could help it and if he found the perfect ring for less I would be thrilled. I don’t believe in starting a marriage up to your eyeballs in consumer debt.



People say “cost of the ring=quality of the marriage” but I find amongst people I know that that is true- in reverse of the way most people think. People who spend too much trying to impress people with the ring are often poor money managers who are so worried about keeping up with the Joneses that they live outside their means, drowning in debt, and wind up divorcing largely due to money fights. While people who are frugal about it and only spend what they can truly afford (not cheap, still getting a beautiful, quality, ring; just not worried about being able to say it has 2 carats and cost $6,000) are often better prepared for the realities and imperfections of marriage.



(my rings: http://www.antiquereflections.com/detail.asp?id=3190

http://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product1%7C10101%7C10001%7C-1%7C530960501%7C15051%7C15051.15058.15112)
bonnnti
2010-11-26 07:40:17 UTC
ALL THAT I MAY HAVE.AFTER ALL,IT IS WORN FOREVER RIGHT?
Abdirahman Ali
2010-11-25 07:38:57 UTC
however much would contend my loves heart... :)
?
2010-11-22 09:27:45 UTC
$10,000 dollars.
2010-11-19 09:25:02 UTC
3 B,USD
Alaina
2010-11-18 13:27:56 UTC
29,637,474,757,666 if u realy love her
alwaysdisturbed
2010-11-18 10:58:03 UTC
a lot
2010-11-17 17:12:49 UTC
eleven million
?
2010-11-17 09:16:59 UTC
about 4,000 or up that what i paided
murflaw76
2010-11-16 21:23:18 UTC
one month paycheck
leegaitherman
2010-11-12 10:39:35 UTC
depends on how much you love the person.
2010-11-22 13:31:45 UTC
50,00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 dollars!
Mushroom Power
2010-11-18 13:06:52 UTC
A LOT
?
2010-11-18 13:03:19 UTC
whatever your can afford
2010-11-18 10:47:47 UTC
not to much it's a crise !
iSaac
2010-11-16 21:44:52 UTC
You shouldn't..
Chanel
2010-11-11 12:59:06 UTC
As a jeweller myself we say that traditionally it is half your months wages!



but 'diamonds are forever' so you should pick something that you will love and want to look at everyday!



The price always reflects the quality
♥Pregnant With Baby Number 1♥
2010-11-15 16:44:26 UTC
whatever you want. i belive it should be an investment!
2010-11-13 01:29:06 UTC
At least 1,000,000 pounds/$1,610,305.96
?
2010-11-11 03:41:24 UTC
If I were to be married (which I'm not), I would spend probably $10,000 for a ring with a gem which is my wife's birth stone.
Amal
2010-11-25 17:47:38 UTC
buy what you can afford
Michelle
2010-11-22 17:33:29 UTC
as much as you can AFFORD
2010-11-18 16:49:15 UTC
njkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
Delightful Dave
2010-11-18 10:55:05 UTC
10% of your salary...they say! ;)
?
2010-11-18 01:12:05 UTC
about $5,000
Michael G.
2010-11-17 12:46:30 UTC
$3,000+
2010-11-16 18:56:46 UTC
they say you should spent up to 3months wages but yeah idk if you should spend that much

lol

as much as you can
?
2010-11-16 14:44:49 UTC
five dollars
2010-11-15 11:28:38 UTC
depends how rich her dad is
Juniper Sennett
2010-11-11 17:01:50 UTC
it depends on how much the girl means to you..............when you see one and it makes you think of her you know its the one
?
2010-11-10 16:24:21 UTC
About $3000 dollars.



