Question:
Is The Sweet or Creepy??????
2007-12-23 19:26:28 UTC
I have been going out with my girlfriend since the 7th grade, and we are both 23 years old now (we were 12-13 when we in the 7th grade) so we have been dating for 10 years.

I asked her out on January 6th (I passed her a note, asking her out, and she said yes. And I still have the note)

So my question is, would it be weird to ask her to marry me on January 6th? Or would it be sweet?

P.S. I have the note because I put it in a shoebox under my bed, and I found it when I was packing for college. So it's not like I framed it on my wall.
96 answers:
2007-12-23 19:28:40 UTC
It's very sweet, as long as she knows what the date means. ;) Good luck.
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2016-05-26 06:07:46 UTC
Creepy
2007-12-23 20:24:20 UTC
Oh that would be so very, very sweet. I hope she remembers the date, if not, get the note out afterwards and tell her that is why you did it. I think it would be sweet to hand her a note asking her to marry you and when she opens it to read it get down on one knee with the ring ready for her reply. You are such a sweet, loving man to think of a proposal like that.
rose_n_oklahoma
2007-12-23 19:30:42 UTC
OMG yes yes yes, ask her!!

what i would suggest is go and make a copy of the note and then write under that... ummmmmmm like, I know its been forever since you saw this note, but since the day I wrote it I knew you were the only one for me..

then get on your knees and ask her to marry you.. I bet that letter will be a frame next jan 6th, I wish you the best and happy marriage!
sunflower
2007-12-27 16:33:26 UTC
I know I'm like the 100th person to answer this, but I think it's such a sweet idea! If possible, use the note in the proposal. Mark out where you wrote "go out with me" & write "marry me" instead. Best wishes to you both!
Mee
2007-12-23 19:54:53 UTC
Definitely!



And I don't know if you're fishing for ideas yet, but take that same note and stick it on top of another note that looks about the same that says something like "Will you marry me?" Give her the old note on top of the new one whenever you do propose to her and she'll look at both of them...works from there.



Anyway, that's so sweet :) And i'm one of those non-mushy types too
animal_mother
2007-12-23 19:31:11 UTC
Oh, that's sweet! What you could do is make a photocopy of it and cross out the words "go out with me" (or whatever it actually says) and write above it "marry me". Then fold it all up like you did in 7th grade and give it to her. Good luck.!
2007-12-23 19:30:15 UTC
That would be the sweetest thing in the world to do. That would be the perfect moment and it would be priceless. It would be very memorable if you wrote on the note will you marry me, and then give her the note and ask if she remembers it and she will read the bottom part that says will you marry me and she will love it! Any girl would love it!
loki_only1
2007-12-23 21:34:03 UTC
I think thats a FABULOUS idea... not only that, i say take her to dinner or something.... be non-chalant "oh, hey, look waht i found while cleaning" and show her the original note...



While shes lookin at that note, pass her another that says " will you marry me?" and have the yes or no check boxes! HOT!



Its ok, i still have the program from the play my fiance and i went to on our first date. Its no accident, its cute! Nothing creepy about that at all... i think its darn romantic... you go boy!
2007-12-23 19:31:53 UTC
that is by far the most adorable thing i have ever heard!

yeah would be so sweet i would go for it!

its so cute that you still have the note too

10 years is along time

i would deff ask her

she would say yes too, you seems like a sweet guy!

doooo ittttt

hoped this helped

merry xmas <3 peace out
princesaajess
2007-12-23 19:29:42 UTC
Oh that is sooooooooooooo sweet! Do it. I would love that. I have everything with my fiance from years ago too. I have a special box for that kind of stuff and I have all the dates matching too. I say do it, not creepy. Really sweet! Good luck!
the_kid_doesnt_care
2007-12-23 19:57:43 UTC
awwww. im tearing up over here. i think that would be absolutely one of the sweetest things. she would or at least should appreciate the fact that u actually remember when u all met and still have the note. u all should plan to get married on the same day as well. that would be special
shavon
2007-12-23 19:30:50 UTC
Yes, that would be sooooo sweet! Maybe you should take the note and cross out the part where it asks her out and put will you marry me.
Lunasea
2007-12-23 19:30:45 UTC
Definitely sweet. I think she will be pleased to know that you remembered the date and that it was special enough for you to keep the note. I haven't met many men that are that sentimental, but I sure would appreciate it if I did.
2007-12-23 19:47:30 UTC
It's a cute idea, especially if you show her the original note.



my only concern is...have you two ever dated anyone else? I mean it's a big world out there, are you sure you want to marry the only person you've ever dated? I'm assuming you haven't dated many other people?
2007-12-23 19:35:03 UTC
Let me start off saying that's so cute! Next, it would be nice if you asked her to marrie her the same day and it would make your anniversary More meaningful so I say GO A HEAD IT WOULD BE SWEET!
2007-12-23 20:08:36 UTC
Awww... that'd be so sweet. I'd say January 6 or the day of your first date. I wish all men were as romantic as you.
jennyvee
2007-12-23 21:48:10 UTC
My vote is defintiely for "SWEET"!