You don't have to spend a fortune to buy a lovely, high quality engagement ring. Learn how to juggle stone size, stone quality, and cut to make the most of your budget.
2010-11-26 08:55:27 UTC
lots of love...
Raj
2010-11-18 04:18:39 UTC
only a bit ........ that what can be affordable ..
zeroxlulu
2010-11-16 19:20:22 UTC
OVER 9000 DOLLARS!!!!!!
2010-11-11 13:54:57 UTC
as much as you want its your life make it as good as you can
?
2010-11-11 12:21:21 UTC
size of the stone means absolutely NOTHING if its not backed by true unconditional love.
2010-11-11 08:59:44 UTC
traditionally its 1 weeks wages
AMRIN
2010-11-19 08:13:39 UTC
it depends...how much you can afford..
amazon dot com buyer...
2010-11-16 23:57:08 UTC
whatever you can afford.
?
2010-11-16 18:42:43 UTC
1000000000000000$
?
2010-11-11 15:10:15 UTC
at least 2 months wage- £1200 aprox
misscacazzy
2010-11-19 05:53:40 UTC
what you can afford
Tracy Litten
2010-11-17 16:18:50 UTC
$0.00
Bob B
2010-11-16 21:51:50 UTC
how bad do you want her? haha
2010-11-14 17:51:43 UTC
I'm 19 so I think $2,000
2010-11-11 10:59:33 UTC
Whatever you can get out of those gumball machines. So like $0.25?
SBVN
2010-11-10 15:49:20 UTC
Let's go with her answer when there was about 8 seconds remaining:



"Nya ma la ya..."



Play it back, thumbs up if you think it's funny!
2010-11-10 13:01:05 UTC
There used to be a theory that a man should spend three month's salary on an engagement ring for his fiance. So if you were to make $2,000 each month, then $6000 is what you should spend on an engagement ring. Nowadays, that theory is not necessarily adhered to any longer.





When looking at how much to spend on an engagement ring you need to look at how much you can really afford. Are you able to finance the ring? Do you want to make monthly payments are do you want to pay the ring off all at once? These things will all factor into how much you should spend on your engagement ring.





My advice is to first go window shopping for engagement rings. Take a look at what you would like to buy for your fiance-to-be and then start saving for that ring or you can decide to finance the ring if you can afford it. When financing, also make sure to find a reliable source, and look into different places. Be careful online, and only use reputable sources, such as a site like Prosper ( http://www.prosper.com/loans/personal/engagement-ring/ )





personal note:

If the engagement isn't going to be a surprise, I suggest simply asking. My wife actually picked a $59 engagement ring. While it made some people think I was cheap, it turned out that a big gem on her finger would have made gotten in the way at work. For that same reason, we actually have the same wedding ring in two different sizes which cost less than $700 total. For the record, I had actually saved up several thousand dollars for an engagement ring.
?
2010-11-18 20:51:19 UTC
however much you have.
dudeman9001
2010-11-18 10:17:30 UTC
i cnet
?
2010-11-18 05:24:59 UTC
$20,000
?
2010-11-17 10:59:24 UTC
in my finger.
2010-11-16 23:57:22 UTC
30,000
2010-11-14 00:31:39 UTC
1000000000
2010-11-10 13:34:37 UTC
Not a dime put it in a good stock or part of a down payment on a house.
Winnie
2010-11-10 12:50:40 UTC
I think a man should spend anywhere from 500 (if he doesn't have a good job and is saving up for the wedding expenses) to 5,000 (if he has a really good job and he'll be able to pay it quick) dollars on an engagement ring.
2010-11-16 16:27:03 UTC
$1,500
2010-11-20 15:43:39 UTC
nothing
moron5000
2010-11-18 08:11:48 UTC
$200.00
Missylaneous
2010-11-17 21:10:44 UTC
WHATEVER YOU CAN AFFORD
2010-11-17 11:25:34 UTC
none
Me
2010-11-16 14:36:00 UTC
over $9,000!
?
2010-11-13 16:48:50 UTC
$534 - no more no less
zarabell39
2010-11-13 06:45:12 UTC
The old saying was.............'your month's salary', so get saving!! :)
Kevin7
2010-11-11 15:40:37 UTC
i think at least 5 percent of your income
shazza
2010-11-11 08:07:07 UTC
if you love someone you shouldn't need to ask how much
2010-11-10 22:15:37 UTC
Be economical if she loves you she will be pleased with any ring
Sant Nick Nickle
2010-11-25 20:56:31 UTC
The hell with your engagement ring, the hell with the video. You suck, and every one who answered this questions can blow me, and suck all the crap out my anus......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................I'm just kidding!! Could you imagine? I'd say about 2000 dollars. It depends on where you shop.
Evens Pierrelouis
2010-11-26 13:22:24 UTC
when $12,000
Sydney
2010-11-22 13:32:11 UTC
that true
jblvr
2010-11-16 16:59:24 UTC
no more than 10,000
Clayton M
2010-11-11 04:13:42 UTC
I would pay anything for that special ring!
Greetmir
2010-11-11 03:39:01 UTC
One month's income is recommended.



me
?
2010-11-11 00:31:23 UTC
more than 1000 dollars
2010-11-10 12:50:29 UTC
Tradition dictates that you should spend a full month's wages. Doesn't sound like a lot at first but when you have to save it up it can take quite a while. I think that's a great way to show your commitment and also make sure you're giving yourselves enough time to make sure you're ready.
pj
2010-11-10 12:20:09 UTC
Buy a second hand ring or none at all! My main concern wouldn't be cost, but the materials that go into the ring.



Say no to blood diamonds! http://www.stopblooddiamonds.org/



Be aware of the toxic impact of gold mining. http://www.enviroliteracy.org/article.php/1120.html



We don't have to serve the economy - the economy should serve us! This means consumerism taking a back seat to human creativity, craftsmanship, community-building, and other basic quality of life issues.

The purchase should be all about love - love of the partner, yes - but also loving values that extend outward to the larger human community.
ruby
2010-11-16 15:31:22 UTC
200,000
Lily Bug!
2010-11-13 07:26:16 UTC
three months your salary. (:
2010-11-11 16:03:10 UTC
at least 3 months salary!!! typical rule!
Abdullah Shakir
2010-11-19 05:02:00 UTC
£650,000,038,428,475,395
His Girl
2010-11-18 09:19:29 UTC
alot of money!!!!! =) lol.~~~♥
Don
2010-11-17 08:05:31 UTC
$ 0.00
UnSure
2010-11-10 20:58:11 UTC
1,000 dollars + is probably good enough for a ring
jedimaddox@rocketmail.com
2010-11-10 18:38:45 UTC
As much as you could afford.
Israel
2010-11-10 18:10:05 UTC
I cant tell the difference between a $10K ring and a $3K ring. I think only a professional can tell the difference. If the concept of getting engaged means a lot to her, a good ring will make her happy. Like everybody else is saying NO DEBT!
evangelist_4christ@yahoo.com
2010-11-10 17:23:47 UTC
OK.YOU NEED. TO PAY. ALL. YOU CAN. IT IS GOOD. TO HAVE A GOOD. MAN. & A GOD WOMAN. YES THEY WILL BE HAPPY. & YOU WILL BE HAPPY. IT IS ALL. ABOUT LIVE. . LIVE IT. & GO TO CHURCH. OK. I PRAY I DID HELP. YOU WITH THE. RING. OK. WITH LOVE FOR ALL. DR.EVANGELIST.JOHNNY. VANCE. OMAR.W.VA. MY GOD BLESS,
Jolie
2010-11-10 16:32:27 UTC
I'd say no more than $5,000. You don't want to look like you have a Ring Pop on your hand!
Ro
2010-11-10 14:52:26 UTC
$3400- $7000
Turttel
2010-11-10 14:32:28 UTC
NOTHING

IT IS BETTER IN THE LONG RUN JUST TO STAY SINGLE. kIDS COST A FORTUNE IN THE LONG RUN! Live with her but don't marry her.
?
2010-11-10 13:50:41 UTC
$1000
?
2010-11-10 13:42:07 UTC
The maximum I'd spend is like $300. I mean if you really love someone, there's no price in what you can pay. :)
?
2010-11-10 17:23:18 UTC
You should spend at lest 3 months salary.But if you can't really afford if,most women that truly love you,will wear what you give her proudly any way.All we care about is that you love her and faithful key word faithful.
cutie101
2010-11-10 16:48:37 UTC
Something that is affordable & comfortable :)

Getting married is precious- something that will be remembered for a long time.

The thought is what counts and what is perfect for your spouse.



Being comfortable will make the couple happy with it.

She is the person who you are marrying - if you cannot afford a good one - she will still love the fact that you love her and are trying your best to get one for her.

It doesn't matter if the ring is expensive or not - all that matters is the thought of it in your heart.