My guy and I have almost the same story as you...we got together when I was 15, I'm almost 25 now, and although I don't "know" anything, I'm pretty sure we'll be engaged soon, too!



congrats!
meekee02
2007-12-23 19:29:51 UTC
It would be sweet. And you should aske her to marry you the same way you asked her out. Attach the original letter too lol.
The Super
2007-12-23 19:29:23 UTC
Why would it be weird? I think it's sweet. And you should get married on the 6th too.
scuba dolphin
2007-12-23 20:46:30 UTC
Do it! And propose with the same piece of paper, except cross out the "will you go out with me" and put "marry me" instead. That would be so sweet!
Sushiii
2007-12-23 19:32:20 UTC
WOOOOT!! go you! wow, u guys rule man. lol i remember i had a bf in 8th grade and we wer e sooo akward we broke up in a month. wow, 7th grade and now 23??? you guys are meant for each other.



Anyways, that is extremely sweet, and not creepy at all. Go for it! =]

And once again, go you! lol
Lights Fan (:
2007-12-23 19:31:22 UTC
that's sweet but you have to be sure that nobody else asks her out while you're waiting for January 6th and that the relationship's going well.
Jenn
2007-12-23 19:30:03 UTC
I think that is so sweet...find a way to make a box out of notebook paper and put the ring in it!!!
flabbergasted
2007-12-23 19:29:51 UTC
I think she would appreciate the fact that you are a hopeless romantic. Or that's at least what I would think, not many guys would put that much thought into the process. I think it would be a really SWEET, great idea.
Sarah P
2007-12-23 19:29:19 UTC
As long as she remembers that that is how you met originally, and when you met originally, then yes, it'd be so sweet. You might consider copying the note as closely as possible, and changing "go out with me" to "marry me". :)



Cheers
2007-12-23 19:30:14 UTC
awww no that would be sweet but i hope she remembers that day you should ask her in a note at like dinner but make sure you get on your knee when you give it to her
Damisses
2007-12-24 00:07:45 UTC
if i was ur girlfriend and you asked me to marry you the same way you did when you first asked i would think that will be super sweet
2007-12-23 19:29:32 UTC
sweet, and if you did have the note framed, that would be sweet too. Congrats and good luck.
Monica
2007-12-23 19:29:59 UTC
Does she know that you asked her out on that day or do you just remember it. If she knows than it would definitely be sweet. If not that it may be pointless to her.
Fluff S
2007-12-23 23:15:12 UTC
sweet - why don't you do the same thing again - pass her a note proposing.



that's soo cool! Congrats
hannah h
2007-12-23 19:35:38 UTC
I don't think that is creepy, in fact i think it is one of the sweetest things i have ever heard. she obviously loves you if she has been with you for this long. don't let us, people you don't know, decide weather you should marry this girl, you have to follow your hart on this one. good luck! and happy holidays!

~»hannah
2007-12-23 19:30:41 UTC
sweet. and better yet ask her with a note. I wonder if she would be surprized that you remember all of the details.
2007-12-23 19:59:30 UTC
thats sooooooooo sweett...

would be really cute 2 if you showed her the note...

I would love to see it after 10 years!
Mellie Moo
2007-12-23 19:35:56 UTC
Not weird at all totally sweet and very romantic!!
perla0776
2007-12-23 19:32:06 UTC
that would be VERY sweet and romantic, I would love that, I don't know any girl that wouldn't



[just hope she remembers the significance of that date, lol]



good luck
2007-12-23 19:29:51 UTC
aww you should do that

just pass her the note again

but cross out

"go out with"

and under it write

"marry"

i would lyke

love you forever
Sarah
2007-12-23 19:29:38 UTC
awwwwwwwwwwwww i think thats so sweet <3 shes probably love it since you ACTUALLY remembered the date from that long ago
2007-12-23 19:29:30 UTC
Awww, thats Sweet, I think!
2007-12-23 19:29:21 UTC
That would be so sweet!!! If that happened to me, I would be shocked that you remembered. Of course you should totally do that! Good Luck! : ]
la de da
2007-12-23 22:32:34 UTC
adorable!!!!!



go for it !111



i would frame the note !!! with a nice picture of you two as kids give to her as gift and just before she speaks then propose.....
Liz
2007-12-23 19:30:20 UTC
my opinion: Write it on the same note, on the other side, stick it in the box with the ring.
singer4u1984
2007-12-23 22:07:33 UTC
Awwww that is so sweet! I say that it is a sweet gesture. I am a girl!
Libby
2007-12-23 19:29:10 UTC
Not creepy! Very sweet!
Helen
2007-12-23 19:28:59 UTC
That's sweet.
TexasChick
2007-12-23 19:31:17 UTC
I think that would be the sweetest thing ever!!! You should get married on that date too!!
2007-12-23 19:29:53 UTC
It's nice, but probably not a good Idea to marry her. YOu don't really know what love is considering you haven't had much experience but her. Good luck.
bria<3
2007-12-23 19:29:35 UTC
omg! thats like SUUUUPER cute! yes do it!

you know you should ask her to marry you like on a note too! :]]]] super cute! good luck to both of you! :]
Taylor L
2007-12-23 19:32:46 UTC
you should write her another note, asking her to marry you.

that would be amazingly sweet... no joke.