Although a ring is cheap - the person you are buying it to will appreciate it more than ever! :)
Amanda C
2010-11-10 15:54:02 UTC
My husband spent $10,000. I think that's a good amount - it didn't put us in debt and I believe that's all that counts!
2010-11-10 11:57:39 UTC
R20000 which is about $3000

i mean it something that is suppose to mean allot and last "forever"
2010-11-10 11:55:38 UTC
The tradición for a good luck and a Long marriage is a full month salary of the broom
Sima
2010-11-11 09:18:59 UTC
$2,100 USD or £1,301 GBP
Shellypoo
2010-11-10 17:37:04 UTC
Depends on how much you think she is worth?
?
2010-11-10 17:18:04 UTC
Seriously, a ring is forever... I think it's ok to go all out. But I feel totally different about weddings. Those I think should be done inexpensively.

The biggest downside to an expensive ring is people's jealousy.
sarah warren
2010-11-12 21:10:00 UTC
DOESNT MATTER AS LONG AS ITS PRETTY





https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20101112205633AAj6QHX





ANSWEER MINE PLEASE
whee
2010-11-10 22:42:25 UTC
about 100,000 pennies.
?
2010-11-10 21:36:27 UTC
MONEY = HAPPY ;] LOL JK BUT IT HAS TO LOOK NICE. NO FAKE DIAMONDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2010-11-10 18:15:07 UTC
3to5 thousand if you can afford it.
♥ Lupin the She Wolf ♥
2010-11-10 15:20:10 UTC
Isn't it kind of obvious, Yahoo?
2010-11-10 15:18:08 UTC
25,000 because i want my lady to feel special and she would be worth it
diamondcollector
2010-11-10 15:11:39 UTC
only what you can afford, given your total financial situation.



you can get married with two matching plain gold bands from walmart or JC penney. and you will be just as married.



estate jewelry is always good. you can buy a ring on ebay or a pawn shop and get the diamond reset in a fresh setting. i would read Renee Newman's "diamond ring buying guide" and learn about stones before attempting this. I would also log onto pricescope http://www.pricescope.com/forum/ and learn, learn, learn before you set out.



i would spend two weeks salary, assuming you are financially set and have no debt other than a mortgage.
princton_girl
2010-11-10 14:33:33 UTC
the price should be one which a person can afford but one that is the cheapest of the bunch. if the cheapest is what one can afford then don't go into debt at the start of a marriage.
None
2010-11-10 14:29:26 UTC
Well to save money i would go find some rings that are on sale to save money. as long as i don't go into debt i will pay alot to make my partner as happy as possible. getting the ones on sale is always on top of my mind because saving a couple hundred dollars can make a difference into buying a second gift for your partner=)the more you save on a ring for your partner, you might have enough leftover to buy some earrings to go along with the ring.
2010-11-10 14:15:03 UTC
Whatever you can afford without going into hock, the point of the wedding and the ring is to be together out of love, not for the size of the stone in the ring or the cost.
?
2010-11-10 11:55:06 UTC
I'[ve always heard of the 'Two-months salary' rule. This is just an arbitrary guideline established by the jewelry and diamond industry.



Two months salary refers to the gross amount you make before taxes and deductions.



The standard rule of spending two months salary on an engagement ring began with DeBeers, the largest diamond producer and marketer in the world, who in 1947 launched a marketing campaign called "A Diamond Is Forever" to stimulate sales in the depressed wartime market.



In fact, MEN SPEND FROM $2,600 to $4,000 ON AN ENGAGEMENT RING ON AVERAGE.



You should pay attention to the four C's when buying a ring:



•Carat: A carat is a weighting system used by jewelers. The more carats, the heavier the stone, and the more expensive it is.



•Color: Colorless gems are the most rare and expensive type of diamond, while cloudy, tinted, or shaded stones decrease in price as the color becomes more noticeable.

. Fancy colors, such as pink, blue, and yellow, are significantly more expensive than even pure colorless stones because of their rarity.



•Clarity: The more clear a diamond is, the more expensive it will be.



•Cut: The cut and shape of the diamond affects its price depending on the difficulty involved. Emerald and princess cuts are among the least expensive. Heart-shaped, pear, and oval cuts are more expensive. Trademarked cuts such as the Hearts on Fire or Asscher are more exclusive and therefore more expensive.



A $1,000.00 ring will likely be lacking in two or three of the four C's.



Other factors to consider are:



SETTING: Prong settings are the least expensive. Tension and Bezel are among the most expensive.

METAL: Prices can begin in the lower range with Silver, to the more expensive Platinum.

DESIGN: Solitaires are the least expensive; Bridal Sets and Three-Stone rings are more expensive.