:D





good luck!
moxwell69
2007-12-23 19:30:12 UTC
honestly it's a great idea cause it shows a continous non stop love for each other
BudLt
2007-12-23 19:30:41 UTC
You should ask her as planned. It's pretty far from Creepy.
rockstar_on_oboe
2007-12-23 19:30:38 UTC
It would be totally sweet. Awwwwwwwwwww.
2007-12-23 19:30:07 UTC
That would be the sweetest thing ever. So cute and thoughtful.. Do it
Katy
2007-12-23 19:29:33 UTC
YESSSSSS ask her to marry you on january 6th, she'll love it.
♥
2007-12-23 19:29:14 UTC
i think its sweet because it shows that you remember important things like that
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2007-12-23 19:34:34 UTC
That's so sweet (I'm a girl)! You should do that.
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2007-12-23 19:29:50 UTC
most def sweet, ..and i would keep that note, and photocopy it ...on the back of your wedding invitations....that 'd be so cool!
lsnajdr911
2007-12-23 19:29:16 UTC
give her the note and put a ring in it
Ryan S
2007-12-23 19:29:11 UTC
do it on Jan 6th for sure romantic
Mimz
2007-12-23 19:30:37 UTC
Gosh I think you need to date around before you settle with your first girlfriend ever! Thats pretty brutal.
Lovely
2007-12-23 19:30:32 UTC
That would really be sweet.
bluegirl87
2007-12-23 19:30:09 UTC
Aw, that's so sweet! Go for it!
JLMC
2007-12-23 19:55:08 UTC
Very Romantic! I say go for it!
2007-12-23 19:34:18 UTC
You are awesome!! probably the best idea I have ever heard of!!
2007-12-23 19:32:33 UTC
it's very sweet



but a little predictible, no?



the day you propose isnt important, its the day you get married that is.
Rina
2007-12-23 19:29:05 UTC
sounds like a great idea to me
emolover
2007-12-23 19:30:08 UTC
i think that would be sweet if she remembered that! yea that would be very cute! LOL! luv ya!
violaweasel
2007-12-23 19:28:59 UTC
I say it's sweet!
تشاك نوريس
2007-12-23 19:29:30 UTC
well... if you've lasted for 10 years, i'd say that wouldn't be creepy at all.
mamacandy74
2007-12-23 19:29:17 UTC
I think it would be incredibly sweet.
88
2007-12-23 19:30:03 UTC
that would be really sweet i think she would like it
The Mrs.
2007-12-26 12:20:13 UTC
It's sweet...go for it!
VONNiE
2007-12-23 23:07:07 UTC
thats very sweet && romantic
Ashley W
2007-12-23 19:29:54 UTC
It would be sweet
2007-12-23 19:28:40 UTC
It would be sweet
Sweetheart14
2007-12-26 06:32:40 UTC
That's cute!
Ginger
2007-12-23 19:34:42 UTC
very sweet
gfl1996
2007-12-23 19:29:38 UTC
i think it would be totally sweet! i would totally say yes if i were her!
Suz123
2007-12-24 09:53:08 UTC
Sweet.



My best wishes to you both.
DeafGurl
2007-12-23 19:35:36 UTC
i think it would be hella sweeeeeeeeet if you did that...

and seeing that jan. 6 is coming up soon....
2007-12-23 19:29:34 UTC
that would be cool...give her the note too
mary 4316
2007-12-23 19:29:16 UTC
that would be sweet on my point of view.
Nicole A
2007-12-23 20:35:37 UTC
I think it would be sweet :)
Baba Lou
2007-12-23 19:28:31 UTC
Nah, I think she'd love it
Jolene U
2007-12-23 19:30:38 UTC
that is SO sweet.

awwwwwww.

wow guys should take a lesson from you.
2007-12-23 19:30:03 UTC
naa

how is this weird

it's so sweet
kid123456
2007-12-23 19:30:35 UTC
yes you should
2007-12-23 19:30:17 UTC
I would love it
Janie
2007-12-23 19:30:15 UTC
aww..thatd be sweet
tiger lily
2007-12-23 19:29:22 UTC
that would be sweet.
2007-12-23 19:29:18 UTC
That would be relle sweet!!!!Wish I was her......yeah,I wish....
2007-12-23 19:29:26 UTC
it would be totally and awesomly romantic =]]]
2007-12-23 19:30:06 UTC
ohhhh, that would be so sweet!!! plus its comming up so i would do it!!! oh that would be so cute!!! please do it!! she will be so happy
2007-12-23 19:29:23 UTC
it would be the sweetest thing! (=
2007-12-23 19:28:24 UTC
i would dig it if i were a girl.
2007-12-23 19:29:22 UTC
do it


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