Spending too much or too little may make either bride or groom feel ashamed, uncomfortable, stressed or disappointed.



To avoid this discuss your budget and what can be afforded before ring shopping.
2010-11-10 11:52:35 UTC
Somewhere between 1 and 1 million dollars.
Lovely <3
2010-11-10 13:51:54 UTC
The real question is how much the person can afford. An engagement ring is something you have to put into your budget unless you have endless money
Blunt
2010-11-10 11:59:15 UTC
People should spend what they can comfortably afford within their means. Nothing so cheap that your Iphone costs more, and not so much that you will be in debt for the rest of your life.



Good luck
Thundercat
2010-11-10 11:27:39 UTC
As much as she wants to spend out of her pocket.



Why is it always assumed the man buys the ring? Feminism has given women freedom from relying on a man for anything.
2010-11-10 11:01:01 UTC
Save up 3 months of income and use all of it on the ring
2010-11-18 07:25:35 UTC
.
2010-11-15 16:15:28 UTC
only wat u can afford
MATT E
2010-11-10 17:16:27 UTC
Do not marry a woman who puts a price minimum on the ring.

get a CZ and invest the rest for your everlasting future.

Show you true love by your actions as a good man, husband, father....
Computed
2010-11-10 15:23:14 UTC
As much as you can afford. Even the cheapest rings will mean alot to the person you are buying it for.
?
2010-11-10 14:56:00 UTC
The Ring Of The Family ''Like My Grandma's Ring Or My Mother Ring'' Is Better That 1000000 $ Ring ..
Snuggles
2010-11-10 14:24:05 UTC
Well Its not all about an Expensive ring.(. Its Whats in your heart ).But don't spend over youns means . A Few Hundred in plenty
ye♊ow
2010-11-10 14:16:57 UTC
Traditionally isn't it 1 and a half month's pay? But of course, I think it should be what you can afford with cash and not credit. Big rocks are obnoxious to me anyway..
PrettyKitty
2010-11-10 14:11:47 UTC
10,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000.
☼ GƖơώ ✞ Ѡɪηǥs ☼
2010-11-10 14:01:59 UTC
I think this depends first on the amount of money you reasonably have to spend. It should not really matter how much is spent, it's appearance or if you really have to have one at all. It is not in the money, ring or status that truly counts. It's in the "Heart"!

I have been happily married for 25 years and was wed with a traditional wedding band, in a small country church, without attendants and all the frills. To this day, I have no desire for anything more.

The intended union is between man, woman and God. Everything else is just frivolity and "Mo' Money"! :D



Peace and Blessings

Yahoo! Answers Team
chowinis
2010-11-10 12:34:46 UTC
IS NOT THE PRICE !! Is what you can afford and like.
2010-11-10 12:05:57 UTC
It's not about the money. I think it's better not to spend more than 1K on a engagement ring and save the rest for more important things.
detective
2010-11-10 11:57:50 UTC
whatever you can do for it last...
Susan S
2010-11-10 11:33:01 UTC
i expect poor girls should count on at least $300.00, middle-class about $500.00, and girls that work and have money should spend between $1000.00 to $1500.00. the rich girls should expect about a $5000.00 ring for sure. aren't i funny. nice question though.
Stephen
2010-11-17 02:10:59 UTC
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meh
2010-11-10 16:17:35 UTC
nothing
2010-11-10 12:47:22 UTC
whatever you can comfortably afford without going outside your means. There is much more to a wedding than simply the ring like the event itself and all the planning from the bride's dress to the grooms.
joshua w
2010-11-10 12:04:19 UTC
Don't spend anything. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
Katie ─▲═
2010-11-10 11:54:54 UTC
I know if ma man don't spend at least $3,000 he aint go'n get ma hand in merig mmmhmmm
?
2010-11-10 11:28:14 UTC
Whatever is comfortable enough for you to spend and won't put you in debt and whatever your fiance loves.
Matron Cofelia
2010-11-10 11:20:18 UTC
I don't think you should spend any more than $200 personally. I don't wear African diamonds (I don't believe in supporting slave labor, civil wars, and child labor just for a little sparky rock on my finger) , and I don't believe in wasting money on something so trivial. I love my husband and I didn't need my man to go into debt just to prove it, especially when he proves it to me every single day with his actions and words.


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